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writes: right im 17 i have only done sexual things once! and so ye im a virgin!! do you think this is kinda sad as im 17! and most people my age are sleeping around! i was to lose my virginty its just in scared and have no idea what im doing lol advice people thankss x Reply to this Question
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reader, neko675  +, writes (8 February 2009):
Im also 17 and still a virgin I have a bf who I love to death we do some 4play but no sex until hes 18 because hes only 15 he said he would wait forever for me so If I were you I would wait till you meet a right guy who you will share a good romantic experiance sex is supposed to be a spiritual thing with your partner at least thats advie Ib gotten or read up on just because your freinds are doing it now doesnt mean you have to wait until your ready there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at all trust me hope you meet the right guy who loves you good luck hun =]
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reader, PrincessSmithee  +, writes (10 December 2008):
 Im 17 and im a virgin
all my friends are sleeping around and i have one friend which is a virgin but she wants to lose it the next oppurnity she gets.
I think different..
Im going to wait until i find that AMAZING boy that i love and he loves me back, a boy that i cant live without, someone that makes me smile all the time.
because when i lose it to him it will be sooooo specail, a moment that ul remember forever :)
SO PLEASEEE dont lose it to a dirty scumbag of a boy just becuase you feel like you have to lose it. Im going to wait aslong as it takes to find somone really speecail, becuase it will be worth it.
Besides think about it, lose it to a specail person your in love with, then if things dont work out you can have sex with whoever you want :)
THERES NOTHING BAD ABOUT BEING A VIRGIN , BE PROUD :)
GUYS WILL RESPECT YOU MORE ASWEL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I think the age isn't important when you loose your viginity. It happens when you want it to happen. Ignore all of the others that are having sex at your age, i really bet that they have not got no responsibility for themselves. You do it when your ready mate no worries at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): Look im 17 and still a virgin screw whatever other ppl think its your body and its your decision if u want to give it away to someone. I have a lot of friends. A lot of which sleep around and have boyfriends that they do it with all the time, but I dont buy into it im waiting.
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reader, XxTashaxX +, writes (7 November 2006):
 it isn't sad being a virgin at 17, im only 15 and i plan on being a virgin as long as i possible can. wen u r ready for sex you will know; as it will feel right for both you and your partner, so wait till your ready dont go rushing into anything you will regret. as you only have one chance to lose your virginity.
good luckxx
XxTashaxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): ah well i was about 22, and i think a lot more people than you think aren't experienced at 17! really, don't just fall into the bracket of sleeping around or thinking that it's strange that you haven't yet. sleeping around and that can destroy future relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): Be PROUD of urself!!
I lost my virginity when i was 17 and a half to my bfriend who i ended up with for a year- and i still regret it!! (Im 20 now)Best advice i can give u: wait until uve been with a boyfriend for AT LEAST 6months. If a guy can stay with u for 6 months and not have sex with u (and of course be faithful) then he definitely respects u and if u love him and feel that ur ready then go ahead.But dont be in any hurry: sometimes u'l feel left out but in the end u will respect urself more and go ahead and be secretly proud; when u look at ur other gfriends remember: they probably lost it to someone who doesnt even care about them!
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reader, mand +, writes (6 November 2006):
the last thing you want to do is feel like you have to do it just because all of your friend have, just be patient and wait for the right person to come along, some one you are comfy with, you have got to think this is something you will always look back on so if you just did it because you felt like you were to old to be a virgin it would haunt you, my first time was a disaster because i felt just like you did and i wish i could just forget it, i wish i would have waited for the right person, noone should make fun of you being a virgin and if they do their not worth knowing or probably even jealous for not waiting them selves, they are probably haunted like i am, ITS REALLY NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED ABOUT BABES xxxxxxx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 November 2006):
 When I was 17 (three years ago), I was totally in the same boat. I know EXACTLY how you feel. All of my friends kept having these fun gab session about their sex live and their latest hilarious sexcapades... and then there was me. I felt SO left out.
It wasn't like any of them were pressuring me, but I still felt the pressure to do it.
But I waited anyways. I waited until I found a guy who I knew was really special. Finally I lost my virginity at 19. I'm so glad that I did wait for the guy I'm with, and I know I did the right thing in not just finding some guy who I liked alright and doing it with him.
You're not weird, not sad... you're incredible and fabulous. Enjoy yourself and live it up. You're 17!! Best time of your life.
Stay gorgeous...
India
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reader, x..Becky..x +, writes (5 November 2006):
 Noo .. it is definately not a bad thing to still be a virgin at the age of 17, if anything it shows a lot of responsibilty and self respect aswell as good moral standards.
There are absolutely loads of adults aged around 30 that are still virgins, It all depends on when you mentally and physically feel ready. Take care hun xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): its not a bad thing at all, you dont want to lose your virginity for the sake of it, you hold on to it you'll know when you have met the right person. dont be in such a rush your still young.
and why would you wnat to do it just because your friends have?, this is something special hold on to it, make it mean something special.
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