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writes: my husband works 12 hr days and sometimes our schedule are not the same he works 6pm til 6am and I work 2pm til 1030pm. and sometimes I come home and find a towl that I can smell his man scent on so I know that he has maturbated should I be offended at this? somtimes before work I try and wake him up to spend time with him but he is just to tired. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006): In a word "no".
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 I don't think you should get offended by the fact he gives himself some sweet self lovin'. You said it yourself - your schedules are off, it doesn't sound like you've got a lot of time overlapping to give you time for sex.
Just be glad he's making sweet love to himself, and not somebody else.
And while your schedules aren't allowing time to be with each other, maybe you should get yourself a little lover too - vibrators are a beautiful thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): Men masturbate all the time its natural, they get a release from it.
And all women masturbate so why would you be offedned that he does it too.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (5 November 2006):
 I do not think you should be upset at all, he is workimg all day and he is not unfaithful to you, if he just feels like relaxin' that way when you're not around and your sex life works ok I wouldn't be offended at all and I think you shouldn't feel it's your fault or something it is just something all men do
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