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writes: I just recently started my new job and its been hard on my boyfriend and I. We don't get to see too much of one another during the week but he promised we would spend the weekends together. And now hes too busy and has other plans. We have been together for 3 years. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tine  +, writes (5 November 2006):
 i agree with Becky if you havent already done so try talkin gto him and tell him how you feel. You are married and all you are doing is working hard to try and make your lives better off financially however if you both are off work at the weekends i dont see why you both cannot spend this time together. How about booking dinner in advance or saying to your husband about doing something next weekend so that the only plans hes making for the weekends involve you. Or even how about asking him can you do whatever he is doing at the weekends. Im sure its putting astrain on your relationship by not seeing each other that often however you need to spend every minute of the time that you are together doing something special, even if it is only watching a dvd or curling up on the sofa to watch tv.
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reader, x..Becky..x +, writes (5 November 2006):
 This may be stating the obvious, but have you tried talking to your boyfriend about the way you are feeling and the fact that he is too busy at weekends now too.. try telling him that you feel it is harming the relationship you both share, but also you have to understand and make it clear that you cannot stop him from doing his job and that is not your intention, otherwise, he may get the wrong idea and be driven away. Maybe you could go visit him at work odd days that is of course if his job is not a professional office and what not. If he works somewhere local and quite public you could go to say 'hi'.. Maybe that puts your mind to rest and your help your heart feel content.
Good Luck Angel, hope everything works out. x
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (5 November 2006):
 Well try to talk to him on the phone as much as possible and txt him, make him see you cate very much and do things together as often as possible try to reserve some time a day even if it's an hour to chat or go for a drink, some sex etc if work is the only problem(?) it will solve, talk to him and plan special things by surprise to keep the flame
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