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writes:Hi, Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for just over 6 months! I really really care about him, but last night we had our very first row. I dont know how to make it better and i dont want to loose him - this row is playing such a big part on my mind. I dont know which of us is to blame and I dont know what to say to make it better. Basically my hobbie is as a technition and I do all the lighting and sound for my school drama productions. My boyfriend and i dont go to the same school, he lives in another county and we meet up most saturday evenings and spend the rest of weekend together - which we love doing. I tried to get a ticket for my boyfriend to come and see the play because he said he wanted to come (this was a few weeks ago) but they had all sold out. I spent all week chasing people to try and get me a ticket and after much persuasion i finally got one!In the mean time my boyfriend turns round and says that hes seeing friends (hes planning to stay up with the all night watching films and then come and see me the next day! He is in such a grumpy mood when hes been up all night and i cannot face him making horrible comments to me because hes in a bad mood). I said something about having work to do and that id see him next weekend, he then fussed about that and slagged off my hobbie. I was really upset because it is something that im really good at and proud at, but at the same time i can understand if it isnt his sort of thing. I really wanted him to come and see it as it is my birthday. Hes comming but isnt happy about it - i dont want to be the sort of girlfriend that rips him away from his friends, but at the same time it means a lot to me! Im sorry this is long but i really need some help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): hello my names di and im 20.first of all ask yourself why you feel this way.....insecurity,scared hes else where?well in a relationship it is unhealthy and unattractive to be insecure,so i suggest you back off,not too much,but just a bit n let him hav his own space and maybe hell grow to miss you, and then want to spend more time with you.good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): hya im gemma am 16 to im having the same problem well i had it tilll igot information on here well advice well rowed alot after i complained cause he was always wth his mates instead of me and it made me so up set i thoart i wold lose him cause all we did was fight he sed he loved me and then he sed it wants to end it but cause i was to attached i didnt no what to do so i ended it and the week after i had a new man and i have bin wih him 2 years now if your b.f is an idiot and dosent aprechiate the things you do and enjoy then get rid even if it breaks your heart it was the best thing i did all though it might not be for you but think what it could do or what will turn out if you dicide to call it quits. btw i tottaly understand if you dont agree and think im completely wrong but anyway i hope evything turns out
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