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writes: i am in love with this lad but ever since he has been hanging round with another lad that i have known all my life he has been ignoring me hurting my feelings, he never has time for me am scared cause i dont want to lose him help me please :( tell me what you think i should do Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): please move on. i know it's difficult - i liked this guy for seven years. he ignored me after being friedns atfirst. take care and all the nbest!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): Don't stand around and be treat like this!!! Have some self respect and tell him to get lost. If he had any feelings for you he wouldn't put you through all of this. Don't waste another precious moment of your life, move on. There are loads of lovely lads out there and you are sure to meet one. You are young don't get tied to this idiot!!
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): Dear, don't waste another moment on a guy who ignores you. He does not feel about this relationship, the way you do.
This isn't the one for you. You are worthy of much better treatment from a nice guy who treats you lovingly and appreciates what you bring into his life. You are young, dear and you'll have several more relationships before you come upon the one you're meant to be with forever. Enjoy them all, hun and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): The only thing to do in this case is to give him his space, if he ignores you when the three of you are together and you have tried to find some common ground so you can feel apart of the outing, then I would politely excuse yourself and leave.
I would be less available and cultivate some other friendships or do things that you enjoy and see if he does not realize that he is taking you for granted..you can't really pressure him into likng you by telling him how you feel all of the time....so just take some action and demand some respect and if he is interested and cares he will come around....if he doesn't then you will have your answer.
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reader, lonleyheart +, writes (30 November 2006):
well i think that if he ignores you liek that then he's not worth it hun to be honest with ya and maybe he is doing this just to be cool like all the others guys like to do but i think he has blown it if he does that anymore to you try talking to him about it it could help
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