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female
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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend broke up with me after going out 6 months. He texted me and said if I have sex with him he will go back out with me. What do you I suggest I say to that? We are both under 16.
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reader, arp4hecg +, writes (5 December 2006):
he can't love you he is just a typical boy ie wants sex and moves on ( sorry to all those decent boys out there ) YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM he isn't worth it no matter how much you think you love him he doesn't love you and will just abuse you if you do go back out with him leave him and find some 1 decent some 1 u deserve
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): I would tell him forget it hunny, you don't need that. I lost my virginity when I was 14 and I regret it. I regretted it up until I met my boyfriend now. We are so much in love and here i am now and happy as can be but don't waste it now. Wait until you feel you are ready
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (1 December 2006):
What a freakin' scum bag.
What you've learned here is "lines jerks use when trying to get back with their super hot ex-girlfriends"....
Stay away from him, he's bad news. Just feel great, great sympathy for the next girl he wants to skulk around. What a weirdo. Ewwww.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): Actually no, don't follow my suggestion. He may end up grabbing you and stuff... [sigh] What a total jack-ass, that guy I mean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): You should say, "Yes, I'll have sex with you" then meet up at the door to his house, smile at him, and when his defenses are down, give him a good hard slap across his face, then leave.
Unless of course, you want him, and you are willing to do anything he asks, then yeah go ahead, spread your legs and fly.
[sigh]
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): Tell him you'll go out with him again - WHEN HELL FREEZES OVER!
Or, you could tell him you'd rather clean out drains (or a clogged toilet, if you like) than go out with him!
He is just using you and doesn't care about you as a person. The answers I've suggested are what he deserves to hear!!
You're not yet 16. You can, and should, expect MUCH better from any boy. Namely, one who will respect you, not place conditions on dating, and who will like you for who you are. No boy worth his salt would ever treat you the way he has!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): girl it is a problem but i would not do it because he wants what he want he is useing your feelings to see if yu still care and see if you will give it to him best bet keep it and see what better comes along down the line and true love will make it better when your more mature
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reader, Yos +, writes (30 November 2006):
He clearly doesn't love you if he's making demands like that. If he did care about you then he wouldn't put any 'conditions' on being with you. Stay away from him, it sounds like you are better off without him
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (30 November 2006):
Tell him that you would, but a face and body like his wont be enough to turn you on that way!!
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