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writes:HiMy problem isnt terrible but I'm worried about it Is it normal to only get turned on by my girlfriend?I can only Masterbate to her. If I watch porn it wouldn't do anything for me it's weird , it took me 2 years of convincng but got her to make Me two short videos of herself so I can use something What happens if we broke up what would I do ?Is this a problem or normal If I'm ever fantatsing about sex it's with herI'm young so I just dont know what to make of this
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reader, flower100  +, writes (3 April 2014):
That is awesome any girl would definetely love to date someone like you. This means you really like her. I say enjoy it and you are young but you never know where it could lead. If anything I should be asking you for advice lol I wish my bf felt like this about me. He can't even stop staring at other girls with clothes on.
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reader, Keeley345  +, writes (9 March 2014):
What a lucky woman she is! Everyone is different and gets turned on by different things. I find porn a turn on while someone I know finds porn a form of comedy. As long as your woman is doing it for you just enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2014): My husband is like you, he never turns on by porn or anyone else. He just sees me as a sexiest woman on the earth because he loves me. This is really good actualy you should not be concern about it. Im sure your girlfriend loves it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2014): It's totally normal and quite sweet actually, I wish I could say the same for my boyfriend lol. If you guys break up you WILL be able to get turned on by others - it's just that you prefer to be connected to people on a deeper level, which is a good thing :-)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 March 2014):
 If you break up with her you will find someone new... but for now she is your one and only and that's perfectly fine.
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reader, Hnk +, writes (7 March 2014):
 Well, I suppose you are very lucky and it's not a problem at all. You seem to me a deep thinker and visualise things a lot differently .I very much share the same phenomenon as you, I can not find anyone sexually attractive unless I have connected with them on a deeper level. Once I reach that level, no one seem to turn me on but them!The fact that one girl that I love is enough and I can not find any other girl attractive sexually tells me that I actually love my partner and respect her by making certain that I always be loyal to her . This is a quality girls really look into a man and this makes you special in many ways.When my ex and I broke up, I couldn't find anyone attractive for a long time until I found my partner after knowing her well enough ! However, the only thing is that my ex and my partner are only few people who turn me on! I hope this helps !
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reader, llifton +, writes (7 March 2014):
 it's called love and it's a good sign. and i'm sure your girlfriend is flattered. most women would kill to have a guy feel that way about them, seeing as how so many women seem to have a problem with their boyfriends/husbands watching too much porn.
i wouldn't worry about it. and if you break up, you'll learn to be attracted to other women, i assure you. once you got over her, you'd be just fine.
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