Which man likes me the most and why?
Q. Guy 1 I've known this guy for over two years. The second time I met him I asked him out for a drink. He then smiled, looked at me and said that he'd love to but shortly after that I started going out with someone else who is now my fiance so I d...
A. 3 September 2012: Hi
I dont think any of them like you enough to cause a break-up with your fiancee. The married one would probably have sex with you though,but thats all.The other two are just being friendly.
I reckon your engagement is a crazy idea, your clear... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a younger man, I look much younger than I am but worry about what people think. Advice?
Q. In need of some advice. I am 32 female and have been recently seeing a lovely wonderful man, but his only 23 and I'm not sure we can carry on because of age difference. I look about 22 and he looks about 28, so he looks older, but I constantly...
A. 3 September 2012: Hi
Your hardly 'past it' at 32, and HE finds you attractive enough to stick around. So what if people say stuff, the women are probably jealous!
If all is good,your happy, then who cares what anyone thinks.My parents had a 10yr age gap so I kno... (read in full...)
We're related by adoption does that make it incest if we get together?
Q. Im a female I live in the us and ive made out with my cousin a couple of times and maybe have sucked his Dick but mine and his grand ma adopted his mom so were only related by adoption and I think I wanna take it to the next level I'm fifteen and ...
A. 3 September 2012: hi
I dont know about incest, but in the UK the Law says your both under age.I don't know if its the same in US
Stop every kind of sexual contact if it is..... (read in full...)
He makes 6 times the money I do but he won't spend anything on me.
Q. I met a new guy weeks after i ended up the relationship with my worthless boyfiend.Now We are dating for about three months relationship.He is a successfull man,he makes almost six times of what I make at my job; but it won't spend nothing on me. He ...
A. 2 September 2012: Hi Don't ever give him money again,he doesn't pay it back!!! Dont cook for him either unless he brings the wine or wine and dessert. Ask him to ~ or he will take it for granted your providing the lot Also, maybe he's testing you to see if your ... (read in full...)
This guy I met a week ago won't leave me alone!
Q. I met a guy a week ago, yes that's just a week ago, we talked and generally got on. I told him from the offset that I wasn't looking for anything more than friendship and he seemed cool with that, but now he won't stop calling me. Apparently we are ...
A. 2 September 2012: Hi He doesn't sound like a "bad lad", if he was he would have women lined up in reserve and not give you a 2nd thought. This bloke is STILL harrassing you a week after you've told him no thanks.Thats a desperate man.A bit of a weirdo.... (read in full...)
Why am I hanging on to a bad relationship?
Q. Hi all. Your thoughts please. Why on earth am I hanging on to my waste of space bf? The good bits,- he.s good looking,and good in bed. The bad bits- he.s unreliable,manipulative, decitful, selfish, mean and moody. I.ve hung on in there for almost t...
A. 2 September 2012: Hi Think we all know somebody with a bloke like this, no matter what you say when they bitch about them,they still go back again and again. So in the end you just wait till they're free from him till you socialise, because its just boring list... (read in full...)
We've been together three years but things aren't moving forward
Q. We get on great but my boyfriend says he can't take time off this year (or last year) as he needs to work on his hobby car which he has completely stripped down and spent a few thousand on. All his spare time and money are dedicated to his hobby. ...
A. 1 September 2012: Hi
A man who has hobbies is fine, but not one who prioritises them over you.
He has no reason to change, you still wait around, do things his way, so he has everything he needs in his life.No wonder he's never been married!
You do not have... (read in full...)
My online affair is becoming too real
Q. I am a married man who has been having an online romance with a married woman I have never met for over a year now. This is problem enough, I suppose. However, what makes it worse is that the relationship is becoming more and more real. My lover ta...
A. 1 September 2012: Hi Yes you do need some perspective. Do you spend the same amount of time communicating with your wife? Thats how your time online should be spent. Or persuing some pastime,sport or whatever. NOT chatting to some strange (married) woman whom you h... (read in full...)
Father or not? Should I remain focused on a legal resolution? Or arrange the paternity test through the Courts now?
Q. [Mod note: is there some reason you haven't had a DNA test done to establish paternity? Get that done and most of the problems go away. So please advise as to why you haven't ordered a paternity test.] OP follow up: She just gave birth this month a...
A. 31 August 2012: Hi
The reasons your not getting a DNA test done immediately are questionable which is perhaps why your g/f is cooling off as it casts doubt.
If your NOT the father then you have not behaved stupidly, your ex is just vindictive and hopef... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's cheating ex is coming over to stay with her and I'm not cool with it!
Q. Please help?! I met this girl a few months ago on a dating website. Anyway I totally fell for her. I'm in love with her. She totally blew me away. However there has been a few situations. Please let me explain. I have on 3 separate occasions c...
A. 31 August 2012: Hi
Personally I would not trust her as far as I could throw her.You have every right to doubt her over this coming weekend. Sounds a bit one sided,your relationship I am afraid and she is still looking whereas your not.
I would back off and kee... (read in full...)
I can't get over the fear he will leave me for someone younger.
Q. Hi! I am 39 yrs old and my bf is 22. Among the all the suitors I had, he had been the most determined that's the reason I chose him. I know someday he will be leaving me for a much younger lady. This fear keeps haunting me every time I look at him. ...
A. 30 August 2012: Hi
He may or may not leave you,there are no guarantees n any relationship. However the fact you have these insecurities already show there are cracks in the relationship that will only get bigger.
Just because a guy persues you more than others... (read in full...)
Had a great date last night but now this... shall I just forget it?
Q. So i went on a date last night with a lovely girl. We met on a dating site and i went to pick her up and met her parents so they knew i wasn't going to kill her and dump her body in a ditch somewhere. She was telling me that she had some pretty ...
A. 30 August 2012: Hi
RELAX! You've had one date with a girl who has had a few bizarre dates.Just ring,thank her for a nice time and ask if she'd like a 2nd. Don't contact again if she doesn't pick up the call or is undecided ~its her loss!... (read in full...)
I'm not in a position where I can get a divorce but I want to get to know this other man. I'm very unhappy and don't know what to do.
Q. I am 28 and have been married for 5 years. I was good at first. But when I got pregnant with our first child my husband starting watching porn. Without getting into massive detail, I eventually confronted him about it and told him how I felt. After ...
A. 30 August 2012: Hi Having an affair,cheating, is only going to add to your problems.This man is not the answer, YOU are the only person who can start the process of ending your marriage. You need to see a lawyer first,then talk to your husband, and do things t... (read in full...)
Our anniversary is on a Thursday but he wants to go out on Saturday. Why?
Q. it's me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary next month. I mentioned it and he said he'd already planned to take me to a certain restaurant I like so I'm happy that he's put some thought into it. our anniversary falls on a Thursday but he wants to ...
A. 30 August 2012: Hi
At least he remembered plus its ONLY a 1 year anniversary of dating not say, 5 years of marriage.
Going out on a Saturday makes sense to me, I wouldnt want to worry about getting up Friday morning.He's put thought into it so just enjoy th... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?
Q. Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and ...
A. 30 August 2012: Hi
Was the baby in an incubator after birth,when they are born this premature they are usually kept in hospital as they are so tiny.
Get a DNA test done asap its the only proof you can get.If you only had sex the once,with a condom, in Janua... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? I cheated on my Gf last night and never felt guilty about it. Is it something within me?
Q. I really don't know what's wrong with me and i hate what i am doing. I am 27 and i have always been a ladies man, to say. I don't know what my problem is. I have always enjoyed going out and meeting girls in bars and having fun. I am a good ...
A. 29 August 2012: Hi
Just finish with your girlfriend and be honest,tell her your just not ready to settle in a relationship. IF you were really in love with her you wouldn't even consider cheating.
As long as your not hurting anyone you could date a different... (read in full...)
Husband thinks swinging can save our marriage
Q. I split up from my husband about three years ago, as he was cold, disinterested in me or our son, and refused to give me any housekeeping. I started a very romantic affair with a guy, got myself a rented house where my son and I were happy. My new ...
A. 28 August 2012: Hi
You have a man who DOES want you, he's still waiting and wanting to make you happy again, your a very lucky lady.
You must know it was a mistake to go back to a husband who doesnt care,who doesnt make you happy? Swinging will not save yo... (read in full...)
Is he starting to realize what hes missing?
Q. My ex and I just started being friends again after two months of not talking after he ended our complicated relationship for another girl. We've hung out three times this week. We're both graffiti artists so the other two days we'd paint and he'd ...
A. 28 August 2012: Hi
Only he knows the answer to that. His behaviour is friendly yes,but that doesn't automatically mean he misses being in a relationship with you. In this case time will tell what he wants from you or what his limits with you are.
You dont want... (read in full...)
How you heard of a long distance marriage? Do they work out?
Q. Hello! So, I'm going to have to move away for work for three years. My soon to be beloved husband and I have been discussing this and we've figured out we'll be able to meet 10 days a month on average (between his days off and mine), plus three ...
A. 28 August 2012: Hi
You can only try, if it is NOT working for either of you,then you just talk, re-think your situation. Change your priorities.
3 years adds up to ALOT of nights alone so keep up daily contact between visits, make sure you spend birthdays ... (read in full...)
How do I avoid becoming pregnant by my husband who won't allow me to use birth control?
Q. My husband of 6 years won't pull out during sex. We are catholic so he refuses for me to use any birth control. I do not want to get pregnant. Please give me advice...
A. 26 August 2012: Hi
As Abella says, you can use the Depo, I know loads that use it successfully.
Your husband may suggest going for fertility tests etc eventually though when, after more time passes you have failed to get pregnant.Especially if he does want chi... (read in full...)
Booty is one thing. But were this man's actions disrespectful and selfish?
Q. I met a guy who I slept with the first night. I regreted it the next day and didn't think I'd hear from him again. He works 2 weeks on 1 week off and has been texting me, asking me how I am etc and whether I wanted to catch up when he came back. W...
A. 26 August 2012: Hi
He might as well go buy an inflatable doll, he doesnt want conversation,he doesnt want a relationship, he doesnt want to go out for meals,he is probably laughing at how easy he can get sex of any description with you without giving anything... (read in full...)
How do I meet friends and people to socialize with? I feel very lonely.
Q. Hello, I am 24, I've just moved out. I have a job/career that I love and I'm really happy with that aspect of my life. However, I think I've sacrificed a social life to get to where I want/needed to be. I would say, I have three close fr...
A. 26 August 2012: Hi
Get a bike,cycle and join cycling club, they have plenty going on all over country ~ you won't meet anyone sat in your home.
Start a Supper Club? Just go to your local pub and chat? Go to a festival or see a band you like? Work in a Bar on... (read in full...)
I met my soul mate online but he just broke up with me via text because his mom told him to!
Q. Dear Cupids I am at my lowest point ever I hope you can understand everything I have to say , and would really like your opinions of how to go about this. I met this guy online ( i know I was also one of the ones that said never ...
A. 26 August 2012: Hi
I find it hard to believe his mum said that or even knows about you, even if she did (which i dont think is true) He wouldnt,a grown man,admit she had warned him off you surely!
He's not your soulmate, hes just some bloke off the net who ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't forget about football even while on vacation?
Q. In november my boyfriend and i are travelling around south east asia for a month. he's already informed me that he'll be checking football scores of his local team back home - i thought he'd be having such a great experience with me that he could ...
A. 25 August 2012: Hi Avid foootball fan here and can relate 100% to him, it takes a few minutes on a Saturday and Wednesday, your going for a month then coming back so hes just keeping himself up to date. He will enjoy his vacation, just think of it as hi... (read in full...)
Guys! why do I always miss out? What can or should I change to find a loving reliable guy?
Q. I am really losing faith in getting with guys so much so that I am wary of being involved with anyone! Every guy I seem to get with is all good and going well for 3 months and then it messes up. I am starting to think it will never happen as I am ...
A. 24 August 2012: Hi
Maybe your expectations are too high?
Problem with London is there are so many singles so alot of choices for men and women to date.Alot move there simply to focus on their career and enjoy the social side of the city.Its not like a small... (read in full...)
Why did my ex block me when we aren't even friends?
Q. hey i no you guys are probably gonna say why do you care if shes your ex etc...but anyway my ex of about 6 months (we've had no contact at al) blocked me on Facebook.i haven't once in the whole time we've been split up clicked on her page page...
A. 24 August 2012: Hi
Maybe her new boyfriend asked her too as your her Ex ?
Don't worry about it,she's your past.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been using casual hook up sex sites and I cant seem to get over this! Help!
Q. Dear all. Please help. I can't sleep as I found out my BF has been using casual sex websites to hook up with different girls for no strings sex. I feel sick. I have been very intimate with him and was deeply in love with him. We have had a rough ...
A. 24 August 2012: Hi
What he has done is deliberate and intentional, its not like meeting some random woman in the pub is it? Hes created a profile, chatted to and met up with women.
Its not surprising you feel ill, in shock whatever, but he clearly has no d... (read in full...)
When a man treats his woman well: When did it become okay to commit or marry but then show no interest in a sex life with your man?
Q. I am talking about women in serious relationships who act like their man has no right to expect a decent sex life from them. Before you jump on me with the claws out, please listen to what I am saying and what I am not. I am not saying anyth...
A. 23 August 2012: Hi
Well a dry spell is one thing, for numerous reasons,health tiredness etc etc.As a permanant thing, sex once a month or less is just not on.
If all avenues have been explored, talking, counselling,romantic weekends away,whatever an... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday
Q. I'm kind of bothered by the fact that my boyfriend didn't care to get me anything for my birthday. I'm not materialistic and I don't really want any specific item but like the saying goes, "It's the thought that counts" and I feel like he didn't p...
A. 23 August 2012: Hi If you feel mostly like he doesn't care then him not getting you anything shouldn't have been a big surprise. In the UK 25th birthdays aren't a 'key' birthday really. 18th,21st,30,40 etc are. However everyone deserves a little spoilin... (read in full...)
Is this the end for me and my BF?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions would be welcome. Things have not been too good with me and my BF of late, and we had a bit of a bad evening about two and a half weeks ago, and I told him that I am not really getting anything out of the relationship etc...
A. 23 August 2012: Hi
After your follow up, I can see you were justified. There wasn't much left to salvage in the relationship really, all very one sided.
Don't chase him, nor apologise,its done,he doesn't want to fix things, leave him alone now.
Focus on... (read in full...)
He is a true gentleman. Am I worrying too much due to past experiences in relationships?
Q. Hi, I have begun a relationship with a wonderful man but need advice on a small matter. Every time we have a date, he will walk with me to my nearest transport stop - whether bus or train - before saying goodbye and going on his journey home We...
A. 23 August 2012: Hi
What a lovely man! Why not make sure that where you go is closer to either your bus,station or home so he doesn't have to walk you far. Or get a cab from where you are to your bus stop/station.He could put you in the cab,know your safe,tha... (read in full...)
I went snooping on my b/f. Now we are trying to get things back to normal but its strained! Help?
Q. I admit I was snooping and found lots of pictures of a my fiances exes that he said he had deleted. I was depressed about it and left it a few days before I spoke to him about it. When I did he went mad, first saying he thought he had deleted them ...
A. 22 August 2012: Hi
If anyone at all 'snooped' through my things, phone,PC, letters, I would go flippin mad. Not because of guilt at all but because they've invaded MY private stuff and without my permission.Its just wrong on many levels and says alot about ho... (read in full...)
Is this the end for me and my BF?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions would be welcome. Things have not been too good with me and my BF of late, and we had a bit of a bad evening about two and a half weeks ago, and I told him that I am not really getting anything out of the relationship etc...
A. 22 August 2012: Hi
I think you can safely say this relationship is over..you did the 'Ime not really getting anything out of the relationship' speech, so he's let you go.
I would do the same in his shoes if somebody said that to me, it wasn't an argument, it ... (read in full...)
I snooped. I didn't find evidence of cheating, but what I did find is really bothering me
Q. I snooped. He always has said I could go through phone, email, anything whenever I wanted because he has nothing to hide. Something he said the other day raised some suspicion so I snooped somewhere I've never looked before. I did not find evidence ...
A. 22 August 2012: Hi
I dont get why your so hell bent on snooping, its almost like you WANT to find evidence of cheating. He couldn't be more open or tolerant with you,he has nothing to hide. Maybe he forgot that one card, maybe he wants to keep it for some rea... (read in full...)
Re-met my Ex. At first it was so promising. Now the interest has tapered off. Is this how guys are with their friends?
Q. Is this really the way that blokes behave with their friends? My story is a little complicated, but in a nutshell... I met up with an ex again after many years apart, we had both moved on in that time and are in new relationships. However ...
A. 21 August 2012: Hi
If you back off I don't think he will persue you,no, he will just carry on with his life as he has for years. He was probably intrigued at first,meeting up with an old flame, but then reality kicked in.
I have friends,female, ... (read in full...)
Re-met my Ex. At first it was so promising. Now the interest has tapered off. Is this how guys are with their friends?
Q. Is this really the way that blokes behave with their friends? My story is a little complicated, but in a nutshell... I met up with an ex again after many years apart, we had both moved on in that time and are in new relationships. However ...
A. 21 August 2012: Hi
You do nothing. He has backed off because he loves and respects his partner and doesn't want to do anything that will jeapordise their relationship. So he put the breaks on regarding you. He probably started having lustful thoughts and being a ... (read in full...)
I started dating a gorgeous, model-like, ambitious, cheeky guy, and he's now turned into an overweight, boozy, attention seeking boy!
Q. This is really tricky and I'd appreciate both male and female help with this. I've been with my lovely boyfriend who I care deeply for for two and a half years. When I met him he had model looks, a great body and I couldn't keep my hands off him....
A. 21 August 2012: Hi
He doesn't sound appealing but then alot of men like boozing,junk food and a Playstation. What your now seeing is him out of the honeymoon period,the real him. He has you now, why does he need to bother? Maybe you being fit n healthy,... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a cheater to end up happy with the person he cheated with?
Q. My boyfriend of six years cheated, and left me for the woman he cheated with. Although I'm past the hurt, sometime I wonder is it possible for a cheater to be happy with the person he cheated with.I wish him and her the best and hope he is a better ...
A. 21 August 2012: Hi
Anythings possible, if they are happy together then they were made for each other, a cheater and some girl who slept with somebody elses man,yuk!
I think once the anger and shock has gone you can see why they left,the true relationship you... (read in full...)
Is it bad to not go home to visit parents except during holiday season?
Q. Is it bad to not go home to visit parents except during holiday season? I am getting static from my family, my mother mostly, because I didn’t go visit them this summer. A friend of mine’s family has a beach house and I spent time there but I wasn’t ...
A. 21 August 2012: Hi
Where is your home and what size is it? Could you accommadate them while THEY visit or would they stop in a Hotel,so making it expensive? Can they afford it?
Most kids WANT to see their parents they would look forward to it, random visit... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex to leave me alone?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend a year and a half ago and he left me with 2 kids and the mortgage to pay. He married after 8 months and has a baby on the way which depresses me no end. Because I struggled financially my home is being repossessed and ...
A. 19 August 2012: hi
Start taking control of your life and situation.
Ring or go to the Police today, tell them exactly whats happening with this man,show them the texts,call records and tell them he keeps forcing his way into your home. Tell them he is intim... (read in full...)
How can I tell if this is a real date - Is he interested in dating me? Or just a friendship?
Q. Hello Everyone, I have a little dilemma here, and hope you can help me figure it out. I was at a street party with a friend in August 2011 and we bumped into a guy she knew, they got talking and she introduced us. The guy and I got along quit...
A. 19 August 2012: Hi
First thing you need to do is find out if he's still seeing the other girl.
He does sound interested, he keeps coming back. But, he has told you he was seeing a girl,he was honest, so he may think you accept the situation..of hi... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?
Q. Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and ...
A. 28 March 2012: why are you giving your ex money when
a you dont know if the baby is yours
b you havent been to the doctors with her so dont know if she IS pregnant
Give her no more till you know
talk to your family tell them evrything then decide wh... (read in full...)
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