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What I've learned from my family.
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I tell him what I want when we make love, but he always reverts to his basic style. How do I convince him to be more adventurous in bed?
Q. My boyfriend is my best friend and I love him dearly. That's why it seems soo ridiculous that I fantasize about breaking up with him so I can have sex with other men. When we first got together, things were hot and heavy. The sex was pretty basic...
A. 2 November 2012: I think you make a good and reasonable argument there. It is understandable that you overlook things at the beginning of a relationship, people generally do overlook the red flags. It's also common for things you thought were cute and adorable, to ... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 1 November 2012: Did you tell her this? Maybe it could have offered some clarification. Maybe you should ask her, in a genuinely curious manner and not as an attack, why she flirts with you when she's not interested in anything more with you.
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Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 31 October 2012:
I turn the blame partially on you because that is how life is. When girls are in love with a player and then sleep with him because they want a relationship with him, they always get told it is THEIR fault that they trusted the words of a player... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 31 October 2012: Okay... Why are you so angry? What if she's actually just busy? Did you even ask if she'd like to meet at another time?
Don't get pissy because people flirt with you, if you don't like it then don't flirt back. Letting her sit on your lap is flirt... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 29 October 2012: Oh, and to deepen the explanation: unless she was sitting on everyone elses lap and also flirting with them, then she isn't just being a flirt. ... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 29 October 2012: Make a move. ... (read in full...)
Am I drinking to the point where my caffeine intake is too high? I've switched to black tea now. is that better for my health?
Q. I used to buy coffee from [biggest coffee chain in America] every day. I got hooked on the caffeine. The expenses were adding up so I switched to black tea by the same company which was cheaper. Now I buy black tea in bulk from supermarkets (10...
A. 29 October 2012: I heard for every cup of tea you need two cups of water afterwards? Or more even, 5 maybe? Anyway, tea dehydrates you. Drink lots of water. ... (read in full...)
Should I be emotionally drained from a relationship?
Q. I just shut out my boyfriend .....I have gone completely silent ...because I am tired. ..I am tired of giving ....all my energy is well spent ....his a very needy emotional demanding person and before I wouldn't mind listening, giving, helping, ...
A. 28 October 2012: You are doing the right thing. He is emotionally draining you and everyone has a limit, not just you. At one point there is no energy left if he just takes and takes and never gives. A relationship should nourish you, build you up, give you strenght ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend really changed?
Q. I have had a rocky 8 months to say the least, with my first ever boyfriend and now i'm just wondering has he really changed? I first met my boyfriend when i went back to school after missing a year, i was sent to learning support ...
A. 28 October 2012: "i am a person (a rather stupid one at times) Who just can't stop trying to help people, even if they are beyond help"
You're young, you obviously still have the left-over energy to do so, even when depressed and when you should be focusing... (read in full...)
Why is it that black men or Indian men or Chinese men NEVER approach me to date me?
Q. I'm of Indian origin but don't look stereotypically Indian. Most people find me too light skinned to be Indian and always think I'm half Indian. I'm pretty tall and have done ballet for years, so I'd say I have a pretty good figure. I'm quite skin...
A. 28 October 2012: Honestly... who knows? I think you need to ask the men in question instead of us. ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend really changed?
Q. I have had a rocky 8 months to say the least, with my first ever boyfriend and now i'm just wondering has he really changed? I first met my boyfriend when i went back to school after missing a year, i was sent to learning support ...
A. 28 October 2012: I hope you understand that your mother and sister, even just strangers online, we're saying this because we want to help you out. Back you up. So maybe think about people who support you, if you feel you have no resources to do what you know is ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend really changed?
Q. I have had a rocky 8 months to say the least, with my first ever boyfriend and now i'm just wondering has he really changed? I first met my boyfriend when i went back to school after missing a year, i was sent to learning support ...
A. 28 October 2012: Don't fall into the classical women trap: we give to our man because we think that's what we should be doing, while he never gives. You are full of excuses for this man. Classic submissive female behaviour: we excuse the man for all his crimes, we ... (read in full...)
Contraceptive ideas???
Q. I've been with my bf for close to 3 years now and we've used condoms as a contraceptive. We got tested together and we're both sti free. Im really tired of using condoms, I'd like a different kind of contraceptive. I'm not a fan of the pill either ...
A. 28 October 2012: Try the pill. Yes, you take it every day, but it is just a small pill and it wont take up much of your time to take it. Besides, if you decide you don't like it, you can always just stop.
I don't recommend injections, because just like with the... (read in full...)
Am I drinking to the point where my caffeine intake is too high? I've switched to black tea now. is that better for my health?
Q. I used to buy coffee from [biggest coffee chain in America] every day. I got hooked on the caffeine. The expenses were adding up so I switched to black tea by the same company which was cheaper. Now I buy black tea in bulk from supermarkets (10...
A. 28 October 2012: If you get headaches unless you get caffeine then you are addicted. The best way to cure the headaches isn't to drink more caffeine, but to cut it out.
Start drinking green or white tea.
Although, I don't think one cup a day is anything to b... (read in full...)
I don't approve of boyfriends friendship with this girl. what to do?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been arguing for the past few days about his friendship with a girl who continuously flirts with him. he says the flirting has stopped after the first time I confronted him about her texting him saying"call me so j can give...
A. 28 October 2012: You're not forcing him to sit out in the cold for 3 hours... your boyfriend sounds like a whiny child. If this girl is coming after him then he ought to find himself a different form of transportation. You're not "forcing" him to, it is a choice he ... (read in full...)
Is being called sweet a major red flag and are relationships worth relocating for?
Q. Alright everyone, I know I should know the answers to these questions as a 24 year old man but I have not been in the appropriate environments for me as of ywr so please bear with my questions. I am about to date this one lady who is just two years ...
A. 28 October 2012: Sweet doesn't imply anything other than she thinks you're sweet. Well, not literally, as I'm sure she hasn't licked your skin and then said "sweet!". But rather, she thinks your persona is sweet.
And: there is no friendzone. True. It doesn't ... (read in full...)
Its my first relationship but it doesn't feel normal!
Q. Me and this guy we have known each for 1 month now. We were complete strangers when we first met. Starting from the 5th day we known each he was talking about how much he loved me and how much he cares for me because of how much we have in common ...
A. 28 October 2012: 12 answers so far, all saying you need to leave this guy. I hope that sinks in. It's not often EVERYONE agrees on this website, so that say something!... (read in full...)
I'm a guy who wants a relationship and just treat her right. So how do I make this happen?
Q. hi everyone, i've been speaking to thisgirl on facebook/tumblr etc. for a few months now and we met up once with her friends. then we organised to meet but the day before she stopped talking to me and we didn't end up going out. then she starte...
A. 27 October 2012: She doesn't like you in that way. If a girl liked you in that way she'd do whatever it takes to get to see you. You already gave her several chances to meet, and she "went quiet". If she was interested in you she'd not just leave you hanging, she'd ... (read in full...)
I want to be more than a friend and study buddy!
Q. Hey everyone, I met this girl in university, I noticed her the first time she walked into the room, she sat by me. I never talked to her because I didn't want to fall for her. A few classes later, she talked to me. The first thing she said to me w...
A. 27 October 2012: Nah, she's not interested in you that way. So why risk ruining a good study-environment. Now you have a study pal, and that will increase your chances of getting a good grade. It's only been two weeks, it's not like you are heavily invested in thsi ... (read in full...)
Its my first relationship but it doesn't feel normal!
Q. Me and this guy we have known each for 1 month now. We were complete strangers when we first met. Starting from the 5th day we known each he was talking about how much he loved me and how much he cares for me because of how much we have in common ...
A. 27 October 2012: Your gut feeling is right. This man is NOT a good guy who just needs some work. This man is a user. He tries to get on your good side by being occasionally sweet to you, buying you that phone case for example. But the phone case wasn't a gift. He ... (read in full...)
I don't approve of boyfriends friendship with this girl. what to do?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been arguing for the past few days about his friendship with a girl who continuously flirts with him. he says the flirting has stopped after the first time I confronted him about her texting him saying"call me so j can give...
A. 27 October 2012: He needs to cut this girl out. She isn't a friend. Friends don't want to give their friends "something good to dream about". Tell him that. Tell him that if she is a platonic friend, you have no problem with it. You do not want him to lose a friend. ... (read in full...)
I want to be friends, he wants a FWB
Q. This may be odd...but i need help. I met this guy at the beginning of my senior year, same age as me, and we obviously liked each other. We hung out once at his house and chilled and almost kissed. Then a week later he got into a relationship that ...
A. 26 October 2012: You already lost him as a friend. Because he decided he wanted more, and he doesn't value your friendship as more important than the chance to have casual sex. In other words, he's not exatcly a true friend of yours.
... (read in full...)
Are there men out there that are just mean to their kids for no reason?
Q. I have been with my man 7 years we have two kids. Sometimes he is really mean to them yells at them for nothing an cussin at them. Other days he can be super dad I tell him it's not fair I have to watch my children go through that I tell him he ...
A. 26 October 2012: "Are there men out there that are just mean to their kids for no reason? " Yes, usually they have a mental disorder. Like my dad does, he is bipolar, got Aspergers (those are the real diagnoses he's got) and then I want to add my personal diagnos... (read in full...)
What is the exact way to deal with people who are egotistical but don't express their emotions easily?
Q. Okay, it seems that Guys who have the following characteristics are Egotistical to the max. Characteristics: Intelligent, Sophisticated, Reserved, Frank, Straightforward, Don't express emotions easily. Ive seen that such people are not chest-bea...
A. 26 October 2012: You ignore them. ... (read in full...)
He's 64 and I'm not interested. How do I discourage him without ruining the car share system that benefits us all?
Q. I am part of a car share group where one drives and the other three are passengers. We rotate who drives. It works OK. In fact it's very convenient. But two days out of every fortnight there are either one or two of the others not present. Thes occ...
A. 26 October 2012: Be blunt. Be rude if necessary.
"Stop making advances, I am not interested, and you are making me uncomfortable". Be strict. Look him right in the eyes as you say this. Don't show any sign of weakness, and this is non negotionable. "If you make... (read in full...)
I'm a guy who wants a relationship and just treat her right. So how do I make this happen?
Q. hi everyone, i've been speaking to thisgirl on facebook/tumblr etc. for a few months now and we met up once with her friends. then we organised to meet but the day before she stopped talking to me and we didn't end up going out. then she starte...
A. 26 October 2012: Answer to headline question: you find a single girl that you like and you flirt with her. Answer to your full-lenght question: Facebook-girl isn't that interested, you need to move on. She's not trying to not get hurt again, she's just tryin... (read in full...)
We want to settle down and have a baby. Getting our finances right to buy not rent is the aim. Have you achieved this goal successfully? How?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and we really want to get our own place. We don't want to rent as we feel that we will be wasting money paying the rent each month and at the end of it we will have nothing ...
A. 25 October 2012: What is this "k"? Give me a currency please, or else I can't help you out. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to creep him out by telling him how I feel... what should I do?
Q. I am 16 years old and passionately in love with someone who doesn't feel the same for me. He knows I like him but not that I love him. I can't seem to be able to tell him. I love him so much, physically and mentally. I cant imagine life without ...
A. 25 October 2012: Don't tell him how you really feel. He probably isn't going to take it well, because he's so young and wouldn't know how to react. But are you sure he knows you like him? How are you sure he knows? Have you ever told him you like him, have you ever ... (read in full...)
Do guys like having their nipples sucked?
Q. Ok I need as much deatil as possible please A time or two I have had guys lick/nibble my ear and I really liked it, but I have never done it to someone else, and I would like to try it out, areas to avoid _________, certain areas only get _______...
A. 25 October 2012: You need to stop thinking so much and just do. If you want to lick his nipples then do it. If he doesn't like it, he'll tell you, and you don't have to do it again, no biggie.
Whenever I have sex with a new partner I always try tons of differen... (read in full...)
Girls if a guy asks you out and you say no, then is it awkward for ever after between him and you?
Q. I have never dated very much. My one and only girlfriend, with her, things just happened as if I didn't have control. I said things I wouldn't normally have said, I was forward and thats why things worked out. I was assertive. Usually though,...
A. 25 October 2012: It is forever awkward for the immature ones. The mature ones don't think it is awkward at all, but takes it as a complement and moves on.
I'm even friends (on facebook, but I do strike up a conversation when I meet him in person) with a guy who ... (read in full...)
Is what I do a fetish? Or am I am exhibitionist? My wife says people stare at me in public when I do this
Q. Am I wierd, I dont like to wear underware sometimes and when I go camando in shorts my package sometimes is noticeable. My wife says people keep staring but I dont see them I think she is just worried my junk will spill out at the wrong time. I ...
A. 25 October 2012: It could be that you get a few stares at your package because you show off a bit more than you should... As your wife thinks you do. ... (read in full...)
My older brother physically abuses me and my mom is fine with it. What rights do I have in this? What power do I have to stop him from doing this?
Q. Hi. So, my older brother hits me. He doesn't do it very often but when he does, he hits me bad. He abuses me verbally constantly calling me names and insulting me in every possible way. He's always been like this to me since we were kids, he's ...
A. 24 October 2012: Take pictures of yourself after he has hit you. Document it all. Record his verbal abuse of you if you can, for example record it on your phone.
And then take it to the police. You aren't the one who is putting him in jail, you aren't the one ... (read in full...)
Is my Bf implying that he's a virgin? He changed the subject when I asked.
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I were speaking about sex when he said "I can't compare my performance to anything? When I asked what he meant he changed the subject? So peeps my question is what are your thoughts on this? I automatically thought ...
A. 23 October 2012: I bet he was a virgin, but too embarassed to tell you. ... (read in full...)
I tell him what I want when we make love, but he always reverts to his basic style. How do I convince him to be more adventurous in bed?
Q. My boyfriend is my best friend and I love him dearly. That's why it seems soo ridiculous that I fantasize about breaking up with him so I can have sex with other men. When we first got together, things were hot and heavy. The sex was pretty basic...
A. 23 October 2012: Have a stern conversation with him about this and tell him straight to his face that you are not happy about your sex life. Don't list up specific things he does wrong/not to your liking. A list of things is not what he needs, nor will it help. I ... (read in full...)
Is Abstinence the only answer as birth control for me?
Q. I'm having a lot of trouble with birth control methods and I don't know whether to ask my boyfriend if we can stop having sex until we're ready to settle down. We've been together for a year and sexually active for almost all of it. At the start...
A. 23 October 2012: If the problem with condoms is size, then there are different sizes out there. Have you experimented? Birth control pills aren't chemical.. they are hormones. They aren't drugs, they're just hormones. But still, if you're against it you have your ... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a male engagement ring to show that the man is betrothed?
Q. what do guys think about wearing an engagement ring? my bf of 2 years proposed to me out of the blue 6 weeks ago. i was shocked, happy and said yes! when we talked about marriage months ago, i recall he said he thought a man should do the prop...
A. 23 October 2012: I think it's a good idea, AFTER he has presented you with a ring. He wants to make the first moves, so he should get you a ring first. And then you give him a ring. If he's already given you one then just go ahead and give it to him. It's not every ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep on wanting what I can't have, namely: married men? Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?
Q. Why do I go for married men? Even though I know it never works! I really like this guy, who is quite a lot older than I am; and married! He confessed he had fallen for me, I tried to convince him he hadn't because he was married, but I knew that ...
A. 23 October 2012: As long as you keep flirting with married men, and not single men, why do you expect things to change? The solution is simple, stop making excuses for yourself and stop flirting with married men. You didn't accidentally fall for him, he didn't ... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 23 October 2012: I am sorry to hear that she turned out to be this way. The only consolaton is that it is good you discovered who she truly is before you married her. Now you got a better picture of her personality, and can make a more informed decision on what to ... (read in full...)
It's annoying me that I've never had a Bf. What should I do to remedy the situation?
Q. I have just turned 24 and its annoying me that i have never had a boyfriend i get told nice things about my looks and people are shocked i dont have a boyfriend, i just dont get it. I am shy but i thought if a guy liked you he would make a point...
A. 22 October 2012: Guys aren't mind readers. They might like you, but they rarely have the courage to just walk up to you and ask you out unless you've hinted to them that you like them and want them to ask you out.
Why haven't YOU asked out a guy YOU like? Ev... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 22 October 2012: Dominance isn't romance, so not sure what you're asking. Are you specifically looking for a dominatrix or something? ... (read in full...)
Is giving a blow job to another guy cheating? My Bf is getting all worked up about what I did.
Q. This is just a quick one so you guys can help see my bf that he is over reacting. We've been going out for just over 1 year and we are very much in love. at the start of the relationship we did everything that we could possibly do both socially an...
A. 22 October 2012: Just ask him permission next time, and then if it's okay and not cheating he will tell you to go ahead with it. No worries.
But to everyone else: yes, this is cheating. Anything you can't tell your partner is cheating. If, however, you can tell... (read in full...)
Our daughter has admitted she's marrying for money and we are very upset!
Q. I have issues with my daughter marrying. Not her partner, but her motivations for marrying him. Our daughter's 19, and her boyfriend's 22, she told us she's fairly wealthy - we had no idea when we met him, in fact he lives in a fairly normal...
A. 22 October 2012: I think at some point people need to make their own mistakes. You can't put a helmet on them and protect them from their stupid selves... They need to learn on their own. Just be there when things come crashing down.
For all we know they might ne... (read in full...)
My culture is uncompromising about virginity before marriage. BUT I am not a virgin. What can I do? I cannot tell him, as the shame is too much.
Q. hi..i had a relationship with an boy i was loved him deeply... Nearly 14 months back only once i had sex with him.. he was not loving with me just wanted to enjoy sex with me we broke up... i was really hurt at that time.. i met with a boy...
A. 22 October 2012: I want to add in, just a little ting that might help you. You will probably bleed if you do not get aroused, but stay still as he enters you. The friction will cause you pain, which will also make it more "realistic" that you are a virgin, as you ... (read in full...)
Do guys who are in a committed relationship fantasize about other women in their life like colleagues etc, while masturbating?
Q. Dear Cupid Do guys who are in a committed relationship fantasize about other women who come into their life like collegues etc, while masterburating. I am not talking about movie stars or rock stars, just the normal women whom we see almost everyday...
A. 22 October 2012: Some probably do. Some don't. This isn't a universal thing. ... (read in full...)
He's turned on by the idea I'm a virgin?
Q. So me and the guy i've been seeing for quite a while brought up the conversation of sex the other day. It was interesting because he's slept with 6 girls and he was surprised I hadn't slept with anyone. In fact, he said that he found it sexy and ...
A. 21 October 2012: I had a guy actually lose interest in me when he found out I was a virgin. But I guess he was just looking for easy sex. Although, such behaviouir does leave a lot of women confused. ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: The girl who crosses the line, obviously. And again, you probably wont even notice she is being frozen out. It's subtle. ... (read in full...)
He's turned on by the idea I'm a virgin?
Q. So me and the guy i've been seeing for quite a while brought up the conversation of sex the other day. It was interesting because he's slept with 6 girls and he was surprised I hadn't slept with anyone. In fact, he said that he found it sexy and ...
A. 21 October 2012: I think it just shows that you have high standards and wouldn't easly let anyone be intimate with you. Guys like a challenge, they are bored if there is no challenge. He knows that if he wants you he needs to work for it, and a guy likes that. It ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: To be frozen out of the social circle. ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: Ways to mark you as her territory:
Standing next to you often. Holding your hand. Sitting close to you. Following you around the room/not leaving you alone with other girls. Glare at other girls if they flirt with you. Try to steal your attentio... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: If there are other women present though, this is also a way for her to mark territory, saying she wants other women to back off because she wants you all to herself.
If you allow her to sit on your lap I am guessing you like her back, so ask her ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: It's not about dominance... She sits on your lap because she likes you. She gives you free access to feel her bum against your crotch.. In what world is that dominance? More like submission if you ask me.. ... (read in full...)
Is what I do a fetish? Or am I am exhibitionist? My wife says people stare at me in public when I do this
Q. Am I wierd, I dont like to wear underware sometimes and when I go camando in shorts my package sometimes is noticeable. My wife says people keep staring but I dont see them I think she is just worried my junk will spill out at the wrong time. I ...
A. 21 October 2012: You just think it is comfortable and like to feel the breeze. If you had other motives then I am sure you, of all people, would be the first to know.
Maybe buy a pair of thicker shorts if your junk really is noticeable? This is up there with me ... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 17 October 2012: Your girlfriend is too affected by her surroundings. If OTHERS aren't happy with her ring then she isn't happy with it. OTHERS don't think it's an engagement ring, and that is why she is bothered... It's so childish, really. What matters is that SHE ... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 16 October 2012: I suggest you say "Okay honey. If you do not like the ring I got you, you are free to sell it and buy yourself a new one".
I don't think she'll actually dare do it. And I think, if she changes the stone, she will regret it later on.
Then ag... (read in full...)
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