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writes: Ok I need as much deatil as possible pleaseA time or two I have had guys lick/nibble my ear and I really liked it, but I have never done it to someone else, and I would like to try it out, areas to avoid _________, certain areas only get ________anything helpsAlso do guys like to have their nipples sucked, I have always wanted to but I have always gotten a little to scared to do it, they're so small on guys, i always think that they will be likw what are you doing thats not what you suck on!thanks in advance
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reader, chigirl +, writes (25 October 2012):
You need to stop thinking so much and just do. If you want to lick his nipples then do it. If he doesn't like it, he'll tell you, and you don't have to do it again, no biggie.
Whenever I have sex with a new partner I always try tons of different things to find out what he/she likes and hates. I learned that men like it a bit rougher than girls, girls need to be treated gently, haha! Men on the other hand you can scratch and nibble and bite and if there's a bit of blood they're still fine.
They all like different things, it really depends on the person. My boyfriend loves that I nibble or lick his nipples, but he's the only guy I've been with who enjoyed that. I mean, I never had anyone say they disliked it, but he's the only one who actually really gets turned on by it. He also gets incredibly turned on when I lick his fingers, or bite his ear lobe. Other guys I have been with I had to work them quite a bit before they'd get turned on, doing several different things, or maybe none of what I did had a special effect, it all just had a mediocre effect. Guys are different.
I had one boyfriend once who just loved anal play. He went crazy when I licked his balls or the area between his balls and anus. Current boyfriend, again, he's not against it, but it's not particularly amazing for him either. Current boyfriend most definitely do not want me to play with his ass.
They like different things, but you'll never know what until you try out everything on him. Go, explore.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 October 2012):
I've been with men who liked it and I've been with men who hated it.
it's going to totally depend on the man...
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reader, shymexycpl +, writes (25 October 2012):
When I tell my wife do it to me like she likes hers sucked she goes to town and that drives me crazy in lust. That also shows me how to be with here when its her turn to get satisfied. We share alot of talks in how we like to be pleased and that helps a whole lot in in the bedroom.
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reader, Mark-O +, writes (19 August 2009):
I can't speak for all guys, but if you suck my nipples, I'm yours! You'll OWN me! 8^p I've only known two (2) women that really shown a lot of interest in this. Both of them seemed to need to have their own nipples sucked a lot as well.
Maybe I'm in the minority, but I'll take it, lol
Mark-O
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 October 2008):
My guy LOVES, LOVES getting nipple action. I would think that it would definitely vary from guy to guy just as it would from woman to woman. I think if you go for it, (a light lick is a good kick-off move) you'll be able to gauge his reaction pretty well.
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reader, Honor +, writes (30 October 2008):
My guy hates it!! I think it varies from person to person. But you should ask him first perhaps just during foreplay maybe while you are kissing his neck or something, before you just jump in there - as if he isnt into it - it could have the opposite effect! lol
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): I detest it. Mine are right out of bounds for touching or sucking.
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