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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo answer the latest question: Yes, I am curious about assertive/aggressive moves women will perform to indicate interest.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (22 October 2012):
 I agree... there is NO dominance in romance... or love
it's partnerships.
do you mean assertive or aggressive moves so that you know a woman in interested?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 October 2012):
 Dominance isn't romance, so not sure what you're asking. Are you specifically looking for a dominatrix or something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat female behaviors would be considered as dominant, in terms of romance? Just curious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhoa. It is that subtle? I guess no matter how hard I'd try to see it, I'd probably not see it.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 October 2012):
The girl who crosses the line, obviously. And again, you probably wont even notice she is being frozen out. It's subtle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question? Who gets frozen out of the circle?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 October 2012):
To be frozen out of the social circle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI see. Wow! Neat!
So, what should one expect when another girl crosses the line? Just curious.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 October 2012):
Ways to mark you as her territory:
Standing next to you often. Holding your hand. Sitting close to you. Following you around the room/not leaving you alone with other girls. Glare at other girls if they flirt with you. Try to steal your attention when other girls talk to you..
Things like that. Mostly it is subtle though, intended for other girls to unerstand, while the men remain unaware of what is actually happening. Girls are experts on reading between the lines, and we often communicate in very subtle ways. Even her just smiling at you in a special way can be a sign for other women to back off.
But sitting on your lap isn't even subtle, it is quite obvious and a blunt way of going about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnswerer 1: Probably what it is.
Answerer 2: I guess it's very forward.
Answerer 3: I see. Heh.
Answerer 4: Ok. Yeah, I don't think that she'd ever remove underpants in public.
Answerer 5: I would, but, she's frequently with someone else. Perhaps, she's trying to get me jealous?
Answerer 6/7: I guess I can't think of it as dominent behavior. Heh. Hm.... there did have some other girls around. I guess girls are somewhat territorial. Are there other ways a girl will "Mark her territory?" ?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 October 2012):
If there are other women present though, this is also a way for her to mark territory, saying she wants other women to back off because she wants you all to herself.
If you allow her to sit on your lap I am guessing you like her back, so ask her out.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 October 2012):
It's not about dominance... She sits on your lap because she likes you. She gives you free access to feel her bum against your crotch.. In what world is that dominance? More like submission if you ask me..
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (21 October 2012):
 I agree with the others. She chooses to sit on your lap because she likes you. Get the hint and ask her out.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 October 2012):
 It'sd definitely a sign of dominance if she is NOT wearing panties, and removes the undies from the guy before she sits down!!!!!!!
Otherwise, it's pretty innocent....
P.S. Unless she does it whilest your wife is sitting nearby.... and gives the wife a raspberry!!!!!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 October 2012):
 Nothing to do with dominance (unless the guy is her BF and the girls around her feels like competition)
She likes you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 October 2012):
she's not being dominant. she's being flirty and playful
the message is "fool ask me out"
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 October 2012):
If there are empty seats around, and she chooses to sit on a man's lap, then I think she's saying that she likes him a lot.
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