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30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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Is what I do a fetish? Or am I am exhibitionist? My wife says people stare at me in public when I do this
Q. Am I wierd, I dont like to wear underware sometimes and when I go camando in shorts my package sometimes is noticeable. My wife says people keep staring but I dont see them I think she is just worried my junk will spill out at the wrong time. I ...
A. 25 October 2012: It could be that you get a few stares at your package because you show off a bit more than you should... As your wife thinks you do. ... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 23 October 2012: I am sorry to hear that she turned out to be this way. The only consolaton is that it is good you discovered who she truly is before you married her. Now you got a better picture of her personality, and can make a more informed decision on what to ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 22 October 2012: Dominance isn't romance, so not sure what you're asking. Are you specifically looking for a dominatrix or something? ... (read in full...)
He's turned on by the idea I'm a virgin?
Q. So me and the guy i've been seeing for quite a while brought up the conversation of sex the other day. It was interesting because he's slept with 6 girls and he was surprised I hadn't slept with anyone. In fact, he said that he found it sexy and ...
A. 21 October 2012: I had a guy actually lose interest in me when he found out I was a virgin. But I guess he was just looking for easy sex. Although, such behaviouir does leave a lot of women confused. ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: The girl who crosses the line, obviously. And again, you probably wont even notice she is being frozen out. It's subtle. ... (read in full...)
He's turned on by the idea I'm a virgin?
Q. So me and the guy i've been seeing for quite a while brought up the conversation of sex the other day. It was interesting because he's slept with 6 girls and he was surprised I hadn't slept with anyone. In fact, he said that he found it sexy and ...
A. 21 October 2012: I think it just shows that you have high standards and wouldn't easly let anyone be intimate with you. Guys like a challenge, they are bored if there is no challenge. He knows that if he wants you he needs to work for it, and a guy likes that. It ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: To be frozen out of the social circle. ... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 21 October 2012: Are you looking for a date? Because it sounds as if you are actively looking. If you aren't interested in dating anyone right now then why use any time or energy in interpreting whether someone likes you that way or not... ... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 21 October 2012: Why care? If she falls for you then that's her problem, not yours. You aren't responsible for how people feel, or if people are attracted to you. If she ever comes on to you directly, or if someone ever asks you out, just say no thanks.
As fo... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: Ways to mark you as her territory:
Standing next to you often. Holding your hand. Sitting close to you. Following you around the room/not leaving you alone with other girls. Glare at other girls if they flirt with you. Try to steal your attentio... (read in full...)
I've started taking the pill but the doctor gave no advice at all!
Q. so i went to my doctor and got the pill but she was no help at all with what to do. So i had to research and ask my friends, basically I started my period this monday, but i started taking the pill today. My friends said this is fine, because ...
A. 21 October 2012: You need to read the leaflet. Yes, the paper that came with the pills. It's all in there.
You can start the pill any day you want, but if you start it on any day EXCEPT for the first day of your period, then you need to be on the pill for at l... (read in full...)
I'm feeling guilty about finally being happy...
Q. So I split up with my ex about a month ago now, two years of being treated badly and being unhappy finally came to an end, although we had our good times, the bad eventually weighed out the good which made it practically unbearable to be around ...
A. 21 October 2012: First off, you have no reason to feel guilty. You're just self destructively nice. You were self destructive to stay in a relationship that didn't make you happy, because you were scared of hurting your then bf. You were scared of hurting him even ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about making noise during sex
Q. Now that Ive got used to a condom since 1st time sex I'm finding intercourse with my boyfriend more and more enjoyable.I think I'm now ready to go a bit vocal with the pleasure but I'm young and a bit nervous about starting.It's so quiet in the ...
A. 21 October 2012: I don't think about it, I just get caught up in the moment. When I have sex with my boyfriend it's so great I loose track of time and space. No kidding. I don't remember where I am, window might be open, or the neighbours kids are right outside... I ... (read in full...)
He said the condom I gave him was too small ...
Q. The other day I lent a condom to my friend who was going to have intercourse for the first time and when he came back he said it was too small and had to buy a larger one. I know it shouldn't affect me but it seems to bother me. The condom fits ok ...
A. 21 October 2012: Hey, he was going to do it for the first time, and he was too chicken to buy condoms himself. You're the one who had to help him out...
Besides, it was his first time, he probably had no clue how to put it on correctly. Or he just lied to you. ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: If there are other women present though, this is also a way for her to mark territory, saying she wants other women to back off because she wants you all to herself.
If you allow her to sit on your lap I am guessing you like her back, so ask her ... (read in full...)
When a girl sits on your lap, are you being dominated by her?
Q. Hi. I have a general question involving this type of behavior. Imagine this: A girl (In your age group) choosing to sit on you instead of any of the empty seats around her. Also, she does this very frequently. I think any woman doing that is be...
A. 21 October 2012: It's not about dominance... She sits on your lap because she likes you. She gives you free access to feel her bum against your crotch.. In what world is that dominance? More like submission if you ask me.. ... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 21 October 2012: Then the obvious thing to do is stop accepting cookies...? ... (read in full...)
My Gf's extreme sex drive is out of control. She wants excitement. Does she need therapy? Or is there any way I can help her without breaking up - the latter would make her more vulnerable, I think
Q. Hey guys, I've resorted to reading the site here cause I've had trouble "Google-ing" my situation with any real results. So before I post the question a disclaimer here is; I don't want anyone to comment on how I shouldn't be bothered by my G's h...
A. 21 October 2012: Oh yes, therapy is indeed needed if she wants to save her relationship. If she doesn't start to control her impulses then you should think about leaving. Because first off, you aren't happy about her past, you think it say something about her as a ... (read in full...)
Is what I do a fetish? Or am I am exhibitionist? My wife says people stare at me in public when I do this
Q. Am I wierd, I dont like to wear underware sometimes and when I go camando in shorts my package sometimes is noticeable. My wife says people keep staring but I dont see them I think she is just worried my junk will spill out at the wrong time. I ...
A. 21 October 2012: You just think it is comfortable and like to feel the breeze. If you had other motives then I am sure you, of all people, would be the first to know.
Maybe buy a pair of thicker shorts if your junk really is noticeable? This is up there with me ... (read in full...)
Should I have Had An Invitation?
Q. I had a platonic friend whom I had many holidays to many places-basically not sure if he fancied me but I didnt fancy him but were good friends. This was over many years so he must have had girl friends as well. He went on the internet and emt...
A. 20 October 2012: I've been close friends with people who still didn't invite me to their wedding.. Unless you have a BIG wedding there really isn't room for inviting friends, unless they are really really close friends.
The weddings my friends have had have jus... (read in full...)
How can I move past the size issue of my 4 inch penis? What might help me?
Q. Sigh* so lately I have been stressing out about what most guys stress out on. My penis size. I am about 4 inches long only and as for girth I'm not really sure but I know it is not that big either. It's been bothering me because everybody makes fun ...
A. 20 October 2012: You're average. What more is there to say? If you know what average means it means: every other guy on the globe has a penis like yours. Sadly, you're no big exception.
As for the Asian stereotype, take it with a laugh. I have a half Thai guy... (read in full...)
Do guys who are unemployed really have a hard time dating?
Q. I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. One thing, he is unemployed but actively looking for work. He doesn't have much money which is not a deal breaker for me and I am not looking for money, just companionship. Well, this economy is ...
A. 20 October 2012: I think so, yes. Not because women don't want them, but because of the whole "male pride" thing they've got going. They feel as "the man" they need to be able to provide for their woman, be able to treat her to things. And no way does a man want a ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 20 October 2012: There's no need to wait until after high school. You can search out therapists right now, no need to wait. You could for example ask your doctor, or if you have a school nurse/counsellor then talk to them about it. Waiting lists can be long, at ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 19 October 2012: Oh, I didn't mean that you are making people feel bad now. But you would make a girlfriend feel bad about herself if you were in a relationship with her while at the same time rejecting her. It can't work. If you're in a relationship you need to ... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt him. I want to keep him as a friend. So how do I let him down nicely?
Q. There's a really sweet guy in my algebra class and he's asked me out. I like him, but don't. He's a really good guy and is more friend than anything else. I told him I don't want to ruin our friendship but he wants to try. I'm confused and...
A. 19 October 2012: His heart is for him to protect. Once he's put himself out there he's also already accepted that he might get hurt. It is not your job to shield him from that. Just tell him how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Is this too much to take? Should I stay or should I go?? HELP
Q. After six months with a person I have fell in love with I'm sitting here questioning if I should stay with her. She's the type of girl I could see spending my life with but she's also the type of person that drives me insane! I've never had a c...
A. 19 October 2012: PS. If you decide to stay anyway, and I think you're so in love that you will attempt this: then put your foot down. No more BS-ing from her. Demand respect. Respect yourself. No more changing for her, no more catering to her demands. Be firm as a ... (read in full...)
Is this too much to take? Should I stay or should I go?? HELP
Q. After six months with a person I have fell in love with I'm sitting here questioning if I should stay with her. She's the type of girl I could see spending my life with but she's also the type of person that drives me insane! I've never had a c...
A. 19 October 2012: If you have to ask if you should leave, then you should leave. When you're happy and in a good relationship you don't ask yourself these things. I know it is hard to hear, but it is your own happiness we're talking about. You clearly are not happy. ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 19 October 2012: 3. Are these thoughts wrong or mean like some people seem to think?
Morally, yes, they are wrong. Jealousy is a negative feeling. Negativity breeds negativity. That means, if you are jealous in a relationship then you will ruin that relation... (read in full...)
He's a good guy but soooo boring!
Q. I ve met this really nice guy, who I date now for 6 months. He is everything any woman can wish for: handsome, has a good job, good natured, we managed not to have a single fight, gentleman. But, I can't believe I m actually saying it, he i...
A. 19 October 2012: If he's boring then obviously he isn't what every girl would dream of. Because as far as I know, no woman is happy with a boring man, unless she is equally boring.
There's a fine line between things, you can still be stable, secure etc, yet be p... (read in full...)
Could it be that working with so many women (aged 30 to 50s) that is causing me daily angst? Should I change jobs?
Q. alright im a young male and i just got a job with 40 "mothers." All but one of them in there late 30's to early 50's. I've noticed that lately i have been worse. When i had just hit puberty I was horny all the time to where masturbation didn't d...
A. 19 October 2012: I don't think it's all the women around you. I think it's got to do with you being a young male who isn't getting some lately. Show me the teenage boy who ISN'T horny and thinking about sex every 6th second. You know there were studies on that, it's ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 18 October 2012: Oh, and to calm you down a bit, remember what I wrote earlier. Women in general aren't really that into casual sex. Casual sex is a guy thing, or for a few women out there. Most women I know of only want sex in relationships, and have long lasting ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 18 October 2012: " She tried comforting me and telling me how she wish she waited and how special i was and how i made her feel better than he did but honestly that just made it worse for me so i ended up telling her we shouldn't talk anymore because she deserved ... (read in full...)
Who should be the one asking for a second date?
Q. Hello, a guy I'd known through acquaintances messaged me on facebook just over a week ago. We hit it off, and he asked me out for a drink. It went really well, he's lovely and conversation was easy and interesting. He kissed me at the end, and I ...
A. 18 October 2012: Depends on the guy. In general the guy initiates the date. First off because this is the standard procedure, secondly because it's a good indication of his interest in you. If a guy likes a girl he goes get her... if he doesn't then he wasn't that ... (read in full...)
21 and never been on a date. I'm worried I never will be!
Q. I am 21, I have never been on a date with a girl, never kissed a girl. My generalattitiude is "I can't do it, I am never going to find somene, so why bother anymore?" I know I am "attractive" I work out alot and my girl friends (notice the ...
A. 18 October 2012: You're full of excuses. People aren't so busy you can't talk to them. Yes, it'll be awkward, and yes, you will get rejected and get some weird stares. But that's only at first. Then, once you get the hang of it, you'll improve your moves, lines, and ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always read into things too much?
Q. I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...
A. 18 October 2012: Haha, well that was a bit sexist... But it is a good description of one perspective, and one way to analyse it. ... (read in full...)
21 and never been on a date. I'm worried I never will be!
Q. I am 21, I have never been on a date with a girl, never kissed a girl. My generalattitiude is "I can't do it, I am never going to find somene, so why bother anymore?" I know I am "attractive" I work out alot and my girl friends (notice the ...
A. 18 October 2012: And, unless you live in a very small town then you wont look desperate if you ask out 10 girls in a week, as none of them will know each other. As long as you get a date, who cares? ... (read in full...)
21 and never been on a date. I'm worried I never will be!
Q. I am 21, I have never been on a date with a girl, never kissed a girl. My generalattitiude is "I can't do it, I am never going to find somene, so why bother anymore?" I know I am "attractive" I work out alot and my girl friends (notice the ...
A. 18 October 2012: "No she doesn't, she has a boyfriend."
Uhm, so? You can still be the one she dreams about at night. At some point I'm sure she'll break it off with her boyfriend, and if she still finds you hot then it's a sure thing.
My point isn't that you s... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 17 October 2012: " trust me there are not many virgins (at least that i speak too"
Most virgins, or even non-virgins, would think of this as too private to talk to you about. We had a small conversation about that one earlier. People lie to you, people hint at ... (read in full...)
I don't like it that my b/f tells friends our personal business but only tells part of the story!
Q. I'm upset with my boyfriend, and i'm not sure how i am going to talk about this with him. He gave me his facebook password recently. He didnt say why he gave it to me though. I logged into his account last night, and i was upset by some things he ...
A. 17 October 2012: You're reading way too much into his messages. And who doesn't want to talk to their friends about what goes on in their lives? You do too! You're here on dearcupid even, talking about your relationship to complete strangers. Everyone wants to open ... (read in full...)
21 and never been on a date. I'm worried I never will be!
Q. I am 21, I have never been on a date with a girl, never kissed a girl. My generalattitiude is "I can't do it, I am never going to find somene, so why bother anymore?" I know I am "attractive" I work out alot and my girl friends (notice the ...
A. 17 October 2012: If you have a female friend that calls you hot, chances are she wants to be with you.
Are you every flirting with any woman? Or are you waiting for a woman to land on your head and scream "I want you!!"
Just ask some girl out. Then when the fi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has the nerve to go through my phone when he's the one who doesn't tell the truth!
Q. I have been having some trouble with the settings on my phone so I was messing around figuring out how to fix it. I had to run out to do an errand and left my phone in the middle of figuring it out. When I returned I remembered I had not finished ...
A. 17 October 2012: I'll start of my answer based on your headline alone.
"Boyfriend has the nerve to go through my phone when he's the one who doesn't tell the truth!"
Well of course! He is the liar, and every liar thinks everyone else are lying. Same as e... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 17 October 2012: OP, like Cindy said: you haven't waited for "so long". I know that at your age time seems to go veeery slowly. It seems like forever until you are 18, it seems like forever until you are 20. But from 20 years and up time starts to fly more normally. ... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 17 October 2012: Your girlfriend is too affected by her surroundings. If OTHERS aren't happy with her ring then she isn't happy with it. OTHERS don't think it's an engagement ring, and that is why she is bothered... It's so childish, really. What matters is that SHE ... (read in full...)
He's perfect -- except that we can't have kids
Q. Ok - I have a slight issue... lol I really like older men - like REALLY like them. 3 previous relationships have always had a 20 year age gap. Is this normal?? Now I've started seeing a guy who is early 40's and he's everything I am looking...
A. 16 October 2012: There is a big difference between not wanting children right now, and not wanting them EVER. You say you don't want them now, but you are unsure if you'll never want them. Keep that in mind.. you aren't sure yet. So don't make any big decisions ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 16 October 2012: "And last question, should i go out and have casual sex just to have those experiences like everyone else or is that the wrong decision?"
Wrong decision. "Everyone else" aren't out having casual sex. You think they do, but that is because you choo... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 16 October 2012: I suggest you say "Okay honey. If you do not like the ring I got you, you are free to sell it and buy yourself a new one".
I don't think she'll actually dare do it. And I think, if she changes the stone, she will regret it later on.
Then ag... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 14 October 2012: If the person you are with is the right one, and not just using you, or has no feelings for you.. then you will be special.
If the person is just using you for sex, or have no feelings for you, you will not be special, even if it is their fi... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 13 October 2012: My guess is that you haven't been in love with any of these girls. If you're not in love then it is easy to be picky about "small tuff". But once you're in love you'll be willing to ignore mountains of trouble... The best thing of course is to ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always read into things too much?
Q. I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...
A. 4 October 2012: My trick is to always make a point out of how you treat EVERYONE this way. Treat others that way right in front of your male friends, or talk about a crush you have on some other guy, loud and obviously. Make a point out of how interested/in love ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always read into things too much?
Q. I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...
A. 3 October 2012: Welcome to the club of women who can not be friends with guys. I saved you a seat!
I can't be friends with guys either. First off all they tend to fall in love with me, because they think I'm interested in them or what not. I'm just friendly... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 23 September 2012: "I'm worried that they may take a good look at me, consider me a potential mate, and ask me out/invite me to their place."
IF they ask you out/invite you. So far it doesn't sound like this has happened. And girls rarely make the first move any... (read in full...)
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