Struggling with my wife’s past.....
Q. Hi I have been married for 3 years, and been in the relationship for 5 years. Before we got married, my wife told me about her past, the number of guys she has slept with which is 4.When she told me I felt uncomfortable proceeding with ...
A. 1 September 2010:
Did you have sex with other women before you met her?
As for the other guys laughing at you...Yes they are... Because you are spending your time thinking about them, and they don't even have a thought about you.
You can divorce her if you l... (read in full...)
I have an uneasy feeling about her. Should I end this?
Q. TO STAY OR LET GO I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 4 years. She has two children, daughter 19 and son 13. They live with their father, why, because they choose to as their mother left father for me and he is good to them....
A. 31 August 2010:
Tic Tic Tic...That's your life ticking away as you wait for your instincts to prove you right.
She may go back, and he may not want her back. Then you get to have her back. Then you go through this again, and again.
You know the saying...Be... (read in full...)
Leaving my wife for someone prettier?
Q. I grew up with a childhood fantasy of marrying a blond blue eyed girl, and instead I married a beautiful dark hair and eyed woman. We've been married for several years, and we have just one tween daughter... but now I want to pursue this idea...
A. 30 August 2010:
Hopefully your dream girl don't leave you for her dream guy...Trust me on this one...Karma is not to be messed with.
But please leave...You maybe doing your wife a favour. Some guys have to learn the hard way.... (read in full...)
How can I show him we are still good for eachother?
Q. I am 53yrs old and just got back into the dating scene about 5 Mths ago. I reacquainted myself with someone I knew in my teenage years. We have been dating for about 5 Mths and now he says we have no chemistry, which somewhat he is right, but I do ...
A. 30 August 2010:
Show him you can be good together... as friends, while you show off your new boyfriend, in which you both have great chemistry :)
Don't be sad for what you had, be glad for what you can get.... (read in full...)
Could this be my soulmate?
Q. I came in contact with a gentleman at a mutual gathering place about 3 years ago. After seeing him there a few times I started to feel this powerful energy from him. He has since moved out of state but every time he returns I get the same energy f...
A. 30 August 2010:
Take it as an invitation to be friends. A relationship wihtout friendship is just a ship, with no one on board (emotionally).
You will never know where things can go, if you are shy and let it slip by.... (read in full...)
I'm worried that there are few people to date!
Q. Are there many people who are single and in their late 20s/early 30s? I'm 29, I've come out of a 5 year relationship 6 months ago and I feel ready to start dating again. However I'm a bit concerned that since all my close group of friends are in r...
A. 30 August 2010: Your close group needs to become a wide group. Cows do not eat in the same place. They move all over the field looking for fresh grass
People go to supermarkets and bookstores for other reason's than dating.
Friday nights and weekends, lots o... (read in full...)
I can't stop fantasising about my wife having sex with another man!
Q. I can't stop fantasizing about my wife having sex with another man.I've asked Her but She's afraid it might ruin our marriage.I think about this everyday. How do I move on ,or better still how do I convince My Wife?...
A. 30 August 2010:
Do you want to have sex with the other man too? If the answer is "NO", then keep that in mind before asking someone else to do it.
If the other guy is better, you may not have a wife to keep asking, and she may finally have a man who don't wa... (read in full...)
I want to hurt my boyfriend I just feel so mat at him!!!
Q. my boyfriend drives me insane! weve been together for four months now and i really do love him , before we got together officially we were good friends for a year. i have sleeping problems , i was a doctor holton patient i took 11 tablets a day...
A. 30 August 2010: So you hurt him, maybe go to jail, and it will be better there than home...right??
Did the thought of getting a better boyfriend ever cross your mind? Or just taking a break from boys altogether until you can sleep and have a some what normal l... (read in full...)
When your dream turns into a nightmare
Q. A while back I posted a message stating that I was looking forward to immigrate with my son to start a new life in the caribbean where my mother now lives. I had intended to pursue a business but I can tell you it has certainly turned out to ...
A. 30 August 2010: Well, Sorry to hear about your nightmare.
However, there is always good in every bad. Your mother has set a fine example of what not to do to your son. So now you will pick yourself up and be a much better mother than she is.
This should n... (read in full...)
Pregnant and afraid of what everyone is going to think
Q. heyyah im 15 and im pregnant but the father or my parents dont know anything about it and im scared of what they all might say...im scared of the father leaving me on my own to raise the baby and im scared that my parents might not want anythin to ...
A. 30 August 2010: If you plan to keep the baby, it's time to start being mature. The mature thing to do is tell everyone involved, and let them know what your plans are.
Being honest is always hard at times like this, but it's the best thing to do. If the father w... (read in full...)
He said if I sleep with him he will trust me!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for the past year and a bit. I have known him for a total of 9 years. We have been in and out of touch over our friendship. About 2-3 years ago we become closer and I hooked up with a good friend of his ...
A. 27 August 2010: Let's see...If you trust someone close, you may fall in love with them...If you love someone you trust, you may marry them, and if you marry someone you trust, and love, then sex is...let's see...umm, good.
So...where is the love part here? Th... (read in full...)
Why jerk off when you have me?
Q. my man and i are very sexually active, but last night when i came home i noticed that he had been jerking off. i walked into our room and he got out of bed an went to the restroom as if he did not want me to know that he was jerking off why is that?...
A. 27 August 2010:
Did you ask him?? Or you could have ask if you could finish him off.
Maybe he was thinking of what you did to him last time that he really liked.
My friend's wife told him...No one strokes that C**K but me. She said to him... "my hands are... (read in full...)
I feel like I've ruined my life for good!
Q. I feel like ive ruined my life at such a young age :/ ive done soo many stupid things and its only hit me now how messed up i am.... this year alone, ive had drug issues, stds, abortion and got myself into loads of debt, and ive just realised ho...
A. 27 August 2010: Well you haven't ruined your life yet.
If your age is correct and you have figured out you are screwing things up...Then you are smarter than you think.
When people think a life like yours is normal, and that's the way things should be...Then... (read in full...)
Why do all the men in my life turn to porn?
Q. LONG story short: My boyfriend is great and I love him dearly. But (there's always a but, right?) I found porn on my computer and now I'm having trust issues. I confronted him and he has stopped (for 8 months now). I just can't quit thinking ab...
A. 27 August 2010: Understand this...Most men find out about sex the wrong way from a young age. Most women learn how to look after a man, or to stay away from a man early in life.
What do men get as boys?? Toy guns, toy tools, trucks, cars, and so on...Whe... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my daughter about her masturbating?
Q. I discoverd my 12 year old daughter is masturbating. I do know its perfectly normal but she is doing it alot I am worried. I dont even know how to bring it up but would it be wrong to say doing it too much can be bad for you? Through advice of a ...
A. 27 August 2010: Be glad...One part...She is not out there doing it with a guy.
Talk to her...but not as a mother, but as a friend. If you get mother like, she will shut down. Most teens tend to think grown ups do not understand what they are feeling or going th... (read in full...)
Am I being too uptight about this?
Q. I need some advice. My husbands parents go to these bike rallies where all the women walk around completely naked and you can see ppl getting blow jobs and having sex and stuff. Anything you can think of goes on at this place. Well they keep asking ...
A. 20 August 2010:
Are you going too?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex with other women!!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and started living together a month after we met. We are very much in love, have great sex and plan to move to Sydney next year and have kids when I'm a little older. I'm 21 and he's 33. We are both...
A. 20 August 2010:
Since you are going into this with the knowledge of not marrying you boyfriend...I say just go for it.
Maybe not discuss any of your hook ups.... (read in full...)
How long will it take to move on from her?
Q. I was in a realtionship for 18 years, my partner left me for another man with very little explanation. It's been a few years now since she left, I just wanted to know how long it would take to move on from her and would she have had any guilt. I ...
A. 20 August 2010:
How long do you want it to take before you move on? How much of your life do you want to spend thinking about this?
If your body hurts, you go to the doctor because you want the pain to stop. So the idea is...You do something to help yoursel... (read in full...)
My mom found my vibrator!
Q. Okay,well just a few minutes ago I went into my parents room because I have an earache and we were looking for the special tylenol that only works for my ear and I had left the vibrator underneath my pillow the night before and had fallen ...
A. 20 August 2010:
This is a good thing...Awkward moment but good. Better to use a vibrator than being out there looking for the real thing. That alone could put your mom's mind at ease.
Vibrator can't dump you...well, it could die on you...dead batteries :)... (read in full...)
31 and never been kissed!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. ...
A. 20 August 2010:
No one is lucky or unlucky...It's what you do with your life that brings what we call good or bad luck.
What do you do to meet women? Are you active? Do you go out to clubs? Are you shy?
Being with a woman is like a job...If you don't g... (read in full...)
My dad is splitting up with my mum, this has destroyed me!
Q. hi, im 22 me and my family have had a rough time the past few years with health and other things. i thought all the bad times had made us stronger as a family. i love my mum and dad to pieces because weve been through so much. then out of no were my ...
A. 19 August 2010:
It is hard..yes. But now what???
Life goes on, hard at times, but goes on.
Take all the good, leave the bad, for you, and your life.
See what went wrong from them,and fix those things in your marriage.
Learn as much as you from this, f... (read in full...)
Should I get a boyfriend so I can fit in with my friends?
Q. Im a 16-year old girl who is in the 11th grade when I look around in my hallway at my school i feel upset cause all of my friends that i've known for a long have a boyfriend and im get sad cause i get called a tomboy by my friends and even guys i ...
A. 19 August 2010:
SUPER HELL NO!!! Tomboys are soooo much fun :) Well for me anyway. Never be a follower, always a leader. Never let what people say or do shape your life. Just be you, and the right guy will come along.... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is using me for sex!
Q. I think my bf is using me for sex...wen I never gave my bf sex we whre all lovey dovey until the day we had sex...it al changed ..now evrytime I see hm he wants us to have sex anywhere or anytym we've did it inda car ,under the tree even at the back ...
A. 19 August 2010:
Well you can say...um...STOP!! It's your body, you control it, and you control if, when, and where you want to have sex.
If he leave you because of no sex, then great. You will just find a better man who respect you and what you have to offe... (read in full...)
Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?
Q. I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...
A. 19 August 2010:
Ask yourself this...Which guy would you want to marry...A hot guy who sleeps with every woman he gets his hands, or a cute guy who is just looking for a long term relationship?
Hot girls find it harder to settle down later in life, just like ho... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex with other women!!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and started living together a month after we met. We are very much in love, have great sex and plan to move to Sydney next year and have kids when I'm a little older. I'm 21 and he's 33. We are both...
A. 19 August 2010:
Well nuff said, and thank you for clearing that up. You seem to have thought it through.
So since your engines are on full, you can satisfy your needs anyway you see fit.
Go get your grove on lady...You can let us curious ones now how it went... (read in full...)
Music to turn him on?
Q. What music would you advice to turn a man on? or maybe for strip tease,,, ??? Something so erotic......
A. 19 August 2010:
Marvin Gay "sexual healing"
Barry white
Good starters.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 19 August 2010:
Well good for you. It's better to be standing on the platform when that hurt train is coming.
Dang!! You made dinner and all, and that's the best he could do?
Man hunting season is now on...Go snag you a wild hunk a man...Maybe you can ... (read in full...)
Wide hips: good or bad?
Q. I have an average body type, I'm 5'6, I'm athletic and try to keep in shape and I'm content with my body ..... Recently while getting dressed, my friend (a male) said to me that my "hips are wide" ... should I take that as a compliment or as insul...
A. 19 August 2010:
When I was growing up in the Caribbean, the older men use to say "Get a woman with wide hips, so your hands don't slip"... If you catch my meaning.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex with other women!!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and started living together a month after we met. We are very much in love, have great sex and plan to move to Sydney next year and have kids when I'm a little older. I'm 21 and he's 33. We are both...
A. 19 August 2010:
Do you get to have sex with anyone you want? Or is it just him doing it?
And you love him because he makes you feel sooooo....???... (read in full...)
I have a sexual problem and it's killing me!
Q. I have a sexual problem which is killing me! When I was a teenager, I was horny as hell. Always horny, fantasizing and masturbating (although I couldn't orgasm back then). Then I started dating a guy at 18. The first months, I was horny all the ti...
A. 19 August 2010: Get you mind back to sexy. You are over compensating for your earlier horny days. You saw it as a bad thing, and tried so hard to stop, that you really stopped altogether. What turned you on back then? What was that one thing that made you read... (read in full...)
What is it about receiving head that men like so much???
Q. A friend and I were talking about oral sex and we were puzzled as to what "makes it good" for a man? So, here is my question what is it about receiving head that men like so much??? What makes it good?? and why?...
A. 18 August 2010:
There a spot on the underside of the penis, where the head and the shaft meets. That spot is as sensitive as your clitoris. Your lips and tongue rubs that very well.
Plus all the other stuff mentioned.... (read in full...)
I hate my generation!!!
Q. I hate my generation! No one wants to date anymore! I always thought (with my catholic upbringing) the man I married would be the only man I'd ever be intimate with and we'd live happily ever after blah blah blah! Well four years of college ...
A. 18 August 2010:
What do you like about you? What do you find sexy about yourself? Do you think you have a sexy mind?
What do you feel you have to offer a guy who truely wants you?
What did you do to get the one night stand? Must have done something to ge... (read in full...)
What type of women do men prefer? Petite or tall?
Q. I have heard that short women ( 5'-5'2) with long legs are the most attractive. Is it so? What do you think about this?...
A. 18 August 2010:
It depends on the man. A tall man may want a tall woman, easier to kiss. But generally, most men do not want a woman who is taller than they are. They would look for a woman same height or shorter.
I like same height to shorter woman. I am ... (read in full...)
Problems with PE( premature ejaculation) please help
Q. I, 18, have been dating my girlfriend, 19, for almost 2 years. We first started having sex 7 months into our relationship. We had experiance oral sex only 5 months into out relationship. I love my girlfriend and although she doesn't find herself ...
A. 18 August 2010:
What do you do before you put it in? How long do you do foreplay on your girlfriend?
Get your girlfriend to make you cum first. Then you work on her. Kiss, touch, rub, whatever it takes to get her to the point where she is ready to rip her hair... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't respect me!
Q. I am 25 yrs old and my bf also 25, we always fighting,but i know that we love each other so much,but he doesnt respect me,he says what ever he want,we have been together for 3 yrs, if i tell him that he must change his behaviour,he wil tell me that ...
A. 18 August 2010:
Let me see if you understand the word "love". He does whatever he wants, and doesn't care what you say, he disrepects you all the time, you fight all the time, but... You love each other very much???
I thought love was the opposite of all that.... (read in full...)
Do virgins turn guys off?
Q. I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. The guy that I've been talking to just asked if i am or not, and I'm scared that things will change between us or he will think of me differently when i tell him that i am. I'm not "saving myself" for ...
A. 17 August 2010:
It can also make a guy try harder to be your first. Becareful who you give it too. Some guys are just after the hunt, once they get it, it does not interest them any more, and they move on.
Do us all a favour, do not lose it in some stupid place... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 17 August 2010:
So what's going to happen when both of you have problems of your own?? Is he going to take off and not talk or text you until he figures out what's wrong??
What if you had kids, or money problems of your own? Can you count on him to talk to you,... (read in full...)
He beats me up... but I always forgive him.
Q. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT HE IS ALWAYS ATTRACTED TO OTHER GIRLS.WE HAVE BEING TOGETHER FOR 8 YEARS AND HE BEATS ME UP.AND WHEN I LEAVE HIM N GO OUT TO STAY WITH MY COUSINS HE CALLS ME UP AND BEGS FOR FORGIVENESS.WHAT SHOULD I DO?I LOVE HIM SO MUCH SO I ...
A. 17 August 2010:
Next time you move out, make it a one way trip. Hitting a woman is like hitting his own mother, it just wrong.... (read in full...)
I'm at a high risk of being hurt of these rumours are true...
Q. I'm seventeen. I work at Krystal and recently, a beautiful girl started working there and she's my age. We're the only ones still in school that work there. I've liked her for awhile and finally after work I just told her. And she replied by saying ...
A. 17 August 2010:
If you slept with her, what does that make you? Do you have a name for a guy who has sex with a "whore"....Let's see...oh yeah...a lucky guy. But a woman is a whore...hmmmm!
Shakespeare once say" A rose by any other name is stll a rose, and sm... (read in full...)
Masturbation is a chore!!!
Q. hii, i have a big problem, All i think about is sex, this isnt an exuse but its like im addicted. Im hooked. i have a girlfriend who ive been with for 17 months now i love her more than anything we have sex once or twice a week! but twice a week ...
A. 17 August 2010: If your girlfriend helps with the masturbation it may help some. Also, if you hold out as long as you can, and let the need build up until you can't stand it...When you masturbate you will get a bigger bang for your efforts, and it will take a lot ... (read in full...)
How do I get the old me back?
Q. Why since I was five yrs old I was called gay. I'm not i like women all too much but its been hard to deal with. I fell off a roof 25 or so feet and lived through it.life is so hard to deal with I stayed busy for the first like 8 months ok by ...
A. 17 August 2010: First...What was the old you like? If you can answer that, then you can start working towards it.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 17 August 2010: Actually, he is not taking out his problems on you...You are the one texting and calling him. So really, you are asking for it.
I said this to someone before. You see the hurt train coming down the tracks...Where do you want to be standing... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 16 August 2010: Not to sound mean about what's going on in his life...However, that is his life not yours. Misery loves company, and unless you want to end up in the same emotional hell hole as him, suggest you walk away.
Women have the natural instinct to love ... (read in full...)
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