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writes:my man and i are very sexually active, but last night when i came home i noticed that he had been jerking off. i walked into our room and he got out of bed an went to the restroom as if he did not want me to know that he was jerking off why is that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): We've all heard the saying "99% of men masturbate and the other 1% lie about it"-right?
Just because we know it happens, doesn't mean there isn't a bit of stigma attached to it. Men can be embarrassed by it, even though they know in their hearts there's nothing wrong with it.
As long as you guys are still actively having good sex and he's not pulling away from you to masturbate instead, I wouldn't worry about it at all.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 August 2010):
Men do it all the time. I promise it's nothing to worry about at all.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Oh men like to do that. Their hands are their best friends, sometimes.
I always tell my boys that even if they don't think my mouth or hands can do for them what their own hands can (usually this is enough to get them to give the 'handover' to me), they should at least have the courtesy to ejaculate on my body or in my mouth.
Never fails.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (27 August 2010):
Did you ask him?? Or you could have ask if you could finish him off.
Maybe he was thinking of what you did to him last time that he really liked.
My friend's wife told him...No one strokes that C**K but me. She said to him... "my hands are better than yours, and I have many skin areas you can soften". That's was all it took.
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (27 August 2010):
 He got horny. You weren't there.
You seem to have a problem with it, have you expressed this to him? That could be why he tried to hide it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): That's happened to me before. It's mostly embarrassment. I am sure he doesn't want you to know he was jacking off to the thoughts or pics of someone else, perhaps. Or just ashamed to have you catch him jacking off. Could be either. It's healthy to jack off so don't fret man.
Check under the beds, in the closets, on his blackberry or computer and see if he's into someone else. If so, you may need to address that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): you dont have anything to worry about!!! masturbation is normal, you dont always have to be around for your guy to masturbate, its just having abit of alone time, letting off abit of steam, thats all, he most probably walked off because he didnt want you to question him, x
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