Low male libido...not sure what to do
Q. I'm 41 and with a highly sexed woman who's 40. We've been together about a year, and I have to say it has been a roller coaster. I love sex, but I am not used to it every day, let alone 3-4 times. Mentally, yes, but physically it takes me at ...
A. 5 August 2010:
I alway say the penis should finish what your mouth and hands started. It should not be the ONLY tool in the shed. Find ways to get your lady so cranked up, that by the time you use the tool, she is done.
A friend of mind use to do things to ... (read in full...)
Soulmates
Q. Soulmates. Yes, I know how it goes. The general belief many people seem to hold about this topic is that we all have a Soulmate. One person out there somewhere, who we are forever searching for. We are incomplete without them, lost and alone. And if ...
A. 4 August 2010:
Deep...Very good points. Some people are just better for our soul that others. ... (read in full...)
Not eating! Love sickness?
Q. Since I started seeing a new guy about a month ago. I've stopped eating, not perpously, I didn't even notice until about a week ago, I do eat, but like once a day if that sometimes. I don't know whether love sickness is making me not feel hungry ...
A. 4 August 2010:
Well you can start by eating. Love sickness maybe good, but not eating properly will make you really sick, and that is not good.
Kinda hard to be in love if you are too sick, from making yourself sick. If you notice this problem yourself, th... (read in full...)
My wife has a new sexual fetish. Is this normal?
Q. My wife likes me to lick her bum. This seems weird to me, and i am not sure i like it. I do it. This is hard to explain, but she seems to get off on dominating me. She says stuff like, "You like it when i F your face, don't you" or "lick that ...
A. 3 August 2010:
Dude...Where can we guys get clone copies? If the sexual fetish is just for you...enjoy every last lick.... (read in full...)
Why do I get a tingly feeling all over my body just before I have an orgasm?
Q. Ok im a guy and wen i masturbate right as as im about to have an orgasm i get this tingly feeling all over my body.....why is that...is it good or bad..........
A. 3 August 2010:
How does it feel to you? Good or bad?... (read in full...)
I can't seem to make anybody really interested in me...
Q. I am 18 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm very open about everything, and I always say whatever I think. I value people for being different, though sometimes I feel I have an impatient and rushed personality. Maybe that's why I can't ...
A. 3 August 2010: "I feel I have an impatient and rushed personality."
That statement of yours could sum up everything. Have you look around this site, or around your friends and see how many people have problems with boy friends, or husbands???
Is this what ... (read in full...)
My ex has totally messed up my head, should I see a doctor?
Q. Hey people, This is going to be the last time i post something on this because i think my head is going? My ex totally messed me about, lied to me, messed me totally about. one week she wanted me, the next didnt then when it all came to a end she ...
A. 3 August 2010: ...And the doctor will say what exactly to fix your hold on her? That's right, YOUR hold on her. You love what you see on the outside... Your words "This girl is stunning and i mean drop dead gorgeous." Now, is she stunning and drop dead gorgeous in ... (read in full...)
He says he can't love before sex!
Q. My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...
A. 30 July 2010:
The ladies are right! He loves sex, not the person he is having it with.... (read in full...)
What's so good about big penises?
Q. Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...
A. 30 July 2010:
I will never understand why guys believe the only way to please a woman in bed is to stick something in her. And the bigger it is the better.
Woman will make fun of a guy's package because they know most of us are self conscious about our pa... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm at 22....
Q. I previously posted a question regarding lack of sex drive with my amazing partner and how its been really getting me down. A few people have suggested it may be due to never having had an orgasm. Not even with previous partners. Does anyone have ...
A. 30 July 2010:
Why do you feel you have no sex drive. What do you think is holding you back?... (read in full...)
We've had sex and he gave me a key to his apartment, but I'm not sure where our relationship stands!
Q. Hey everyone, I'm nineteen dating a thirty-four year old guy. We started seeing each other thinking that we would just hang out and be good friends but, things changed. He drove six hours to come "rescue" me from a bad situation once and after that, ...
A. 30 July 2010:
Well, time will tell, but come on... it's good way to start :) Enjoy it...It the lease you can do, hehe.... (read in full...)
We've had sex and he gave me a key to his apartment, but I'm not sure where our relationship stands!
Q. Hey everyone, I'm nineteen dating a thirty-four year old guy. We started seeing each other thinking that we would just hang out and be good friends but, things changed. He drove six hours to come "rescue" me from a bad situation once and after that, ...
A. 29 July 2010:
Isn't the old saying "Action speaks louder than words." come into effect here?
I would say hold off on the getting pregnant thing for a while, until your relationship has more foundation. If he is still treating you that great, then...... (read in full...)
He likes my best friend but then why would he ask me out?
Q. There a guy ( I will call him mike ) he seems to like my friend (Jane). I think were friends we talk a lot he talk to me about movies like he go to cinema and he like that movie or about some books he read is just a normal conversation be...
A. 29 July 2010: You might just be a back up girl because he can't have the one he wanted.
I wouldn't go there.... (read in full...)
Why do the nice, smart girls always have to wait years before someone finally takes an interest in them?
Q. my best friend is the nicest girl you will ever meet! shes cute and sweet and everyone she meets likes her. lately shes been upset because shes never been asked out. my question is why do dumb b****y girls always have a bf but nice smart girls have ...
A. 29 July 2010:
That's easy...Nice, smart girls are just that...SMART! Smart enough to stay away from jackass guys, and nice enough to still be friends with them.
In the Caribbean where I grew up, we called dumb girls that have alot of guys...cloth... (read in full...)
I'm hurt my ex is moving on so fast!
Q. So when my ex broke up with me (only a month ago), he said he wasn't breaking up with me for any girls or anything, and he wasn't going to start dating any time soon. I just found out theres one girl he's been texting all the time and talking to ...
A. 29 July 2010:
Oh I know!!! Get a guy of your own on facebook that you really like, and have HIS chat window up all the time. See if that help you to get over your ex.
It's worth a shot :)... (read in full...)
I don't know much about serious relationships, can anyone give me some advice on what to do?
Q. im not use to all this, but ima do my best. I've been wit this chick, she the most amazing girl i ever met, but i dont really know much about having a serious relationship,, like i been talking to her everyday on the phone, and im running out of ...
A. 29 July 2010:
One- Talk less, listen more.
Two- She is not chick, she is a woman, start treating her like one.
Three- Listen to her and understand where she is coming from.
Four- If you listen hard enough she will let you know how she wants you to ma... (read in full...)
How long should a guy last in bed?
Q. To the ladies what's the least a guy should last in bed?...
A. 29 July 2010:
It depends on the girl. If she is really into it, you don't stand a chance. Guys like to believe the can be better in bed than a woman...yeah right. The more excited a woman is, the faster you are done.
You want to give a woman a good time?? ... (read in full...)
Worried about b/f's health and weight
Q. Hi :) my boyfriend is very heavy for his height and age. We've been together 7 months and I love him so much that I've actually realized sometimes i dont even think about what his body looks like because I'm so happy just being around him. But I do ...
A. 29 July 2010: Could be the other way around. How would you like him to feel about you then? Take him for a walk, go do something, and stop giving yourself gray hairs.... (read in full...)
How can you restore intimacy to a relationship?
Q. I just want to know how you can get the intimacy back into a relationship. And what excactly is intimacy? Ideas??...
A. 29 July 2010: Well, what makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside when you are with your parnter?
If you are in the mood, what would you like him to do to you, make go all fire hot?... (read in full...)
Why do guys want a virgin?
Q. Why do guys say that sex with a virgin girl is better/more pleasurable than with a non-virgin? and why do guys want and like to be the one to take a girls virginity?...
A. 29 July 2010: If you are a virgin and you marry a guy who had lots of women before you, how long do you think it will take before he gets bored of just being with you? Except for your virginity, you have nothing new to offer in the bedroom. Same if the man was ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to find out the outcome if I tell him I cheated...what should I do?
Q. i've been dating this guy for a little more than 4 months now, but yet i had a boyfriend (long distance) for more than a year at the same time. I told the long distance one that i was seeing another guy and this was the second time i cheated on him. ...
A. 29 July 2010:
May hurt now...but it will hurt a hell of alot more the long you wait.... (read in full...)
For the guys... what differentiates between a one-night-stand girl and a keeper?
Q. This ones for the guys... what makes a girl decent for a one night stand? what makes a woman ideal for a relationship? What kind of girls would you consider only good for one night? i'm talking looks and personality. And why do you think that if...
A. 29 July 2010:
You care what people think because you are dressing up just for them?? If they don't like it, don't look. If they like it, then keep looking.
You can dress like a nun and people will still have something negative to say...so?
Misery love... (read in full...)
Guys: is this normal or a fetish?
Q. A guy I'm seeing right now likes me to suck on his penis, literally, as hard as I can while giving him oral sex. I don't have man parts, but when he mentioned it to me it sounded really painful. But anyhow, I did as he asked (and have done so eve...
A. 27 July 2010:
I will tell you the difference...The blow job is a sliding action, but the sucking hit the real sensitive spot between the head and the shaft of the pernis. That for us is like your clitoris. Maybe not as sensitive, but same idea.
Try licki... (read in full...)
How can I overcome painful sex?
Q. Hi, I am a 22 year old female. I lost my virginity at a late age compared to others that I know. I was 20. I lost it to someone who I was falling in love with. The first time was very painful, I was cringing and he had to stop before he could even ...
A. 27 July 2010:
You take control and slow him down. Make him lick you more, and get you good and wet. Make sure he does not try to just slam it in, but take his time and slowly push his way in, as you relax your muscles.
A hurry bird never builds a good nest.
... (read in full...)
Guys: is this normal or a fetish?
Q. A guy I'm seeing right now likes me to suck on his penis, literally, as hard as I can while giving him oral sex. I don't have man parts, but when he mentioned it to me it sounded really painful. But anyhow, I did as he asked (and have done so eve...
A. 27 July 2010:
One word...ADD!!!... (read in full...)
Blowjobs: is it weird that it's the only thing I wanna do?
Q. Hey y'all! I know this is going to sound weird. But I've had an oral fixation ever since I was young. I'd never given a blowjob until I had sex for the first time when I got to college. I was later given the nickname: BJ. I love to give more tha...
A. 27 July 2010:
Where the heck were you when I was your age?? Mother of all that is good!!!
No, you are not weird. In fact...wait...wow!
Ok, I love to go down on a woman first. Heck I can camp out there if someone brought me food.
... (read in full...)
My best friend has obvious feelings for my partner!!
Q. My best friend have obvious feelings for my partner!!!! I have seriously noticed on numerous occasions that my best girlfriend has feelings for my partner. We are a serious couple and we want to get married etc. Lately say 1 month back my so c...
A. 27 July 2010:
You let them get closer how? You said "honey, please get close to my g/f, please. That would be great." Your g/f sees how happy you are making your man, and she wish it was her doing it. Your b/f loves the attention, simply.
I say you get in t... (read in full...)
How can I stop checking up on my ex?
Q. How do I simply stop caring about what my ex does and how he lives his life now? I can't help but sometimes check out his facebook and see who he's talking too and what he's up to, which I am trying to stop. How do I stop caring about everything so ...
A. 27 July 2010:
What has it done for you? Do you feel better when you do it? Does it make your heart jump for joy?
All that time you are spending checking up on your ex, could have been spent checking out a new guy to replace your ex.
Wasting time on t... (read in full...)
Why don't my orgasms feel that incredible?
Q. Basically im 14 and i masturbate fairly regualarly, never more than once a day; probably about once or twice a week. It's just that whenever i masturbate the semen comes out etc etc and i guess i have a kind of orgasm that feels alright, but it's ...
A. 27 July 2010:
When you masterbate, get close, then stop. Wait for the feelinf to go away, then start again. Get close then stop. keep doing this to build up the sensation.... (read in full...)
My head is wrecked because of her...help!
Q. Hey people.My story is that is a ex of mine who i feel for is a real head messer.She has model looks but messed me about big time when we where together,she lied to me all the time and one week she would be nice the next nasty as hell to me.i loved ...
A. 27 July 2010:
Ever put your hand on a hot stove?? The smart thing to do is put your hand on it again right? Oh no wait, that didn't burn to the bone, let's try again.
You must love pain, because you keep going back for more. I don't care how sexy, beauti... (read in full...)
Boyfriend got roommate pregnant...what to do?
Q. OK, my question is what should I do??? My boyfriend broke up with me six months ago for less than a week and slept with his roommate and got her pregnant. Apparently she just realized NOW that she's pregnant and told him just the other week. What...
A. 27 July 2010:
You hare her because??? YOUR boyfriend slept with her, and you hate HER??? I would be thanking her for showing me what kind of guy he is. Why?
Fast forward 5 years from now. You are married with kids, and you find out he is cheating on you...the... (read in full...)
Is it best I walk away from this relationship?
Q. I really need some good advice. I've recently split with my boyfriend of 14months because his friend told me he cheated on me when we were first together. My boyfriend admitted it but says he wants to move on. Furthermore, his friend told me more ...
A. 27 July 2010:
Well, what good reasons do you have that can make it work?? You already list some important things you don't want to deal with in this guy, and your mind is already "dreaming" of someone else, so....
Answer this question...
If I stayed with ... (read in full...)
Insecurities a problem in my relationship!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for roughly a year, we have had ups and downs like any couple. I am quite insecure and this is something that constantly causes a problem between us. When we first got together I had no worries at all, but ...
A. 27 July 2010:
You have started councelling for a problem you already know the answer too??? Let's say there are two chairs in a room, and you sat on one, and a nail poked you in the butt. What do you do? You sit in the next chair, right? You don't keep sitt... (read in full...)
I want to attract my husband by sex!
Q. Can any body help me to make my husband keep an eye on me,as i want to attract him by sex but i dont know which way when we do sex he tells me that my sex drives him crazy i am the best in sex he loves my sex if so then why dont he feel like making ...
A. 27 July 2010: OK, lets get dirty...
You wear a short skirt or dress. You walk pass where he would see you, and "Oh look, I drop something. Let me pick this up". You bend over showing him what he is missing.
Bring him something to eat, and no bra, and button ... (read in full...)
What positions work to make sex last longer?
Q. how can i make sex with my husband for long ? what can i do to make him stay longer in sex not to finish soon as i want to enjoy? which styles will make us do sex for longer time,and how to make him need me all the time what will drive man crazy? as ...
A. 27 July 2010:
Like DOUBLEM said "More foreplay". A penis is to finish the job, not sart it.... (read in full...)
All her guys are friends and its hard for me to trust her!
Q. Dear cupid, I am having very weird feelings towards my current girlfriend. She is out of the province and I can't help but think that she is going to cheat on me. I have been cheated on 5 times with my ex. So I can't trust anyone anymore. It bothers ...
A. 27 July 2010:
You can't trust anyone any more??? So why are you in a relationship?? Why bother? If everytime you get with a girl, and you are worried...why bother?
So, let say this girl cheats on you...Now what? What's the worst than happen to you? A broke... (read in full...)
I feel like I should get beaten up to feel better!
Q. this will sound crazy and its sounds like I have problems I know I do, so some info on this is I want to fight someone really bad because of this girl. she drives me so crazy in a good way and we are just friends but I have made her feel bad and ...
A. 27 July 2010:
Pain has never help anyone, and you do is complain about how much pain you are in. Go and work out, get a punching bag, or go for a long run.
You want this girl bad, right? You want a fight. You get the fight, and the other guy takes it to ... (read in full...)
For the guys... what differentiates between a one-night-stand girl and a keeper?
Q. This ones for the guys... what makes a girl decent for a one night stand? what makes a woman ideal for a relationship? What kind of girls would you consider only good for one night? i'm talking looks and personality. And why do you think that if...
A. 27 July 2010:
A keeper will not have a one night stand. A one night stand is just that, one night.
There is a song that sums up the kind of sexy most guys are looking for..." A lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed".... (read in full...)
I want to know how to ask her about how she feels about this guy and not ruin the great friendship we have
Q. Ok so here's the story I about 1 or two months ago I met this girl at church. We started talking and we have become really goood friends. She knows about my life and I know about hers. I really like her nd I'm starting to have fellings for her but ...
A. 26 July 2010:
Leave it alone...Your first love is to open your heart and mind to the feeling of love, not to hang too for the rest of your life. Some people get lucky that way, but most don't.
Sometimes when people focus too much on one person, they miss ot... (read in full...)
Catholic n muslim relationship
Q. Am in love with a muslim girl.we have been datin for 2 years now and we are very compatible.I love her as a muslim and will never want to convert her but she says as much as her heart wants me her mind is comited to the family.part of her family ...
A. 26 July 2010:
Leave it alone, and move on. If you are meant to be together, GOD will make it happen.
Don't push this...You never know what her family will do to her, an dif you love her as you say, you don't want that.
But do hate her family, you never kn... (read in full...)
I've learnt my lesson! But now I'm pregnant and don't know which man is the dad
Q. Ok so im pregnant they tell me 8weeks, but i would like to know how do i work it it on wich day did i get pregnant? because i had intercause on different days with 2 different persons! i had the first one on 7 june and second one on 24 june my ...
A. 26 July 2010:
No you would not have harm the baby, but drinking now will.
The only thing I can say, let both men know there is a possiblity one of them is the dad. I figure you don't want to let them know the whole story. But you should.
The other way is,... (read in full...)
Catholic n muslim relationship
Q. Am in love with a muslim girl.we have been datin for 2 years now and we are very compatible.I love her as a muslim and will never want to convert her but she says as much as her heart wants me her mind is comited to the family.part of her family ...
A. 20 July 2010: What would GOD or JESUS say??? Isn't LOVE for all the message that was be spread?? Let GOD and JESUS decide your relationship...not culture.... (read in full...)
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