We don't have the same libido
Q. I have been in my current relationship with a slightly older woman, she is 36 and im 29, for about 7 months now. We hadnt met before last week as it has been an internet romance. None of this, I believe, has any relevence to my conundrum, having ...
A. 21 July 2010:
Then all that's left to do is talk to her. I am guilty of trying to read a woman's mind...don't go there. Left me more confused.
If she is that blunt with you, then just let her tell you what she really wants.
Sometimes men and women play t... (read in full...)
We don't have the same libido
Q. I have been in my current relationship with a slightly older woman, she is 36 and im 29, for about 7 months now. We hadnt met before last week as it has been an internet romance. None of this, I believe, has any relevence to my conundrum, having ...
A. 20 July 2010: Well change positions, see if you can reach that spot. If not, a vibrator may help. Second, and not to be rude...why is she comparing you to her ex?? Sorry for being blunt...but if she enjoyed it with him so much, why is she with you? Look, pl... (read in full...)
How do I manage to stay strong or those rational thoughts to help me get through a guy NOT calling?
Q. Hey all, I need help or in fact, words of encouragement and talking some sense into about dealing with when a guy doesnt call. The last guy I was dating when things started going wrong I ended up having the most awful panic attacks and anxi...
A. 20 July 2010: Alcohol or not, his words got to you, or you wouldn't be writing this. What happen to the rule to yourself about chasing a guy?? Did that go out the window the moment you kissed him? You sound very smart, and wise yourself. So maybe you n... (read in full...)
Bad sexual experience has left me stinging!
Q. I have recently had a bad, disturbing sexual experience. One night during intimate encounters with my partner she asked me if we could experiment. After agreeing she said she wanted to put objects up my bum..... Needless to say i was quite worried ...
A. 20 July 2010: Doctor doctor doctor...Yes I know you are afriad to tell the doctor what happen. But, are you going to wait until something worse happens before you go??
Stop being a typical man and go.... (read in full...)
I'm right in wanting to clear the air and have a spill-all talk?
Q. I've been extremely good friends with a guy for about 12 years. He was my first love/crush, but we have never dated- basically per his choice (not mine) although I did agree that we both had to "grow up". I respected his wishes and we stayed CLOSE ...
A. 20 July 2010: Only one way to find out...spill.... (read in full...)
Sex doesn't feel right!
Q. when i have sex with my partner it doesnt feel right it feels like its in my stomach and is touchin my belly button a dont get any pleasure at all but i have a few times it just wont go away what could i do to help make this feeling stop. ...
A. 19 July 2010: Are you new to having sex? That could be part of the problem.
Also, you may want to change positions.
If you are new to sex, and your mate is pushing way too hard, you may get that feeling too.
If none of these help, then "johannabanana" may... (read in full...)
I'm sick and tired of the emotional abuse from my husband!
Q. Hi, I have been married for 22 years. I have had my share of problems. My husband is sometimes a really sweet person, which is why I am still married to him. Over the years we have gone through a lot of crap. The crap that was thrown at both of ...
A. 19 July 2010: You want to leave him but don't know how??? You drove a 1000 miles to hell, and don't know how to leave??
Drive another 1000 miles in any direction away from the problem, that's how.
A fox digs a hole for itself, but always has a way out, a... (read in full...)
How can I make him understand my way of expressing emotion?
Q. Recently, i had a miscarriage and loss my babies(multiple birth). my fiance and i are pretty devastated(ive had over 8 miscarriages my entire life). when it comes to expressing how we feel we r total opposites. he tries to stay calm and positive by ...
A. 19 July 2010: Sorry, I am not going to sugar coat this for you, because life has not done that either.
You scream, break stuff, get drunk...And all this has helped you get pregnant right???
You think your body and what you have been doing to it helps you car... (read in full...)
My two best friends are dating
Q. I had a best guy friend that I was really close to, and we met on a conference for school, but we went to different schools at the time then, he came to my school, and met my best girl friend, and one night he told me he liked her. When I told my ...
A. 19 July 2010:
The same thing would happen if it was you with a boyfriend. You might say "no, I would never do that", but you would, and you wouldn't even notice you were doing it. They are exploring new feelings they never had. It will die down soon, and they... (read in full...)
We don't have the same libido
Q. I have been in my current relationship with a slightly older woman, she is 36 and im 29, for about 7 months now. We hadnt met before last week as it has been an internet romance. None of this, I believe, has any relevence to my conundrum, having ...
A. 19 July 2010: You are not by chance thinking too much or over thinking the size issue are you??
I will give you this advise...The penis is not the only thing that pleases a woman. Learn that much and you are good to go.
Kisses, touching, and foreplay, will g... (read in full...)
My husband is an island
Q. Help!!! My husband is an "island"...doesn't need input and doesn’t need anybody “telling him what to do”. There’s no sense in discussing anything with him because, by the time he brings up a subject, he's already thought of it and has the "sol...
A. 19 July 2010: Sometimes the best way to fix someone's problem, is to become there problem...how so??? Your hubby is an island...so an island does not need help. You make dinner? Don't, he can do it. He brings up a topic, walk away, he doesn't need your answer... (read in full...)
1st time sex and pregnancy
Q. Okay so .. Ugh .. I know this is gonna sound stupid and I hate myself now.. Anyways .. I lost my virginity about umm .. 5 days ago .. To my boyfriend I really love .. He told me he wants to spend his whole life with me and well I feel the same .. ...
A. 19 July 2010: Yes you can pregnant after the first time. Really, all you need is sperm, not even sex.
Best thing to do, is speak to a doctor and know for sure. Hopefully you have learnt your lesson for the future.
Lesson is... When you are ready, not when ... (read in full...)
Why is this happening to me? I am very pretty, successful, smart - what am I doing wrong?
Q. I was married for 13 years to a man 17 years older than me - we have 3 children together. Few months ago I found out that he was having affairs with multiple women and filed for divorce. Shortly after that, I met a man, in his 50-s and started ...
A. 18 July 2010: "I am very pretty, successful, smart - what am I doing wrong?"
Life is just bringing you back to Earth. Some people think when they have all that going for them, things should be...easy. Well, life does not play that game.
Lesson...a go... (read in full...)
Is it disrespectful for him to ask me to sauna with his friends 3 hours after meeting him?
Q. i wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hrs later his calling you asking you if i wanna go sauna with him and his friends?? ...
A. 18 July 2010:
One word....RUN!!!... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and my parents are still too strict!
Q. Hi I am 20 years old male and soon im gonna turn 21 and my parents are still to strict with me. If I style my hair then they get disapointed from me and my mom does not talk to me and my father yells at me till I get rid of the style.... im not allo...
A. 18 July 2010: When a Parent is to strict with their 20 year old, it's because the 20 year old hasn't shown them he/she is responsible enough to look after themselves.
If your parents never have to tell the kids don't do this or that, then they now there ki... (read in full...)
Is it weird to be a virgin at 24?
Q. I haven't found a girl yet. I could if I wanted to. In college I had some chicks reject me. I could have gone for girls that I wasn't interested in. I could have hooked up with them, but I didn't. But now I'm 24, and haven't had sex. I'm ...
A. 18 July 2010: Keep it as long as you can. Wait until you are Married if you can. My grandmother had a saying...A hurry bird never builds a good nest.
Rush into sex just because, and sex will always be...just because.
Find a girl who wants to wait like you.... (read in full...)
Would this bet make a girl mad?
Q. Ok so my question is, would a girl (I`m dating) be mad if she found out about a bet I made with my papa(Grandpa). The bet was that I could wait to have sex till I`m married. The winner gets $500, I feel like I should keep it a secret when I get into ...
A. 17 July 2010: Dude, look around you, and all the problems sex have brought to people. Waiting til you are married is the best thing you can do. I would tell the girl, and bet her too. Let's see if you both can wait until you are married. It's like waiting fo... (read in full...)
Should I have a circumcision?
Q. I'm in a little dilemma. I'm 15 years old and uncircumcised. I'm embarrassed about it. I don't know if I should get circumcised. If I decide to do it, what would be the right age to have the procedure done? ...
A. 17 July 2010: I am not...glad I am not for many reason. If GOD didn't want you to have the skin, it wouldn't be there. Like you eye lids. The skin is there for protection, just like the extra skin we men love so much on a woman's Vagina. Would they like that cut... (read in full...)
How do I deal with unintentional biting during orgasm?
Q. I hope someone would share his experience and give me an advice how to deal with my little problem. My girl is blessed with very strong orgasms, but when it happens, she often unintentionally scratches and bites me. We solved half of this problem....
A. 17 July 2010: Ask her if she likes her hair being pulled. If she does, use that to control her head. Please do not rip the hair out of her head. In fact, if she likes her hair being pulled, she will pull it herself as she tries to bite you. That way, she wi... (read in full...)
When I ask for affection my husband says "Don't you have something better to do?"!!!
Q. I eloped with my husband a year ago. We were really intimate and spent a lot of time together. But for the last six months he's been having one thing after another, a lawsuit, probation, his sister's lawsuit, his friends multiple bf problems. He ...
A. 16 July 2010: Normally I would say fight for your marriage, but if your husband thinks you should fine something better to do than love him and be his wife, then....ok
Later.... (read in full...)
I love her but I can't stop my drinking and partying ways...
Q. I am 21 years old, dating a woman who is about 7-8 years older than me and let me say I do LOVE HER, but I am not ready for a committed relationship right now. I don't want to lose her because, she is the best woman I have ever had, in fact, she is ...
A. 16 July 2010:
I will never understand why people say these things..."I love her, but I love everything else more". Hmmmm? You love to party, and you want someone to love your partying ways as much as you, so that you do not have to change you life style??
Eve... (read in full...)
Help me to see this for what it is...
Q. I fell in love with a man who treated me very good, and we were compatible in every way and got along so nicely. We were integrating friends and family nicely, making vacation plans, and moving to the "I love you" dialogue. When we were together, ...
A. 16 July 2010: What exactly do you love?? If you re-read what you typed, you might want to re-think the word love.
Don't get me wrong, love can do some pretty funky things to our minds. But this hurt train even I can see coming a long way off.
The question ... (read in full...)
How do I give off signals to make women stay away?
Q. I would appreciate it if someone could give me some sound advice here. I am in a difficult situation, and I want to make women stay away from me (sexually) because I am scared that if I meet a lovely woman, she might pressure me into starting a ...
A. 16 July 2010: Very easy...The same way you expressed yourself here, is the same way you let a woman know what you want from a relationship.
Just say what you want.... (read in full...)
I really don't want to be lesbian
Q. ok I am age between 13-15, and I love the idea of having a boyfriend, but I can wait until it will last a little longer than two weeks with someone that is right for me. Lately though, I am close to my period and I keep panicking that I am lesbian, ...
A. 16 July 2010: Question?? Why do you think you are a lesbian because you are close to your period?? Did someone tell you this?
You can no way, not even possible to be a lesbian because of your period. Being a lesbian means not having sexual feelings towards ... (read in full...)
Nervous about dating in high school
Q. im 14 and ill be in high school by the end of august, and im very nervous, not because of grades, not because of bullies, but because of dating. ive had two girlfriends. the first one dumped me after a week for someone else. my next girlfriend was ...
A. 16 July 2010: Do yourself one massive favour!!!
Grow up mentally. Find wiisdom, hunt it down, learn about who you are first, and girls after.
Listen to women...yes WOMEN not girls. Learn what women look for in a man from older women, and apply them to yo... (read in full...)
I'm scared to get close to a guy because I don't want to be hurt again. How do I show interest without getting too close?
Q. Well, I am scared to get to close to a guy because I don't want to become hurt again. How do I show I really like him and still not get to close to them?...
A. 16 July 2010: What is the point of showing interest if you don't want to get too close?? You don't want to get hurt, but you are hurting yourself by building up all these "interesting feelings" and then telling your heart NO!. That is like being extermely hungry, ... (read in full...)
Is height really important? And is there any way I can grow taller?
Q. Hi guys. I need to know from women how much height is important. I'm 21 and 5'6 which bugs me a great deal. I think it stands in the way of me scoring a good date. Girls always think i'm younger! What can i do to grow a little bit taller? Please ...
A. 16 July 2010: You have all wrong, way wrong. Women have 5 years on guy in maturity, before we even start look at girls. You could be 10 feet tall and still act like a 12 year jackass.
Women look for me that are tall in the brain. Someone they can talk too, hav... (read in full...)
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