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writes:I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. The guy that I've been talking to just asked if i am or not, and I'm scared that things will change between us or he will think of me differently when i tell him that i am. I'm not "saving myself" for marriage so to say, it just hasn't happened yet. So, is being a virgin a turn off to guys, especially at my age?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 It depends on the guy. If he is a decent guy he would take it easy your first time and try to make it special for you.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (17 August 2010):
It can also make a guy try harder to be your first. Becareful who you give it too. Some guys are just after the hunt, once they get it, it does not interest them any more, and they move on.
Do us all a favour, do not lose it in some stupid place, like the back seat of a car, in the woods, etc.
That is a very special thing to lose...You don't get it back.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
 No, it wouldn't be for me at least. I'm just not the "saving myself for marriage" type though, so if that were the case, i wouldn't waste my time.
It can be intimidating. Nice guys will want to make sure you're fully ready and in love. A player might try to make you his trophy.
This guy you've been talking to, are you dating? Is he just a prospect? That's pretty personal information to be talking about, so for the mean time, it might be good to just say that you don't get that personal until you get to know somebody better.
Again, many guys will not be turned off by your virginity, many might actually be turned on. You just have to be careful that the guy you choose for your first time diserves to be remembered by you forever.
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