Catholic n muslim relationship
Q. Am in love with a muslim girl.we have been datin for 2 years now and we are very compatible.I love her as a muslim and will never want to convert her but she says as much as her heart wants me her mind is comited to the family.part of her family ...
A. 26 July 2010:
Leave it alone, and move on. If you are meant to be together, GOD will make it happen.
Don't push this...You never know what her family will do to her, an dif you love her as you say, you don't want that.
But do hate her family, you never kn... (read in full...)
I've learnt my lesson! But now I'm pregnant and don't know which man is the dad
Q. Ok so im pregnant they tell me 8weeks, but i would like to know how do i work it it on wich day did i get pregnant? because i had intercause on different days with 2 different persons! i had the first one on 7 june and second one on 24 june my ...
A. 26 July 2010:
No you would not have harm the baby, but drinking now will.
The only thing I can say, let both men know there is a possiblity one of them is the dad. I figure you don't want to let them know the whole story. But you should.
The other way is,... (read in full...)
Do I just sound malcontent in general? What's wrong with me?
Q. I'm wondering whether any of you are in my current situation? I don't really discuss this with anyone in my life, because I'm quite embarrassed by it. I'm in my late twenties and for the past nine years, I have worked in offices. I've worked ...
A. 26 July 2010: The guy building a house throws away a brick the thinks he does not need. Only to realize, that brick is most needed to finish the house. You threw away the job you thought you did not need, and went on to build a life, only to realized you cou... (read in full...)
How do I know if I satisfy my wife?
Q. How did i know that my wife is satisfied with my penis .what is the activities of a girl when she is satisfied during sex....
A. 26 July 2010:
She is satisfied with you and sex if she wants to do it again. If she doesn't like it, she wouldn't do it.
What else can you do in bed without your penis?... (read in full...)
Interracial couples. Black man, white female. What do you think about that?
Q. How many people are really against Interracial couples, especially those of which consist of a white female, and a black male. I (hear) many white males became completely unattractive to the woman, or would never want to have anything to do w...
A. 26 July 2010:
What colour is LOVE??? Is love limitted to a skin type, or gender? Have you heard the saying "LOVE is BLIND". If people actually believe that, there would be no need to call a relationship Interracial. It would just be a relationship.
Some men ... (read in full...)
She waits for Marriage...And me?
Q. Ok. Here's the deal. What I like to think is, "I don't wait for marriage to lose my virginity, I wait for love" I've been dating this girl for a year now. And I brought up sex. She says she wants to wait til marriage and insists on that. It's a goo...
A. 26 July 2010:
SO SO wrong...anyone can have sex...if pay for it, is that love?? If you have a one night stand, and never see the girl again, is that love??
If you love her, then you will have no trouble waiting. And what sex drive do you have if you have nev... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like my husband doesn't want to have sex with me?
Q. hi, i am over tense as i feel my husband dont like to make sex with me can you please help me understand this? is this because i am not attracted to him? or any other reason? he dont even touch till we have sex nor he feels like touching me nor say ...
A. 26 July 2010:
Sometimes to get a relationship back to where is was, you have to go back to what attracted him the first time.
Sometimes husbands and wives wait for the other to make the first move. If you don't touch him, he won't touch back.
If you were... (read in full...)
I am 17 going on 18 and still haven't had a girlfriend! I am feeling bad, what should I do?
Q. I am 17 year old guy and i am going to be 18 in 10 months and when i look back i never had a real girlfriend actually first one i had when i was 8 and our relationship lasted just 2 weeks long. Since then i just had dates which were just happening ...
A. 26 July 2010:
Well you learn your lesson about not dating girls you don't like...Awesome!! So, now lets rush into finding a girlfriend you do like.
Yep you found her, you are in love, butterflies, love notes, the whole deal, and it's a real relationship... (read in full...)
24 (almost 25) and has never had a boyfriend!
Q. ok,I'm a 24 year old female almost 25. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never had sex. Lately I've been depressed because I feel I have a good personality, and should have found some one by now. I have always been a tom boy. I am obese, but ...
A. 26 July 2010:
You are rushing into life way to fast here. Where is it written that you should have a boy friend by now? Because your friends have one? One will come when you are ready mentally. If look through a lot of these post, you will see how many wome... (read in full...)
He's bisexual, but I love him, how do I get over this love?
Q. I am absolutely in love with my best guy friend, but I really can't be. I've had strong feelings for him for about 3 years now and at the beginning of the year I told him how I felt. The problem comes in because I told him that I wanted to lose my ...
A. 26 July 2010:
You have problems getting pass one man? Have you looked around to see how many men there are?
I was told a long time ago...Stop staring at that one tree, because you will miss the forest.
Mr. right could be in front of you, but you are too... (read in full...)
My marriage and my husband are boring me to pieces, what can I do, give up??
Q. My God. The boredom I am feeling these days is unrelenting. Well - I have been married to my husband for 2.5 years and we dated for 10 months before that. We were BEST OF FRIENDS and we got along famously. I've had better bedbuddies - but I ...
A. 26 July 2010: Sounds routine to me...What do you do to change things up???... (read in full...)
Can women determine genital size just by looking at a guy??
Q. Can women tell if you are well endowed just by looking at you or a part of you? Or what are some things women look at on a guy to try and guess what size a guy is?...
A. 26 July 2010:
Well...women would like to look at a guys brain first, but since they can't do that, they are stuck telling men their package does not matter... Really...Do you really think it the size of the package or the brain controling the package that matt... (read in full...)
If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby?
Q. If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby? ...
A. 26 July 2010:
How would you feel if you found out your mother was this close to abort you?? Not be cause of health reasons, but just because your dad was jerk?
You have a chance with this child...If it's boy, make sure you bring him to be a man any woman wo... (read in full...)
Does penis size determine if a woman will stay in the relationship?
Q. Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?...
A. 26 July 2010:
Your penis is not the only tool in the shed. The penis should be use to finish what the other tools started. ... (read in full...)
How to meet and date when I'm overweight and underconfident?
Q. I am looking for advice please, about meeting and dating girls. I am very overweight, and sometimes can be very underconfident. I know it is possible that my weight won't put someone off, as I have been in a relationship, but now I am uncertain a...
A. 26 July 2010:
Sexy starts in the mind, and the body follows. I have overweight women that can make men beg to have a cold shower...Why? Their minds. They know they are overweight, but the ranchy stuff they have in their minds make them look slim, and make guys... (read in full...)
Can men stay without having sex with their wives for 3 to 4 weeks?
Q. can you please tell me can men stay for a long time i mean like 3 or 4 weeks without having sex with his wife? is this true can man stay without touching his wife for more than 3 weeks as my husband never keep attention on me why is that? is that ...
A. 26 July 2010: Yes, men can stay long periods without sex. The main question is why do they do it?
Have you asked him why does it?... (read in full...)
I still can't believe I'm pregnant after 7 months...
Q. well i have posted about an ongoing dilema in my life. im young and pregnant. i'm living on my own, i work hard and study hard for the future of my baby. my family is far away and the baby's dad, who was everything to me broke my heart and i have ...
A. 24 July 2010:
My dear, you have no idea what you will miss if you had give this up. Well, I feel bad for the dad, because he has no idea what he is going to miss.
A baby is a little you, and will grow up to be just like you. But the good part is.. you get... (read in full...)
I don't want sex yet, how do I tell him to back off without being harsh?
Q. I was wondering your adivce on the best way to talk about having space with someone and slowing things down a bit, without going overbooard and scaring the other person away. I have been seeing this guy for just over 3 weeks now, and we get along ...
A. 24 July 2010:
Just say "Not right now". I he really loves you, he will say ok, and not try any more, until you are ready. If all he wants is just sex from you, he will keep trying...Then you can tell him to get lost.
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I'm confused about getting married and don't think I'm ready
Q. I need help, i'm scared and i can't talk to my friends.If i told them about my opinions maybe they would lough at me.....so i decided to ask for help to unknown people. in a month i'm going to get merry, i love my boyfriend and he loves me,but m...
A. 23 July 2010:
Could be cold feet as people say. However, this is the rest of your life you are talking about. If you don't feel right, then don't do it, wait until you are ready.
Your heart will let you know the right time, and when that comes, there will b... (read in full...)
I can go on and on after sex, is this normal?
Q. Hi there, I dont know how to put this. Its a bit embarrassing. I just wanted to know if this is normal during our love making sessions. We are both fit and healthly.We are both in our 40's. We love each other very deeply and we have a fantastic...
A. 23 July 2010:
When I am 40, I want to be just like you. I think the fact that you can't get your g/f very often makes up for some of superman powers, as you are making up for lost time.
Question is...how long does it take for you to go down? Are you using me... (read in full...)
Should I get back with him because every aspect of our relationship is great? Should I learn to cope with his enjoyment of porn?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. When we got together I knew he watched porn, I didn't mind at first until I realised how much he did it. I asked him to stop and he agreed, I then found out 6 months later he was still doing it (yes, by ...
A. 23 July 2010: Make your own porn with him, and watch them together. If they can do it...... (read in full...)
Sex has become nothing but a chore for me!
Q. My libido has disappeared and this has been getting worse for the last 3 years - since last child born. I now feel guilty for not doing it, and guilty when I do it as I am clearly not enjoying it as much as I or my husband would like me to - it ...
A. 23 July 2010:
My wife is exactly where you are now...Just been 13 years for me. If the wind blows I am ready, she has to wait until the week before her period when her hormones are at their highest, and nothing else is distracting her mind.
So, here is what... (read in full...)
Should I stay because he treats me well or leave and follow my dreams?
Q. Can someone pelase tell me what matters in a relationship? Is it how a person treats you or how fulfilled you are? In short- I am with a man who is very respectful, loyal, puts me first, and is always there for me. He always keeps his promises and...
A. 21 July 2010: Will you be happy not traveling? Would you look back at this 5 years from now and hate yourself for not doing it? If you decided to stay, and 5 years from now he leaves, would you kick yourself then? I have seen relationship go to hell because one... (read in full...)
We don't have the same libido
Q. I have been in my current relationship with a slightly older woman, she is 36 and im 29, for about 7 months now. We hadnt met before last week as it has been an internet romance. None of this, I believe, has any relevence to my conundrum, having ...
A. 21 July 2010:
Then all that's left to do is talk to her. I am guilty of trying to read a woman's mind...don't go there. Left me more confused.
If she is that blunt with you, then just let her tell you what she really wants.
Sometimes men and women play t... (read in full...)
Second wife equals second best?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much and we are very happy together planning a future - but I can't get it out of my head that he has been married before. I feel like he has done every 'first' with someone else and nothing is new or special to him with ...
A. 21 July 2010: If you bought a new car, and sold your old one, you get excited over your new car??? Why? It's still a car? You are not doing anything different. Still just driving... a new car, right?
But if the old car was lets say a Smart car (ex wife), a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he's more attracted to someone else. Should I be worried?
Q. Recently, my boyfriend told me that he found a girl at his summer job to be more "attractive" than me. I'm thin for my height, and in his words, look more "fragile" than "fit" and "fragile" is not attractive. He also said that she is prettier, but ...
A. 21 July 2010:
When you see the hurt train coming a mile away...you get off the tracks.
Anyone who has to put up with a jackass like him will have depression issues.
Let him have her...Maybe she will see someone else she is more attracted too...hehe... (read in full...)
He treats me better than my boyfriend, should I switch?
Q. In summary, I'm a girl, who can't make her own decisions, so I could really use your advice... I've been dating this guy for the past nine months. I really care about him, but our relationship hasn't really been the best. He's been spending al...
A. 21 July 2010: Maybe you need to leave them both and start fresh.
You see the things you don't like in one guy, and you see the things you like in the other.
So, start over with a guy who has the qualities of what you like. Life is just teaching you stu... (read in full...)
My sister refuses to sleep in her own bed.
Q. A couple of months ago, my Mum lost her job, and we had to move into a flat, which only has 2 rooms. This means I'm now sharing a room with my sister whos a year younger than me. We each have a bed, but she will only sleep in mine, and it's really ...
A. 21 July 2010:
You should be proud that she wants to stay in your bed. WHY???
That means she loves you, trust you to protect her in a place where she feels afraid. Most brothers and sisters don't want to be in the same room, much less the same bed.
She ... (read in full...)
Need tips on better communicating with my wife
Q. hi I am having problems in my relationship.I love my wife of three years but I need to better myself in communicating Does anyone know any good books or good advice I need it Thank you...
A. 21 July 2010:
Ok, she married you, why? Were things always the way they are now? Most couples stop talking because they get distracted by work, kids, facebook, and with most men...TV.
See when you first got together, she was the only thing on your mind. N... (read in full...)
How can I tell if she loves me too?
Q. Im in love with a girl sincerely.Im very sweetie. Everyone likes me not because of my beauty but my character, well-Behavior. But I dont know whether she is loving me or not.How can I confirm that she loves me? P.S. She is modesty and religiou...
A. 20 July 2010: How do you know if you are going in the right direction in a place you have never been before??
You ask for direction, right? How do you find out something you don't know? You ask a question.
Better to hear the truth and know where your heart... (read in full...)
Why does he masturbate? Dont I satisfy him?
Q. i am there for my husband whenever he needs me but whenever i burge into the shower his masterbating why and he loves me so much. don't i satisfy him or what? i have never asked him why he does that because i feel he will get angry with me...
A. 20 July 2010: Guys masterbate for different reasons.
- He may have a fancy to do something to you that he doesn't think you would approve of, and rather than hearing the dreaded "NO", he goes off to his special place.
- He could be turned on by something ... (read in full...)
Is there anything we can do to push me over the edge?
Q. I have been with my partner for 2.5 years, we lost our virginitys to each other so he is the only person i have had. in the time that we have been together i have never orgasmed apart from when i do it myself though clitoral stimulation. I can get ...
A. 20 July 2010: That feeling you have like you are going to pee... That's it. That is an orgasm ready to blow. Just relax and let it happen.... (read in full...)
How can I improve my posture?
Q. i am 5 feet and my husband height 6.2 .;i have a bad habit that i walk with bent shoulder and neck...like old..i want to overcome this...and want to walk straight...sit straight...any body help me...any exercise any suggestion..it also destroy my ...
A. 20 July 2010: Having good abs helps your posture, like soldiers. They stand the way they do because of lots of sit up, and are trained to hold their heads up, chest out, stomach in. Practice this when sitting, back straight, stomach in, head up.
As for your bre... (read in full...)
We don't have the same libido
Q. I have been in my current relationship with a slightly older woman, she is 36 and im 29, for about 7 months now. We hadnt met before last week as it has been an internet romance. None of this, I believe, has any relevence to my conundrum, having ...
A. 20 July 2010: Well change positions, see if you can reach that spot. If not, a vibrator may help. Second, and not to be rude...why is she comparing you to her ex?? Sorry for being blunt...but if she enjoyed it with him so much, why is she with you? Look, pl... (read in full...)
When is enough punishment enough punishment?
Q. So I have come to a fork in the road and I need some objective advice. I admit a lot of what brought me here is of my own doing. But nonetheless here goes. My wife and I have been married for 12 years and we have two girls. It was one of those war...
A. 20 July 2010: You can still get her back. She was the man in the relationship, am I right? By your words. She told you not to join facebook, she checked your phone, and she decided to go to counseling...Not you. Instead of stepping up and meeting her man ... (read in full...)
I'm bi-curious, but don't know how to go about it
Q. I'm not sure if i'm confused about my sexuality, or just curious, and i'm not sure if i'm straight or bisexual. I have been fantasising about having sex with women for a while now. The only ways i can think of meeting women though to try and ...
A. 20 July 2010: Lots of women are curious about other women...come on...women are just yummy. But I think you should try with another friend who is also curious first. That way you won't feel like you have to do something because you are already in a gay/lesbian... (read in full...)
Catholic n muslim relationship
Q. Am in love with a muslim girl.we have been datin for 2 years now and we are very compatible.I love her as a muslim and will never want to convert her but she says as much as her heart wants me her mind is comited to the family.part of her family ...
A. 20 July 2010: What would GOD or JESUS say??? Isn't LOVE for all the message that was be spread?? Let GOD and JESUS decide your relationship...not culture.... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to be mad or am I overreacting.
Q. I’ve been married for three years and we have a one year old son. We have problems the same as everyone else but nothing major. My husband (31) and his sister (35) took their mom (60) to New York City for two nights as a birthday present to their ...
A. 20 July 2010: If this is not your husband's normal way of being, then don't sweat it. But let him know how you felt...Calmly. Yelling never fixes a problem, unless you are in the army.... (read in full...)
Someone sent my partner a text saying I'm sleeping around but I'm not!
Q. Hey dealt don't no what to do as me and my partner who is 4mnts pregnant with our first are falling apart and I really don't want to loose her two days ago my partner got a text saying in sleeping with your boyfriend no name gave or evidence or ...
A. 20 July 2010: Well someone is jealous of you two. But everything happens for a reason. If you can not last through this, then it was not meant to be. Think about it 5 years from now. Married, kids, the whole works, then a text like that. If you are st... (read in full...)
Why is he nice only when he needs me?
Q. i was very close friends with a guy at work and we got on so well and were best friends. ive helped him through all his work tests and helped him through personal stuff. lately he barely calls. hes got very cocky since his confidence has grown and i ...
A. 20 July 2010: He is only nice when he needs you because you give him what he wants...That simply. You feel bad because deep down you know better.... (read in full...)
What is your "depth"?
Q. OK, so I've been seeing a lot of posts here about guys and their penis size, and the depth of the vagina. It's been my experience that the vagina elongates during sex. I say "experience" from what I've read, and what I feel when I'm having sex (...
A. 20 July 2010: So they have big bats, but can they swing it. In porn the women are paid to scream and make noise. Are they really enjoying sex?? Mostly NO. Have you ever had sex with a woman who is so turned she is ready to burst?? She will take what ever you go... (read in full...)
How do I manage to stay strong or those rational thoughts to help me get through a guy NOT calling?
Q. Hey all, I need help or in fact, words of encouragement and talking some sense into about dealing with when a guy doesnt call. The last guy I was dating when things started going wrong I ended up having the most awful panic attacks and anxi...
A. 20 July 2010: Alcohol or not, his words got to you, or you wouldn't be writing this. What happen to the rule to yourself about chasing a guy?? Did that go out the window the moment you kissed him? You sound very smart, and wise yourself. So maybe you n... (read in full...)
We don't have the same libido
Q. I have been in my current relationship with a slightly older woman, she is 36 and im 29, for about 7 months now. We hadnt met before last week as it has been an internet romance. None of this, I believe, has any relevence to my conundrum, having ...
A. 19 July 2010: You are not by chance thinking too much or over thinking the size issue are you??
I will give you this advise...The penis is not the only thing that pleases a woman. Learn that much and you are good to go.
Kisses, touching, and foreplay, will g... (read in full...)
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