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writes:I, 18, have been dating my girlfriend, 19, for almost 2 years. We first started having sex 7 months into our relationship. We had experiance oral sex only 5 months into out relationship. I love my girlfriend and although she doesn't find herself attractive, I am truly attracted to her. My problem is, a problem I probably share with many other men, that I have to stop thrusting my girlfriend so that I don't ejaculate. I'll thrust her then when I feel as if I'm going to ejaculate I stop and kiss her and touch her until I can start again. One time she sqeezed her vagina and I tried to pull out to prevent myself from ejaculating but I ended up doing so causing her to get turned off which then lead to a big fight. How can I possibly last longer and have sex with her without the worry of ejaculating to soon. She tries to not make me feel bad by telling me I must be really attracted to her which I am but I want to enjoy her and please her good at the same time. She also has a really tight vagina which feels amazing around my penis, could that be the problem?
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reader, jpat5991 +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Try triangular breathing look it up on youtube I used this method and last long with my gf like 20 mins and also think about that you cant "come" until she "comes"
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reader, Melltoo101  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 well i dont know on your side how its done, but here where i live everyone calls it 'rounds' after getting it on the first time we wait several minutes and go againg, that round two. its like taking a break of 5to10 minutes and slip in the condm on again, we can go for about 3to5 rounds depanding on how long u take a break. but my maximum is 3rounds. so what you should do is go for round1 which its takes 4minutes to you, ejclte, then take the break and go for round2 which my friend i know it lasts for up to 15to25 minutes, then youll get things goin...
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reader, Duckiies +, writes (18 August 2010):
 DUDE .. IT helps me. to talk a hot shower before hand and destory some of you sperm. So you can last a bbit long and you wont eject.. it probably takes awhile to make u eject if u take a hot shower
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Have you asked her whether she would seriously mind if you finished early? I mean honestly, I don't mind at all when a guy finds me so irresistable he's cumming within minutes. I simply ask him if he wants to take a break and have another go.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (18 August 2010):
What do you do before you put it in? How long do you do foreplay on your girlfriend?
Get your girlfriend to make you cum first. Then you work on her. Kiss, touch, rub, whatever it takes to get her to the point where she is ready to rip her hair out. By then you should be hard again. Then thrust away.
Your penis will be less sensitive the second time around, and less so on the third time.
Everything else first, penis last.
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