Is this all normal behavior during sex?
Q. Im in a new relationship and recently had sex with this man for the first time, during the act he spoke out about what he was seeing ie youve opened your legs wide for me, he shouted out on 3 occasions while looking away "fuckoff" as if to someone ...
A. 4 January 2011:
Normal compare to what??? Compare that to all your other sexual experiences...and the answer is???... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed.
Q. I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I'm a high school senior. I'm not like the other girls. I like different music than the rest, I don't like going to the clubs, i like reading books.I am different. I can't help thinking that I'm...
A. 4 January 2011:
Honestly…You do not need a boyfriend to feel special or that you belong. The old saying “Be careful what you ask for,” is the perfect answer here.
You feel sad because you don’t have that special someone in your life…well…Lets say you did? You... (read in full...)
Why is it said that you should hang out with people your own age?
Q. why do some people say that you should hang out with people your own age ?. I'm almost 27, but the men i have liked in the last few years have been between the ages of 39 and 47, and i hang out with some women who are in their thirties and forties ...
A. 4 January 2011:
Personally…hanging out with people your own age can be good and bad. The people I hang out with that are my age, do not think like people of that age, but older and wiser.
I always hang around people that are older, because I could learn from t... (read in full...)
I feel so trapped in this relationship...
Q. Im too scared to leave my partner of 2 years. He is very abusive, he keeps threating me that he will make sure i will loose my job and that he will do something to my family. He is english and im from czech republic. My family is very importatnt to ...
A. 15 December 2010:
What rights do you have as a woman?? Where was it written that you should be treated like this and accept it or else?
You leave, and you go straight to the police. Let them know everything he has said and done, and you don't look back.
Bei... (read in full...)
Am I a nyphomaniac?
Q. I've engaged in foreplay before but I've never had full blown sexual intercorse. I'm constantly horny and faithfully masterbate everday, several times a day. Does this mean I'm a nymphomaniac and when I do start having sexual intercourse ache for it ...
A. 15 December 2010:
Not really. I think you have not found the man who can give you the deep sexual pleasure you are looking for. I think we are all looking for that mind bending sex, that leaves your body begging to stop moment. Where all your muscle hurt, sweat on y... (read in full...)
Whats better for penis size?
Q. So this may sound dumb but I'm wondering from a girls point of view. What's better for penis size, length or Gerth? Cause I'm 5.5 long and 5.75 around, so which one is more enjoyable...
A. 15 December 2010:
Your mouth actually. A good kiss, and really good hands. Ask them if you don't thinks so :)
... (read in full...)
Sad, depressed, lonely and isolated
Q. I hardly have any friends and when I think I do, I end up losing them. I end up realizing that none of them are good friends. I have tried so many different types of youth clubs and activities to try to make friends. But I never ever do! I'm not a ...
A. 14 December 2010:
"I have tried so hard to make friends" This is your first problem. Trying to get people to like you.
Do you like you??? If your answer is yes...Why do you care what others think? You know what you have to offer? so...the flame does not go to th... (read in full...)
How do I repair my relationship with my sister?
Q. i have 3 sisters and i really only get on with 2 of them. Wel when i say i don't get on with my youngest i mean we fight adn argue all the time. She is in her teenage years has a quick firy temper and everytime we talk we always end up arguing. So ...
A. 9 December 2010:
It takes two to argue. does not matter who starts it, since you are older, finish it.
If you choose to listen more and speak less, there will be less chances to argue. Most arguements start when two people are trying to get their point across... (read in full...)
He walked out on me and our son!
Q. I have a seven month old son, the father left me when I was seven months pregnant my heart still feels for him and I just found out that he is seeing another woman and I am heartbroken. I don't understand how he can just let go of us so quickly he ...
A. 9 December 2010:
Take a good look at your situation...Do you really want a man like that around your son???
I get that you feel lonely, unloved, and your values and trust have just gotten trashed.
I always say "bad things happen for a good reason." You ma... (read in full...)
My mum called me a whore for having sex aged 17, but she is the one with 12 kids all to different fathers!
Q. So today me and my bf had sex, anyway my mom found out because my sister is a snitch and she only looks for ways of getting me into trouble, anyway so my mom was bitching me out about having sex with my bf. She started calling me like a whore an...
A. 9 December 2010:
Simple...Your mother has call you that because, she does not want you making the same mistake she did. Hard choice of words, but learn from her. ... (read in full...)
I lose the words when I try and tell her how I feel! Help!
Q. Hey people, just need an opinion on this situation im in and maybe some help. Theres this girl in my group of friends and I just think shes amazing and I have had a crush on her for quite a while now. We're pretty close like we sit next to each ...
A. 9 December 2010:
Pen and paper...write...give...Good luck :))... (read in full...)
Why do women play hard to get?
Q. I don't know if there's something wrong with me, but I get extremely angry when a woman is interested in me but she plays hard to get. Why do women do that? Why can't they just throw themselves at you if they are genuinely interested. It w...
A. 9 December 2010:
"ivanichiaynus" True is what you said. But my point was...Nature goes through a geat of work to carry on the with life. Mating calls, building nest, fighting for the right to mate, and so on.
We humans have the best means to communicate,... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to stop abusing his ex?
Q. My boyfriend wont stop texting his ex and calling her names he tells me he hates her and everything n he doesnt have her number but he keeps texting her, im friends with her and she tells me, he tells me not to talk to her. I talk to her behi...
A. 9 December 2010:
When you say you don't want to lose him...What exactly would you be losing??? You will lose a guy that makes you feel like a queen one time, only to take it away the next by being jerk.
Wouldn't you rather have a guy that makes you feel like a ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to stop abusing his ex?
Q. My boyfriend wont stop texting his ex and calling her names he tells me he hates her and everything n he doesnt have her number but he keeps texting her, im friends with her and she tells me, he tells me not to talk to her. I talk to her behi...
A. 8 December 2010:
You do realize you could be next right??? You may not see this as a warning...but you better believe it's a big one.
Just saying.... (read in full...)
Building trust after being cheated on.....
Q. Just wondering if anyone has any advice on dealing with trust issues after being cheated on? Can couples therapy/councilling help, or are the trust issues always there? Also, has anyone had successful relationships after being cheated on (with the ...
A. 8 December 2010:
The only way to get over this, is to accept it happen and…Now what??? Feel bad for yourself because a guy shows you how much of a jackass his???
Fact is…it can happen again. Question is…What did you learn from?? Did you see warning signs? Felt ... (read in full...)
Why do women play hard to get?
Q. I don't know if there's something wrong with me, but I get extremely angry when a woman is interested in me but she plays hard to get. Why do women do that? Why can't they just throw themselves at you if they are genuinely interested. It w...
A. 8 December 2010:
Look at nature...do you see the females throwing themselves at the males? Or do the male have to work to get the female?
Why should it be any different with us.
Good women are hard to get...like diamonds and gold. The fake stuff you can ge... (read in full...)
B/f wants a room he can fill with pictures of naked women!
Q. Girls (or boys can answer too i guess to give your side) How do you feel about the fact your bf/fiance/husband has or wants a room to be his (like a games room) and have it filled with pictures of naked women??? I was just talkin to my bf and...
A. 26 November 2010:
Sure let him...As long as those pictures are of you. Asked him if you can have a room of your own with pictures of naked men?... (read in full...)
How do I get more out of my girlfriend when she is not keen?
Q. I'm a 25 year guy my girlfriend and I have sex on average 12 times a week but its just not enough so I end up masterbating 6 times a day.is this normal and how do I get more out of her when she is not keen?...
A. 26 November 2010:
I think you need to spend more time making love and less time having sex. 3 minute sex is just that...sex. It takes the edge off, but that is it. If you spend more time with foreplay, teasing, and building up to sex, 6 times a week would be more... (read in full...)
Still a virgin at 21?
Q. Well, I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin. I feel more ashamed of this than "happy" because it seems virtually everyone I know at this age has lost their virginity, including my younger sister. I've only had one boyfriend and that was f...
A. 23 November 2010:
Trust me...These days, you should be really picky with guys.
Do you know why you should wait???
Let say you lost it now…Sex is really good. So you do again and again, and as much as you can. You try different guys, different positions,... (read in full...)
How does a guy lose is virginity?
Q. what are the ways by which a boy loses his virginity?...
A. 23 November 2010:
They have sex with a female or male depending on your choice. But generally involves penetration of another human.... (read in full...)
Dependant on porn and worried about my fantasies
Q. I'm a 39 year old woman and a single mum. Not found a relationship that makes me happy and have become dependant on porn, but I feel sick with myself and this is the only place I feel I can share it without being judged. Problem is that when I surf ...
A. 22 November 2010:
Do not feel bad about watching porn...I do it for the same reasons as you. I would rather watch porn safe at my home, than be out there chasing women, and sleeping with them just because. I have a very high sex drive too, so porn helps to take the ... (read in full...)
Does sex make your penise bigger?
Q. Hi, my question is does sex make your penise bigger or have any other physical efects on the body will our mucles grow bigger as well. Ive noticed some guys seem to have a really big penise even when not errect i feel small in comparison. also women ...
A. 19 November 2010:
NO! You are born with what you got.
If you think for one second a big penis makes better sex, you are dreaming.
One word...foreplay.... (read in full...)
My self esteem is at an all time low
Q. Dear Cupid, Okay well to start I have a terrible self esteem. Im about average look and Im only alittle over weight. My self esteem is so bad that when I meet someone that it dosent even cross my mind to flirt. She could get better is the o...
A. 19 November 2010:
They can do better than you...hmmmm. Better how? What is the difference between you and other guys? Same body make up. The differnce is...they are doing something with their lives, and not sitting there feelng sorry for themselves.
You don't... (read in full...)
What does "temporary break up" mean?
Q. So I need serious help, because I don't get this at all and maybe someone or ANYONE can help me explain what it means. My girlfriend told me last night lets go on a "temporary break up". What does that mean? Is there even such a thing as "temp...
A. 19 November 2010:
It means you should not be there when she comes back. She is most likely check someone else out. If that does not work, then you are back on.
Unless you did something to really get her mad, and she just don't want to deal with you right now.... (read in full...)
Being a great lover
Q. hi,Agony Aunt and everyone.I would love to know if there was just onething you could tell the world about being a great lover,what would that be? ...
A. 19 November 2010:
Penis last, everything else first. You have 6 senses use them.
1) sight
2) hearing
3) Touch
4) Taste
5) Smell
6) The most important of the all, and the one most people fail to use, and distroys most relationships...
Common sense.
... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when girls get really wet during sex?
Q. Hi. This is my first time on this site, and I can't believe how helpful it has been! My question is: Do guys like it when girls get really wet before/while having sex? I ask this because I tend to get very turned on during sex, and get really ...
A. 17 November 2010:
Yes please!!... (read in full...)
He has broken up with me 15 times in the last 2 years!
Q. hi im 22 years old and my boyfriend is 25, iv'e been with him for about 2 years there's something really wrong with him. in the past 2 years he's broke up with me about 15 times and his exuse is im scared of getting hurt... i keep telling him im not ...
A. 17 November 2010:
I guess you are waiting for number 16, 17, 18...times.
I was told this when I was a kid, and I will tell you the same thing.
1st time...was a mistake.
2nd time...was coincidence.
3rd time... You are the fool.
This may sound harsh...but ... (read in full...)
What do you get a guy that already has so much?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I are working on a new relationship with each other. Meaning friends. We care for each other a lot. Maybe in the future we'll be back together. Well in the mean time Christmas is coming up and I'm not sure what to get him. He ...
A. 9 November 2010:
The best gifts can not be bought, rented, or made.
You already have it, and it's free to give. How you give will make the diffence. :)... (read in full...)
What can I do about my feelings for my teacher? And why am I attracted to a girl when I am straight?
Q. Ok, I'm going to be vague about this, as I don't want to much revealed but here goes. I'm a straight girl, and I'm in love with one of my teachers... Who is also a girl. She's a young teacher, I think about 25. She's been at our school for a f...
A. 2 November 2010:
Ok, then I chalk it up to plain old feelings. Which is good in a way. Now you know how guys feel about you girls. Powerful stuff you women. :)... (read in full...)
Help with social anxiety disorder!
Q. So hello, im someone on the internet :P andI have a problem. I have been on here before but things have changed/stayed the same. Anyhow, I have social anxiety disorder, just found out 2 weeks ago and it is at a high level andlike anyone with social ...
A. 2 November 2010:
First off...Put down the games, and read...Books, news papers, watch the discovery chanel...all that. You will at least have something other than games to talk about. That is itself will give you confidence when people start talking.
Sometimes... (read in full...)
For the men: Do you count on your wives to look after the house and kids, or do you take charge and help out around the house?
Q. i want to know how many guys out there who work full time are married and have kids. when you get home from work do you spend time with your kids, help with housework, dissapear and do your own thing? i dont mean to sound rude but im just curious ...
A. 2 November 2010:
My advise...Read...home school..what ever you have to do to up your knowledge of what's out there. Can you bake really good? Sell some. Even a home day care.
Do not rush things to much. You might bit off more than you handle.... (read in full...)
Girls that I like don't show any interest in me, but the girls I don't like always seem to want me!
Q. Hi, I am a student at an American college, coming from Britain. I am really new to the romantic scene, and having a few problems. There is one girl I really like, but I don't know how to ask her out, and I'm not even sure if she likes me at all, ...
A. 2 November 2010:
That’s because you are looking at girls from a physical point of view, from the outside. A beautiful woman comes from the inside. Yeah, this may all sound cheesy, but true.
Life is just trying to get you to see that, and teach you a lesson.
... (read in full...)
I'm insanely jealous of his ex!
Q. Hi I could really use some good advice right now as I'm steadily destroying my relationship with my boyfriend of nearly a year. I met him after he'd been split from his long-term(8years) girlfriend and mother to his two children 6 and 3. She...
A. 1 November 2010:
Well, let's see...You have tried being jealous, that did not help. You tried anger, and nope. Your guy tried reassurance...nope.
So...Let's try LOVE!!! That's right...LOVE.
Love her for giving him up, cause now you have him. Love her for ma... (read in full...)
How can I convince her mum that I am good guy?
Q. hello again look i am deeply in love with my gf and all i want to do is be with her but her mom prevents me from seeing her. now my gf and her mom aren't necessarily close my gf doesn't like her mom because of her childish behavior and stub...
A. 1 November 2010:
If you know you are a good, why do you need to covince other people. Your actions is all they need to see. People will hate you even if you had wings pixie dust. Just human nature to hate before getting to know someone.
Love your girl, treat ... (read in full...)
For the men: Do you count on your wives to look after the house and kids, or do you take charge and help out around the house?
Q. i want to know how many guys out there who work full time are married and have kids. when you get home from work do you spend time with your kids, help with housework, dissapear and do your own thing? i dont mean to sound rude but im just curious ...
A. 1 November 2010:
I do 98% of the cooking, 90% of the clean, 50% of the shopping and so on. That is how I was raised. I was brought up never to depend on a woman to help me...Thank goodness for that.
My wife lives on facebook, and drama shows while I cook and cle... (read in full...)
What can I do about my feelings for my teacher? And why am I attracted to a girl when I am straight?
Q. Ok, I'm going to be vague about this, as I don't want to much revealed but here goes. I'm a straight girl, and I'm in love with one of my teachers... Who is also a girl. She's a young teacher, I think about 25. She's been at our school for a f...
A. 1 November 2010:
What are your relationship like with boys? Do you have a hard time talking to boys, or feel shy around them?... (read in full...)
Getting over my ex 11 years later?
Q. I have been married to my current husband for almost nine years. We are a very happy couple, always together. We both have a child from a previous marriage. The problem is, that I still to this day cannot fully get over my ex. Is it because ...
A. 25 October 2010:
Are you by any chance blaming yourself for the break up? Sometimes women who have strong values blame themselves, thinking they should have tried harder, done this or that better.
Other times,it's the other woman they see with their ex. What is ... (read in full...)
How do I pull myself together so that I even want my heart mended?
Q. My heart is breaking and I feel like the rest of me is following. I don't know what to do or who to turn to. I don't know whether to hold myself together or let myself fall apart. How do you mend a broken heart? How do I pull myself together ...
A. 15 October 2010:
Then get another candle. Because there is more to life than a broken heart.
What have learnt from that relationship? What mistakes did YOU make that you would not do again?
These things happen, not to make your weak or to have a broken heart,... (read in full...)
Never ending sufferings
Q. I am a 19 yr old girl and i am depressed about the things that l am suffering. Even though i am a very positive girl, still i am not able to overcome the obstacles. I was molested by my maternal uncle since childhood till now bt still i remained ...
A. 15 October 2010:
Hi there,
Losing you mom, and not having your dad is hard yes.Your uncle...you need to tell someone or find a way to say "stop" or stay away from him.
First off...how about you? What do you want from your life? What kind of woman do you want... (read in full...)
My problem is that I have a bent penis, and don't know if I can really pleasure her!
Q. Well, this is a subject that I've tried to research a lot on and I really can't seem to come up with a good answer. My problem is that I have a bent penis. It's pent to the left at about 30 or 40 degrees. My girlfriend says she sometimes feels ...
A. 14 October 2010:
If you can get it in...let the games begin :)... (read in full...)
Why am I sexually attracted to older men? Much, Much older men.
Q. I am sexually attracted to older men probably around the ages of 40-60's. I never been with an older man, but I fantasize about having sex with them. I tried reading about people with this "issue", but most of them like older men because of their ...
A. 14 October 2010:
Some women find older men sexy because of a certain type of maturity younger men do not have. Older men would normally take time in the bedroom, while younger men would rush everything.
Those are some of the reason I know of.
Your feelin... (read in full...)
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