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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: A friend and I were talking about oral sex and we were puzzled as to what "makes it good" for a man? So, here is my question what is it about receiving head that men like so much??? What makes it good?? and why?
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reader, anonomys_anonomys +, writes (19 August 2010):
I personally love giving head and i know a lot of other women do as well. i'd say the first 20-30 times i hated giving head. it hurted and it was tiring and i never knew if i was actually doing it right but soon i came to love it and it turned me to know that i was giving my boyfriend such pleasure. i'd fantasize how it felt to him and i think thats what turns men on about us giving them head especially if they know we love it.
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male
reader, BrownWolf +, writes (18 August 2010):
There a spot on the underside of the penis, where the head and the shaft meets. That spot is as sensitive as your clitoris. Your lips and tongue rubs that very well.
Plus all the other stuff mentioned.
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male
reader, baddogbj +, writes (18 August 2010):
1. The mouth particularly when combined with hands just has more moving parts so there is more that can be done with it.
2. We (generally) have a great view of what is going on
3. We are passive rather than active. There is a sense of being taken care of, a bit like getting a really good massage.
4. It is very intimate and there strong sense of being accepted.
5. As other posters mentioned there is delicious naughtiness in doing something private with what is otherwise a very public part of the body.
6. It is an opportunity to admire your hair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): It's extremely intimate, more so than sex - at least for me. Plus, there is some male domination gene that when we see your pretty, innocent face, in public or at some dressy occasion, it's just awesome to know our dick was in there just a few hours before...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
Well, it feels amazing. The things that can be done with the tongue can give us stimulation that we can't get any other way.
It is extremely intimate and shows acceptance of a very important part of our anatomy. Many womeny shy away from the penis and think it's gross. By putting it in your mouth you are showing us that you accept us in our entirety.
It's all about us. We don't have to worry if you're getting off in the process which can dimish our pleasure in some cases. Don't get me wrong, I love pleasing my GF, but it is nice to have the attention all about me sometimes too.
You're using your mouth. Unlike the other parts of your body that are kept covered, your mouth is something we can look at pretty much any time. All you have to do is lick your lips and we'll stand at attention (so to speak).
The most intense sexual feeling I've ever had came through oral sex. It made my head swim and my teeth tingle. I could barely moan let alone think. Hell, thinking about it now is making my heart race a bit. Too bad that girl is married to someone else now...
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