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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Beautiful girlfriend makes me feel worthless

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

29 February 2016 (M) - I really need help. My girlfriend is threatening to break up with me and it seems all I do is not enough. Right now she's telling me she's broken up and that she doesn't want me. But come later that may change. It's the same yesterday. We agre...

Is my ex manipulating me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, is my ex boyfriend trying to manipulate me? My 3 year relationship ended several months ago. He told me he was no longer happy and that he met another woman and was very sorry for hurting me. Only about 3 weeks after our break up, he...

I transferred all my contacts to my new iPhone but I think this girl thinks I stalked her account for it. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (M) - So I used to hangout with this girl 2 years ago we stopped hanging out cause I stopped showing up or didn't get the ques she wanted to hangout.She usually texts me first but I havnt really had a good conversation with her in a year but I kept her ...

Finding a nice guy makes me want to run. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I dumped my emotionally and verbally abusive BF about 4 months ago. I have absolutely no feelings towards him and am thrilled to get him out of my life. When I date, I tend to be a "woman who loves too much". Each relationship I have had ends in...

He says I lack spontaneity. I hate lies. He lied to his family. Was my reaction right or wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Dear friends, I've just had a stupid argument with my husband. We made up, but I would still like to hear your opinions as I strongly believe that I am right. Here's what happened. I hate lying. But, I agreed to support him with this particul...

Have I rushed into dumping him ? How can I ask him for another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I dont know if ive made a mistake , I dumped my boyfriend yesterday because i came last in his life. I know work and family come first. I wouldnt expect to come before them, but he couldnt give me the time i wanted. I'm not demanding. I'd be ha...

Texting. Is there a difference between a big X or a little x in a text from a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Hi I am 40 and been briefly texting a guy that I know. After our initial chat by text I text him again on Friday and we had a 4.5 hour chat by text and as we were having a drink his texts became more loose but nothing bad and eventually we stopp...

To parents of children or people who are childfree by choice. Do you regret your decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I'd like to hear from people who have children and those who don't. Do you regret your decision or are you sincerely happy with your choice to become a parent or childfree? I have terrible mental illness genetics in my family line so I'm leaning ...

The ex factor. Can anyone think of anything that might help or make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I have a problem and I don't know what to do about it. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. A year before we got together he was dumped by his high school sweetheart who he was with for five years. At first he talked quite a lot about...

Communication issues with my 21 year old partner. What am I supposed to do in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Hi So i'm getting pretty desperate for someone to talk to about my relationship problems, and i've put off asking for help so many times because there's so much that needs including in the explanation that you would end up reading an essay. So ...

Dating a 37 year old guy. How can I tell him to use anti- wrinkle cream in a nice way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend is 37, happy guy and it takes much to irritate him. Though he doesn't look far older than his age, his face wrinkles a lot especially when he smiles. I can't change this fact but it might at least be lessened if he uses moisturi...

Dating. How long should I wait for some kind of chemistry to develop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - So I'm dating this guy, he's 30, and though we get along really well I'm not feeling the attraction. And I know attraction is overrated, but I notice myself thinking I hope he doesn't put his arm around me or kiss me goodnight, because I'm just not ...

We kissed on our last date. Should I stay with her, even though I am not attracted to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

27 February 2016 (?) - Dating a girl I'm not completely attracted to? I met this girl on a dating app and we've been on two dates so far. I like her personality so far and think shes kind of pretty but I'm not as attracted to her like I was with other girls I've da...

Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

27 February 2016 (M) - I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks t...

I made an awful first impression, how can I 'correct' it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - Hi i need advice on a dating matter . i am an extremely shy person and i went on a date with a wonderful guy the problem is i drank before meeting him it gave me too much confidence i know how to handle my drink but wanted rid of all the nerves. ...

Should I continue a relationship with someone who doesn't want children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - I am currently at crossroads in my life. I found a guy I truly love and loves me for who I am. We seem to be made for each other. In fact, I feel that we are soul mates if not for one terrible flaw in him. He hates children! I have seen the wa...

Should I be this unsettled about the fact he still has a key to the family home? He's separated from his wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - My new boyfriend of three months is separated after a 20 year marriage ended six months ago. They outgrew each other and there is no love lost for either of them. A divorce and house sale are going through amicably. He rents a flat near his wi...

Am I a bad person, for now just wanting to have casual sex since a breakup?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - I have recently been dumped by my boyfriend of three years and I'm relieved about it as he didn't treat me very well and did some things that were awful by anyone's standards. But I'm having a bit of a freak out thinking I will always just give ...

A is a long term good friend. How can I convince my mum to let A spend the night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - So, here's the deal. I have a good friend, let's call him A. Anyway, ever since I was little, I've always preferred hanging out with boys. But now that I'm older, I can't have a sleepover or anything. I wouldn't want to do anything sexual, and ...

I'm appalled at his disrespect, but what can I do? Is it time to breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - My partner of 3 years goes out each thursday night with friends, this is usually fine but i am at work on a friday so do prefer him not to come in too late. He usually comes in about 1am. Weve had a number of arguments about this mainly because ...

Was I rude earlier? I need help learning how to communicate with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

25 February 2016 (M) - There's a girl at my job who I'm very attracted to but things aren't really able to move forward the way I'd like. I'm not able to talk to her because I'm simply too nervous, and I'm sure I probably come off as rude now because when she's spok...

How do I manage this family dynamic and new stress in our lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

25 February 2016 (M) - You probably don't get too many letters from a guy my age. I am writing about my kids. My oldest, my daughter-age 27- meets this British guy at party.He works for a multinational U.K. company and is trying to deal with problems in one of their of...

Facing sibling rivalry and family disinterest in my wedding. Should I delete them from my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - Its not that I'm an attention seeker I'm the opposite but I'm starting to feel a damper on my wedding and its affecting me a lot lately. Had I known my family would not care about the wedding I would have eloped if i know how much it affects ...

Is this a break-up? Boyfriend and I haven't talked in 3 days after argument. Please help

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - On Monday me and my boyfriend got into a fight over something small and now he hasn't said one word to me in 3 whole days ! I'm worried. I don't want it to be over I just wanna work it out . yesterday he called and let it ring 3 times and hung up ...

How can I successfully encourage my Bf to take better care of himself and improve his personal hygiene?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - I want my boyfriend to take better care of himself when it comes to hygiene and clothing. I don't think I'm asking for too much: I would like him to brush his teeth twice a day, I would like him to shower and wash his face once a day, I would lik...

What are my options? I can't tell my gf because I don't want to break up with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hi, so I’m in love with girl that I’ve been with for 4 years, were 20 years old and we’ve been living together in our own flat for the last two years. She’s an orphan and has little contact with her family and does not have a lot of friends. She’s ...

What can I do? The magic, the spark, is gone from our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Im not sure if i love my girlfriend any more. Im 24 she is 21. We have been together for two years. During that time we have done so much, been on holidays around the world, travelled, all kinds of things. She has helped me in so many ways. I've ...

Am I looking likely to lose her? Or is it because she needs to fight her demons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hi, I hope someone can offer me some advice, I'll try to keep this short. I met this woman on a dating site 18 months ago, we hit it off very well, talked or messaged on kik, she has three children by the way. Anyway she has had some emotio...

My actions drove hime away. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - Hey guys. I complain about cheating in relationship, but I'm the one who cheated. I was a nympho until I met this person who I really love. I changed for him, and we lived happily until the troubles started to appear between us. I began to tal...

How do I handle her confession?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hello, I've known this girl from college for a few years and she and I gradually became a little closer over time. She has a boyfriend for 4 years and I respect that and I did not want to pursue a relationship with her anyway. We were friendly an...

Are his fantasies a sign he doesn't love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - I caught my boyfriend masturbating in the shower. I asked him if he thought about me then and he honestly answered no. It hurt me quite a bit because first of all I was home and I feel like he'd rather go fantasies about other girls than be with me. ...

Is this guy telling me lies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - There's this guy I'm really close with, and he told me he had a gf when I asked. After that I kind of stopped talking to him (Maybe due to this but also because he had an exam coming up and I didn't want to bother him) Then 5 months later when we ...

Any clue as to what to do? There are three guys who like me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - So I have an issue with three guys liking me and I don't know exactly what to do. One guy is my ex whom I met in elementary school and we went out a little and then didn't really talk in middle school and then we started hanging out again in high ...

What needs to happen? My friends say he's just nervous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - Hi! Alright so here's the deal. I like a boy, and he has told me that he likes me as well. However, he seems to have a funny way of showing it. He rarely initiates conversations, we never seem to engage in any physical contact (whether it woul...

Should I believe my intuition and ask my husband not to go on a business trip?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I feel very uncomfortable talking about this even with my close friends. A couple of times in my life I had a very strong intuitive feelings about people whom I love (friends and family). Since I am a rational person, I've tried suppressing them...

What suggestions can help me in my situation ? Pregnant and with an abusive husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I am 29 years old and married since two years. Also I am 6 months pregnant with our first kid. My husband Ill treats me. He used to do so before my pregnancy and many a times I had thought of leaving him. But now after I got pregnant he had ...

How should one deal with a narcissist in the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My husband grew up with a narcissistic mother and father (should he start playing lottery ? ;). Father is out of the picture. He was a liar and a thief. I've seen him steal in a shop and deny that later. We live far away so his mother does not rep...

I feel as if I'm not enough for him. What's wrong, in that he needs porn before he can climax, when we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months, its only a short time but i really do love him However in the past week or so we have had some issues when having sex! The past 4 or 5 times we have had sex he has been un able to cum just from sex...

Did I ruin my chances with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I kind of had one too many drinks on a first date and ended up texting my date after I got home some stupidity that I feel ruined my chances with him. He never called again. I usually NEVER drink on a date, but it ended up happening on the...

Is there a better way to try to date girls who'll like me, and not see me as their 'second choice'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

20 February 2016 (?) - What's the point of dating/settling down with girls who have dated/had sex with better guys before you? In high school/ college the loud fratty tall guys were getting looks/getting talked about and relationships/sex while I had to struggle for ...

Should I continue to trust my BF? My gut instinct is not to.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi Cupids, I have a worry that has been giving me sleepless nights for nearly three months now. All my intuition tells me not to believe my BF anymore. And try hard as I might, I find it very hard to trust him now. All started at the beginn...

Have you ever done anything on a date that caused the other person to never call again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I did. And I keep beating myself up for it. Any stories about doing something on a date (or even just in the dating process) that led to never getting called again? Please share! I will feel a lot better...

How can I best support my friend who has severe panic attacks and is under that care of a psychologist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - My friend emotionally goes from high to low every single day and I need advice on how to help her. She has panic attacks several times a week, sometimes every single day and they last 20 to 30 minutes. She throws up most of what she'll eat durin...

An ex, a breakup. Why is he acting this way, now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I fell out with a close friend I became romantically involved with briefly a few years ago. It was a complicated situation but resulted in is not talking for 2 years Then he started making the odd text messages occasionally and even after how he t...

LDR - are we at the same stage in life or in different stages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship of just over year with a guy long distance. I am 33 and he is 31. I am currently moving to this town - this involves moving job, renting out my house and leaving most of my friends. Most of his friends are s...

My husband chose this other woman over our daughter and me and now wants a divorce

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3202 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi everyone hope you can help me out today. Well I'll start off by saying I'm recently separated and in the process of divorce. I was married for the last 8 years to a man who I really thought was the love of my life and everything I've ...

I believed my married boyfriend's lies until I could no longer deny the truth. Now I am broken!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - Recently broke up with my boyfriend after two consuming and loyal years.I was bought up with utmost moral but seemingly started my relationship with my ex while he was separated from his wife.The constant struggle between my inner conscience and ...

I feel guilty but I want to move on from my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

19 February 2016 (?) - Me and my ex broke up after two years due to me not being able to trust him from the 1 year point, he wouldn't let me have him on facebook due to us having such an on and off relationship, he started hiding the fact that he was with me and I saw him ...

Should I be sending risque pics to my boyfriend? Will it get on the internet?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we have a very close relationship. He is an incredibly sweet person and I honestly trust him with anything. The other day we were talking and it just so happened that he sent me a topless ...

What are the stages between the state of being lovers to the state of being friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - What are the stages of going from lovers to friends? My ex lover wants to be friends and I don't know how to go about it. Can it work? I'm still attracted to him and I know he likes me....