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writes: Me and my ex broke up after two years due to me not being able to trust him from the 1 year point, he wouldn't let me have him on facebook due to us having such an on and off relationship, he started hiding the fact that he was with me and I saw him trying to flirt with girls, even his best friends girlfriend who is pregnant, but of course he would deny it and make me out to be crazy and paranoid, and that I was the reason for the break up in the first place. I caught him liking girls pictures when we were supposedly together, but he refused to advertise the fact that we were a couplw saying that it was nobody else's business. There were a few occasions when we were on 'breaks' and i would see a picture of him on facebook with his arms around another girl, yet hes still texting me telling me he loves meBut a few weeks ago me and him had unprotected sex (I know it shouldn't have happened). I later said that i didn't think I loved him anymore after everything but now he is giving me more attention than when we were even together! He sends me texts when he first wakes up, throughout the day and last thing at night. Hes lovely, so attentive and thoughtful but then every day at some point he will ask me the same question: "Have you come on yet, I'm getting worried?" And he will start getting really personal asking me if I am starting with the sensations yet, will i get a pregnancy test, am I spotting or anything, I wish it would happen because im really worried. I feel so disrespected and every time he asks me i rage at him and we end up arguing. Despite this though he still continues to ask me and then when I go mad, he says I'm being mean to him when he's being so nice and that hes still in my life being friendly despite me not loving him anymore. He still misses me, he loves me, I'm perfect - he initiates contact with me every day whereas I dont really try anymore and when I reply I am really blunt in the hope that he will drift away from me.I dont love him due to everything that has happened but I still care about him and wouldn't wish anything bad to happen to him. He just doesn't seem to want to let me move on, he keeps making me feel like a terrible person when i dont want to share personal information with him and i feel guilty for wanting to move on from him...
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reader, Kate1967  +, writes (16 March 2016):
This man is a jerk whether or not you choose to believe it.
Let him go. Ignore him. Cut all contact. Block him from your phone. Red flags only get much worse over time.
You deserve to be happy and stress-free.
Get the pregnancy test done and then face your decisions. Personally I am not a believer in abortion but it is a personal choice because it is your body.
Love yourself. Focus on being the best independent person you can be.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (20 February 2016):
 You really need to screw your head back on. Unprotected sex with your ex'? And you haven't blocked him on your phone. Darling you have left the door open, and he is going to keep coming back until you slam it shut.
Be mean to him. Do what it takes to throw him off. He is like a tick hanging on, draining your energy, and stopping you moving on.
Oh, and get a pregnancy test today - for everyone's sake.
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