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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails where he was flirty to other girls. What should I do about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend left his FaceBook logged in on my laptop and asked me to reply to his mate on chat! But in doing so I had seen he had a few girls who he had recently spoken to and I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails and he was speaking...

She threatens to leave me and the kids if I ask too many questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

31 July 2014 (M) - Hi.....i need some help.......i am married for 7years now and is hard broken... My wife is a lot on her phone and says talking to laddy at work or sister. But the phone keeps on kling kling every time...she blocks the phone i kant see allways hiding ...

My fiancé keeps trying to take nude photos of me without my consent!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Okay, so we were on vacation and hot at it and my significant other (my fiancé) got up from the bed, then all of a sudden I saw a flash in the dark room and he took a picture of me nude and then he wanted to take closer pictures of my body parts. I ...

What does the CEO want? Should I go there prepared to share a bunch of ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I wrote an email to a company to give them some fresh ideas to help in its performance. I got a call from the secretary saying that the CEO and Marketing director want to meet with me. The call was very official but friendly. I'm not sure what the...

The guy who I thought was my closest friend will not talk to me. Am I over-reacting to his actions?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Hi, I had a small party and my closest friend at it wouldn't talk to me at all. He spent most of the night having a great time with another friend (their conversations were completely exclusive as well, so there was no way I could join in). He...

I have a gut feeling that something is wrong between her and me. Do you think I am wrong about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - So I've been dating this girl for a few months now I just have a gut feeling something is wrong. I do have some trust issues and paranoia from past problems but they aren't as bad as they used to be. She's always getting facebook notifications bu...

Am I being selfish? Or is my reluctance to share information with her due to her need to compete with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - Hi everybody, I am a nursing student soon to qualify and I have decided that I want to go down the route of medicine. I have researched the course and contacted the university. I have paid for the upcoming GAMSAT examination and started ...

Online dating issues. I want to message him, but what would I say to him now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I joined an online dating site and met a man and had quite a few dates with him. He wanted to keep his options open, but I caught him out in a lie when he said he was not at a place when he was. Since then he went quiet on me and so I told him he's...

He was prosecuted for domestic violence and now lives in a hostel. So why do I still feel so lonely without him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for 25 years i have an 18 year old son. When i first got married things were great then about a year into our marriage signs of my husbands bad temper started to show. I didnt worry too much at first. Then he started smas...

How do I deal with this feeling of confidence or lack of confidence in my body image?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Does anyone have this re-ocurring feelings and nervousness that they might not actually look the way they appear in picture when they are about to go on a date with someone they met online This is my first date with a wonderful chinese girl i m...

I know its hypocritical of me, but I am jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hi all, So my ex and I broke up a Couple of months ago. We needed the time to resolve some issues and now we have decided to try again. I dated during our break up, and he did too except he went on a dating profile as he's not a big drinker and also...

My B/f's having a relationship with another girl who I was led to believe was his ex, I snooped though his texts and guess what I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hey all so I've been dating this guy going on 3 months we started dating while he was in another relationship. The relationship was serious he and the girl he was with had been together a year and 3 months and they lived together. Any way I was so...

I need advice, I'm worried about her, our long distance relationship, and I miss her all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3770 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have crush on each other for 5 years since high school but didnt know then. And now in a relationship for one n half year. Actually we were in the same little hometown so it was all okay if we didnt see each other much. But now ...

I'm worried he is hankering for his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I've known my fiance for 6 years we've been in a relationship for 2 and have 2 month old daughter together. Just recently he started speaking about his ex who is the mother of his other child. He says things like, she's a good actress, she just got ...

Should I tell my wife that I'm considering a visit to see a prostitute?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - Yes, this is a weird question to ask. However, my wife of 20 years will not have sex with me and has not for more than 10 years. It is something we have talked about many, many times but nothing ever changes. She doesn't want to divorce me and I...

He likes me! But am I over thinking? What if I do later change my mind about having children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Hello dear cupid'ers! I'm head over heels in love and it's absolutely wonderful, this guy is officially the cats pyjamas. We have been in a relationship for around 9 months now, and we are looking at getting a place together. I know we make eac...

I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. H...

Is there any point in pursing a relationship? Does he fancy me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy about three months ago. We got along so well, straight off the bat, and we've both admitted to each other, that we find the other hot. We used to flirt all the time, but whenever the conversation got deeper, he shut off. He even ...

My boyfriend lied, and I don't know how to approach him about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - So I've just found out, for the 1st time, that my boyfriend has lied to me. We've been together for 3 amazing months, it's left me feeling on top of the world. We had arranged to see each other tonight and tomorrow before he goes away for...

Why are some straight guys so scared to try something new?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (M) - I got a question, i'm a gay guy and I love straight men, especially buff or frat guys. I can't get enough of them. Why are some straight guys so scared to try something new? ...

If this marriage was so important to her, then why didn't she stop contacting her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I got married a few months ago, it was a rushed wedding, after barely knowing each other we married because she told me to get married because I was having trouble with my immigration status and it would give me a green card and working visa ...

Have no intention of replicating my taboo fantasies in real life. But is one of my fantasies too taboo to share with my Bf? What counselling could help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - To put it simply, I have a really bad kink that involves getting off on taboo fantasies. I've fantasized about strange things most other women don't such as picturing my boyfriend with another woman, and I have read incest erotica online, but NONE...

Found the girl of my dreams. Am I being too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

25 July 2014 (M) - So I've found the girl of my dreams she makes me a better person and I have never felt this way about anyone before. The problem is I'm afraid I'm being too clingy as of recently we haven't seen each other as much as we did, due to work. we hav...

Am I over-reacting to what I discovered about my Bf's Hooters visit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. Recently, he went to Hooters with his friends and at first, I was pretty annoyedd but then I got over it until I found videos in his history of Hooters girls. Am I overreacting because I feel lik...

I am good at giving a good impression but now am afraid I have to tell him the truth about who I was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I've just gotten in a relationship with this friend who I've liked for a long time, and I'm so happy. But. He is so incredibly honest and it's in my nature to be deceitful so people "see" the "best" in "me", but he see's straight past that and insp...

I feel like a booty call without the sex! Should I give him a chance or run for the hills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. My issue is for some reason if I plan a date something family related always comes up and he either ends up coming really late or rescheduling. The huge thing is we always end up hanging out ...

My partner has been sexting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have discovered that my partner of 9 years has been sending very sexually explicit texts to another woman and photos of his erect penis. This dates back to the end of last year until March when it seemed to tail off. From the texts my name is ...

Not sure what he's doing on this holiday

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I am having some problems with my relationship, and I am hoping someone could help me! My boyfriend and I are 20 and have been dating for almost two years. He has been in Paris for a number of weeks on vacation, and recently we got into an argu...

I caught him talking sexually with other men but he denies it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I need help! I have caught my boyfriend (for the second time) talking to men sexually. We are happy (or so I thought). we've been living together for over a year. He denies everything, i even sent the "mystery man" an email, he says they never ...

Why is my boyfriend so insensitive towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - HI, I feel very disappointed with my bf after 3 years. I take alot of effort for him to make him feel special for bday, anniversary etc. But very seldom he does things for me. Yesterday, i reminded him about our anniversary is this weekend and...

I took him back when he cheated but I just cant trust him anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, you've indeed been of great help to me, and I do appreciate everything. Pls I need your advice on an issue bothering my heart. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend who loves me so much for 7yrs now(we've lived together for 2yrs ...

She's come back into my life, but she has a Bf. Should I tell her my feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

24 July 2014 (M) - Too make a long story short. A girl who ive really liked has come back into my life, I've liked her since 7th grade and that was 9 years ago. I'm a college junior now and a lot has changed from then, she is still amazing to me, when i first saw her ...

I've made it clear: monogamy is my preference. Am I over-reacting to his suggestion re a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Help my partner has told me he would participate in a threesome with me and another man if I ever wanted that . I told him that I would never ask for that and the fantasy is one thing but in real life a threesome is not something I'm interested in ...

What do I do ? Go back to a safe comfortable marriage with a kind man and be unhappy? Or try again with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for twenty years and although I love my husband there has never been the chemistry that I had before him in another relationships. Even at the beginning with my husband it wasn't there , yet I had been in previous relation...

LDR issues: Don't want to lose him, but things are moving too fast

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - How can I help to make this LDR work? I met a guy a month ago and he moved too fast with his feelings. I hesitated to date him at first because I have tried two LDRs that failed because the first one I wasn't really in love and the second one basi...

She wanted to tell me he is a "player" so I wouldn't get hurt. Is he really a player or is he reformed? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have met this guy on facebook( we both graduated same year in high school) and he lives in one state and I moved to another state, almost 8 yrs ago. He and I found love with each other just by talking on facebook. Been together for 1 month an...

Should I give up on love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - A little background I was in a really bad abusive relationship about five years ago- not physical but very verbally abusive have my all and basically got nothing in return. I took some time a year or toe just cause I felt lost and was infatuated ...

I have a boyfriend but he doesn't know I am already married!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, im in totally mess right now, i hope you can help me more than i can help myself, im facing such a messy situation what can i do..My story goes this way, i had a boyfriend right now, we already knew each other for about a year i think ...

Should I choose loyalty or my own interest? I'd love to have kids but her condition means she cannot have intercourse.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

23 July 2014 (M) - Hi, I am in my early 40s and in a relationship with a woman for a very long time. We really get along very well and I would be happy to spend the rest of our lives together... IF it weren't for the fact that she has a health condition for a ver...

I am so fond of him, Does he not notice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3778 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - I fancy this fella 25. We get on so well. I don't know if he fancies me. We hadn't since each other in a few weeks; when we met he said its hard to forget a pretty face. I was like thank you. He likes all my stuff on fb. But he would never ask ...

Dating my landlord: is that a bad idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - Hello everyone! I just moved back to the city and found a flatshare in a great location, all bills included for 400. The tenants are wonderful and the landlord when I first met him was great. I am 23 and my landlord is 29 so quite young. Th...

Dating a month. So why is he saying he's afraid of being criticized by his friends if he loads a picture of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - He said it was because he was afraid of being critized with his friends. But i'm a pretty girl, and the friends he does upload (which are girls look similar to me. So I don't understand what the real problem is. We have been dating for a month, ...

She recently broke up with her Bf, so is it too early to as her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

22 July 2014 (M) - Hi, bit of a lengthy question here. About 2 years ago at college I ended up getting paired with this girl for a school project and ended up liking her, but at the time, she had a boyfriend so obviously I couldn't do anything about my feelings for ...

Am I just being stupid and paranoid as I do really love him but I don't want to be hurt and betrayed and these arguments are ruining us, should I put it all behind us and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. I am 21 and hes 26. Hes a very flirty guy and other girls love him but he's always made it clear that I'm the one and everyone can see how happy and in love we are. About a month into our r...

Why would a girl that I hurt so much want to meet up after a couple years just 'to see how things were'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Please advice on this would be great!! I don't want to be swayed by the lads incase I'm wrong and do something stupid again. I dated this girl for a while just over 2 years ago, a long time now and she didn't know how strong my feelings for her...

How can I ever tell my wife that due to my diabetes my ability to have sexual relations is no more?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - I am a 53 year old man and I have lost my ability to have sex because I suffer from diabetes. I can just can ejaculate but my penis is not hard enough to sustain sexual relations with my wife. I feel guilty myself. My wife is so good, How can I te...

Are these my issues or should I be concerned that my Bf prefers breasts that are more pert?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - If I'm with my bf and he has told me he is more of a leg man and prefer smaller breasts and I'm short with larger breasts should I even bother with trying to involve them in foreplay and sex for his benefit . To me my breast are not extremel...

Should I warn him about my behaviuor that caused problens in a previous relations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - I have the most amazing bf ever. I am in my late 20s and he is in his early 30s. We get along so well and have only had a few short disagreements in the year and a half we've been together. We never argue, we are so similar. He treats me like a ...

Is it good or bad to have a high angled Penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Anyone know if a high erection angle, e.g. 11 o'clock, is particularly stimulating to women or is there not much benefit to having one? I have one and sex doesn't feel that great for me because of it, I think. But if it gets girls off particularly ...

I stress over everything. What are some tips to help overcome insecurity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3780 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - I'm super insecure- about everything really, from my relationship with my boyfriend to my relationships with my friends, to my appearance, personality, etc. I know it's a problem, and I know it'll continue to make me unhappy if i don't try to chan...