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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I fancy this fella 25. We get on so well. I don't know if he fancies me. We hadn't since each other in a few weeks; when we met he said its hard to forget a pretty face. I was like thank you. He likes all my stuff on fb. But he would never ask me to dance. But tells me when others dance with me we always make eye contact. On a few occasions he would ask me why I am single. I am so fond of him,Does he not notice ? I then ask him one night where's the woman?He told me he was single, but was in a 8 year relationship and that he was head over heels in it,Yet he has been single two years now. Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (23 July 2014):
 Feint heart will not win him any lady. He seems all over the place.
He is not a very young teen. He is a 25 year old guy.
One expects a 25 year old guy to have a more proactive approach to a girl he fancies.
His attempts at flirting with you come to nothing as he just plays at flirting.
Is he actually available or is he committed to another?
If he really cares, AND has the courage, then he will ask you out, or ask you to dance, or suggest an outing the two you can enjoy together
He does none of that.
What is stopping him?
Look for a hard working guy who is courteous enough to hold down a regular job. A guy with the courage of his convictions. A guy who is willing to take a chance and actually invite you to dance then and there.
A guy confident enough to suggest an outing and then follows throu and arranges an outing the two of you can share.
Empty hints and lame attempts to flirt?
He sounds like a timewaster.
Don't ask him out. Start as you mean to go on. He needs to demonstrate, by his actions, his intentions.
No point in pining for a guy sri who can't make a genuine effort to get your attention via appropriate action.
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