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*elissa1525
writes:He said it was because he was afraid of being critized with his friends. But i'm a pretty girl, and the friends he does upload (which are girls look similar to me. So I don't understand what the real problem is. We have been dating for a month, but we have known each other for 3 months. I know its not long, but its not like i'm asking him to upload a pic of us saying i'm his gf or that were in a relationship. It just a simple pic.He has uploaded pics but then he deletes it after two days..and yesterday he sent me a picture saying he had uploaded it but infact he had photoshopped it to make me believe he did. I was shocked and upset, all he did was apologize and give more excuses.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 July 2014):
 Facebook is not the be all and end all of everybody's life.
If he doesn't want to post pictures on facebook that surely is his choice.
You have only known him for three months, the relationship is till very new and he is not ready to post pictures on facebook.
This is not a big issue so stop making it one.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 July 2014):
So what?
It's been a month.
If he isn't READY to post pictures on Facebook of the two of you yet you should STOP trying to CRAM it down his throat. YOU can post all the happy couples pictures as you want. WHAT he posts on HIS FB is what HE wants.
One thing though, if he goes through such elaborate schemes as to photoshop pictures to "placate" you do you really think he should be dating anyone? The guy has no balls.
You are taking Social media WAY too serious. And that in the end will make you more unhappy than having a BF that lies and deceives you.
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reader, ImissFuturama +, writes (22 July 2014):
 My honest opinion? Don't date someone who is so concerned what other people think, that he can't make his own decisions. It's one thing to want approval from his friends. It's a complete other when he starts making (or not making) decisions based on his friends' opinions rather than his own. I wouldn't respect someone who does that, sorry.
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reader, katherine2081  +, writes (22 July 2014):
 I would stop asking don't force something because if you have to do that it's not worth it. You need to give it time but see if he starts showing you as a couple in public give it a bit of time but song end up wasting yours xx
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