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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I put spyware on boyfriends phone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles, Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am aware that I am being extreme and have crossed some privacy boundaries, but before I take it to another extreme I thought I would check in with the community. I ...

All seemed OK, so why did she say: "'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' "

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - Say you're seeing a woman for two months and everything is clicking, sex chemistry, views etc and suddenly she says 'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' And the time we spend together is amazing and fun. And she feels the same. I...

I cant trust anything he says and am running on fumes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - This is a long story, but please help me. My guy and I have been together for a year, we’ve known each other and have had an on and off relationship for the past 5 years. After a year of separation, we got back together and it’s been hell f...

Was my girlfriend cheating with another guy over Skype?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 June 2013 (M) - I've been skeptical of my girlfriend's fidelity to me for a while and have reason to suspect that she may be deceiving me and cheating. Recently, I returned home to visit family and I decided to Skype with her to see how she was doing. When we c...

How can I be the love of her life one day, then absolutely nothing the next day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I've posted on here a couple of times recently. I had some great feedback. Basically, it was about my ex. She's been so on again-off again with me. One minute I'm the love of her life and she wants to live with me, marry me and have a family with ...

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...

Am I the bad guy for making my girlfriend breakdown?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - For more info on this, please read (or skim) this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-believe-my-girlfriend-is-lying-about-an.html. This problem of mine goes back almost a year. I haven't been able to shake this feeling of mine that the...

My B/f keeps interrogating me about my past and if he were to ever find out I have lied, he will end things. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and he is te type of person that just about interrogates me about guys in my past. I have nothing to be ashamed about and have only been with one person before him. He always asks about stupid things ...

I'm getting the same feeling in the pit of my stomach as I had when I last caught him messaging a female co-worker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I haven’t been on here for a while but I have come to a point in my relationship where I need advice please. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now and we have lived together for 4. Our relationship has had its problems som...

How can I learn letting them in my life without being negative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I never thought that I would be asking advise from strangers, until now. i really need a second opinion. I always push away, people who cares for me. I push away my friend who did nothing but being a good friend to me. I broke up with my ex-bf wi...

Boyfriend and coworker are too close for comfort! She's trying to break us up, and she might be successful...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend work for the same company but different departments. We have now lived together for almost 2 years which is how long we have also been going out, I know we moved in really fast. Anyways there is this girl who works in the of...

She tells me that her relationship with this guy friend is normal for her culture but I'm not so sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - I got in a relation with one of my employees. Now as if that's not enough risk already. She also moved in with me 2 days after we got into the relationship. She told me, I am in this for the long run and I don't want to get into the relati...

I called him on what I thought was a lie, and now he's blocked me on Facebook

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - I saw my boyfriend yesterday. We had sex with each other. I was only at his house for about four hours, He told me to go home earlier than I usually do. He said he was going to go shopping ( the supermarket closed a few hours later). He also asked ...

After the lying and the cheating on some level, should I cancel the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

24 June 2013 (?) - Am I reacting unreasonably in struggling to trust my partner? I became engaged to a man I had been dating for 6 months just over a year ago. In all honesty he is the type of man I have avoided all my life. In my eyes he is a womaniser and op...

Is this normal to feel like this? My ex would not speak to me at a friend's wedding and it made me feel horrible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - Yesterday I attended a friend's birthday party and ran into my long-term ex girlfriend and her new(ish) partner. We were together for many years and hadn't seen each other in quite a while. We knew each other would be attending but her partner ...

Will therapy help me to learn to trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I've just started seeing a therapist as I am suffering from anxiety (chest tightness, nausea, stomach pain, diarreah). Unfortunately all of my energy has been focused on my boyfriend of 9 months. I was emotionally bullied for many years as a child, ...

Husband slept with gorgeous coworker. Is it unreasonable to ask him to find another job?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - My husband had an affair with a gorgeous female co-worker. He felt guilty and admitted everything to me. I am devastated but would like to work on rebuilding our marriage. Am I being unreasonable for asking him to find another job? They see ea...

How to deal with my boyfriend having a beautiful, sexually liberated woman as a roommate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend lives in a big flat with his male friends. The problem is one of his friends is going to spend this summer in a different city. And he said that instead of him, there will be living some his female friend, in his words "the most ...

I don't want to lose him, but either way I surely will once my B/f finds out about my wild, reckless past. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - When I was at university, I was a little wild. I had quite a few one night stands and had a fling with another girl. I even had a few threesomes, and swapped my boyfriend with a another girl ,who knew what I was like and was open sexual too, for a ...

No trust in boyfriend right now... ruining a 3 year relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - I'm having a major issue with my boyfriend of 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. He's the first person I've fallen in love with, and sometimes I wonder if that's the problem. My being too in love. Let me state that I don't know if this is MY issue or ...

I don't understand why he wouldn't simply deactivate these accounts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend left his email open on my laptop once, and already having had previous trust issues we are working on, and have been getting there, I couldnt help myself cast an eye....(the previous problem was him trash/sex talking with a '...

Cancelled wedding...but can we sort this out and stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - where do I start..my fiancé told me 8 weeks ago he wanted to cancel our wedding. He didn't do it. We thought we could work on our differences and see what came about. We were due to get married in seven months. I feel like he has not made any effort ...

How can I trust my husband when he texts a girl from an escort service all night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

19 June 2013 (?) - Dear readers, I find myself here again and I have only been married a month. I wass here to weeks ago. Because my husband joined a sex site and still denies it. But know I am here because my husband has been out of town for the week and I looked a...

Feel confused. Do I go with my gut feelings or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4209 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it s...

Should I go back to my old job? I worry that the store manager does not like me and I suffer social anxiety. Or should I look for something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - For 3 summers I have worked at a retail store, and then leave when I go back to college for the year. When I work there, I always feel very unconfident because I worry that the store manager doesn't like me, and I always feel like I am under su...

Is it possible to love someone without trusting them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi guys ! Me and my boyfriend had been in a on and off relationship for almost 3years , on top off that he was my first love.... During those 3years Ive been good girl that always get hurt ! I was faithful to him never derespected him ! But hi...

Do I really need all this Baby Mama drama? What can I do about this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months. I'm in a baby mama drama situation, and I'm not sure how to handle it... Please help. I'll give some background... He and the mother of his child were never married. Their relationship was r...

Should I wait until the divorce comes through before I pursue things further with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - After a 6-year wait for a possible relationship, 3 months ago I finally got a reply from the advert I placed on Match.com, one thing I liked that she mentioned in her profile was B movies (and her advert seemed a little keen: it said: if you thin...

He says he loves me even though he cheated, got another woman pregnant and plan to marry her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy since march 2012. I was 20 and he was 33. He's from south america and was doing his masters. It was his last year here and after he's done with the masters he was supposed to leave. So we started this knowing we don't ...

Curious about my wife's sexual past

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 June 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been together 9 years, and had the whole "how many people have you ******" conversation many years ago. Ever since then, I, like many husbands, still wonder "is that her real number, or is she holding some back?" The history she ...

This man has left me wondering if i'll ever have a proper relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - I'm 39, beautiful and never have had a boyfriend. I had a very special relationship for 7 years with a man who was the most amazing man when we would spend time together. When we weren't together, he was being the most amazing man to another. Then ...

I'm pregnant but want out of the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I am 4 months pregnant with my fiance's baby, but i want out of this relationship, i have found conversations from emails and facebook that are just inappropriate and disrespectful, where the conversations are sometimes about our personal ...

I counted his viagra pills and of course I thought the inevitable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I had to attend a conference that was out of state that lasted over a week. I got a nagging feeling and before I left I counted my husband's Viagra pills. When I got back I counted them again and 1/4 of a tablet was gone. He halves them and ...

My address and personal info is listed online. What should I do? Does it matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - How do I remove online information about myself? I admit that I'm quite the curious person, and have searched many acquaintances by their name and city. All that have come up are social networking websites and old blogs which are harmless. I was ...

So lonely even though in a relationship. My boyfriend says I drag him down when I come to him feeling sad. Are there solutions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I am in a long term relationship with a guy and we currently live together. I've been having some personal issues that have made me sad, but I try to keep it to myself and don't bother him with my issues. He wants me to be more...

BF says I drag him down when I try to open up to him. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

How do I move on from being stuck and hurt at the same time? So I lost my virginity and was cheated on in the same 72 hours.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

13 June 2013 (M) - I am on summer from my first year at university. Last November i started talking to a girl i met several years before when we were both underage. We met at summer camp and kept in touch online. After a few months i saw her changer her pict...

Is it OK to tell my Bf that he sounds like a complete jerk because he is depressed? It's too much for me. His depression is annoying me, it's 24/7.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I met this guy a while ago and he was always telling me how unhappy he was in his current relationship. I liked him a lot and eventually I started to love him. he told me he loved me and he was going to leave his gf for me. I told him no and to s...

If she's only a friend then why hide their texts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I have a trust problem with my bf of nearly a year now. things were never really..well great. A month after we officially were togheter, he texted his ex telling her he missed her that she should come to town. i caught him the day he moved and left ...

How can I convince my ex that it was he who drove me away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend split up with me six weeks ago he said he wanted a break. My and my ex used to argue a lot over him going out really. He has also cheated on me a few months ago so I feel like I can't really trust him. After my ex split with me ...

Why is it that he decided to be with her, but won't leave me alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I was dating a guy for two years (not exclusive, no relationship) and about four months into it, he also began dating another girl. She's two years younger. Anyway, we started to become even closer around the middle of our first year of dating. ...

Our marriage is hanging by a thread. My husband changed his facebook password and won't give it to me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

12 June 2013 (F) - I need help trying to not let it bother me that my husband changed his fb pass on me and wont give it to me cause i cant trust him. Our marriage is hanging by a thread and im trying really hard to fix this prob. It doesnt help that most people I ...

Is he cheating on me with his roommate? Do I just break up with him or trust him? HELP!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - I am going crazy about my boyfriend... He give me so many mixed messages and I dont know what to do. He tells me he loves me, wants to be with me but then in the next sentence tells me something that contradicts what I know to be a loving ...

Husband's female work mate told him theres a guy try to flirt with her, should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4218 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, Im here for asking a question. And wish I would get advice and answers. Thanks. My husband tells me a lot of his work, but I have never go to where he works, so I havent meet any of his workmates. But he tells me a lot of his work ...

Do I give up and move on to try to find happiness? Or do I stay? We have 2 children together.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - Please help! I will get straight to the point. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and together total for 10. In the beginning of our dating and married relationship I tried my best to be the best wife I could be. Obviously I know ...

Is it charming or tacky to give daily Online updates about your relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

10 June 2013 (M) - OK, so my friend and I got into a argument today. He started dating this girl, a real looker. I'm subscribed to his facebook and in the past two months it's like every post is about her. Her photo, stuff she said, places they went. He's my bu...

Trust, once lost can you give it to anyone again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

10 June 2013 (M) - Quick background info: been married since '99 and have two children (9 and 12). Wife stopped being intimate with me Jan '09 citing many reasons (thyroid, loss of her father to cancer, mother getting cancer, subsequent loss of her mother, ...

Will I ever get over this frightening experience? My parents still haven't yelled at me! Is this normal? Should I have cried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - Friday I was in a wreck. I was going to surprise a friend. I was driving and my best girl friend was in the passenger seat. I wasn't using electronics, that was her job. We were about 2 hours from home and 20 minutes from the play. I t-boned ...

Do you think he likes me? 99

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - So my brother out up some pictures of us hanging out this weekend on Facebook, and one of his friends who I have not seen in ages, wrote beneath on of the pictures of me and my sisters 'wow the (Surname) sisters have grown up beautiful!', he also ...

Why are these girls at work so mean to me? What strategies can I try to help me? I talked to my Manager and she said, "ignore them"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - Why do these girls behave this way? So I got a new job a few weeks ago and the girls are started with are horrible, We are all temps on the same floor but none of them speaks to me. Is like they have a problem with me. So I stay away from...