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I'm so attached to him, but was he trying to break communication? But then implied 'friends' only ?

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Question - (2 January 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2011)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

A guy and I were communicating on Skype as friends b/c we are Long distance. We've known each other for 5 years now since we met in person. We used to email before then we turned to Skype and he erased me from his contacts so I thought he cut-ted me off and I got really upset and asked him why he was banning me from his life:.

He replied me the following:

(xxxxxx

I got the Samsung Galaxy S phone. You can reach me xxxxxxxx@gmail.com.

You needn't think that Skype is our only way to still talk. I'm sorry you were shocked.

We're still friends as far as I am concerned.

xxxxxxx

I know we are just friends and he doesn't like me in a romantic way, but I do feel so attached to him now. What does he means by this, email again? chat? What should I do, I feel confused!

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2011):

AuntyEm agony auntLord the arrogance of men huh!! Implying you could still be in touch with him, even though he lied to you...what a nerve!!

Dry your tears darling, it's his loss and now you can move onto better things xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011):

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I just find out he's married. No wonder he wanted to made me a side. I feel dissapointed and heartbroken, but I guess is the best thing it could happened. He wrote to me again and said "of course" we are still in touch. I feel such a fool, but no anymore. Thanks for helping me open my eyes.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011):

Completely forget about this guy. He is just trying to make himself feel better by keeping in touch with you via email.

I personally think it was extremely rude of him to delete you on skype. He sounds very confused. I wouldn't give a guy the time of day who did that to me.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2011):

AuntyEm agony auntHe is giving you confused messages because he is trying to break off from you gently without hurting you and feeling guilty himself.

Skype requires one-t-one and time, e mail requires less time and he doesn't have to reply straight away. He is moving you to the side.

Why make yourself feel bad, just forget him!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

get the book "He's just not that into you"

may be helpful to you. because it seems that he is not that into you

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A female reader, lexii Ireland +, writes (2 January 2011):

stop writing to this man right now! he doesnt deserve your time and energy. he clearly made a point of deleting you spitefully on Skype which to me seems like he's ashamed of you? move on, use somme retail therapy to cheer yourself up. you'll forget about him in no time hunny :)hope this helps.

Lexii xxx

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