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writes: Well my bestfriend and i haven't talked for 2 months, we got into a huge argument and we decided to just stop talking. Its killing me inside, we used to do everything together, sports, mall, family events, etc. Now that she's gone i feel empty and alone. She was like a sister i could tell her anything and everything. For the past two weeks i've been having dreams about us talking again, and just fixing it. I've said sorry a lot of times and she won't take it. Should i give up or should i try once more? I really don't know what to do, she's so special to me..i just am broken. Someone please help...
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reader, lalala +, writes (3 January 2011):
Hey. I am sorry to hear what your going through. Your not the only one facing it though! I know your hurting because you were so close. However, being that you apolagized numerous amounts of times, that is all that you can do. As long as you know you are truly sorry, that is all that you can do. You now have to respect yourself and her by leaving her alone. Your respecting her by letting her be because she does not want to speak right now. You are also respecting yourself because you aren't putting yourself in a position where you get rejected again. If your friendship is meant to be it will be, you have to let time tell. Hope this helps! xoxo Happy new year!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): DONT push her. The more you keep saying sorry your just rushing it all. Let her come to you. She will in time.
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