A
male
age
26-29,
*ordan wells
writes:my gilfriend met my mate off facebook and met him in town, and i think a bit of flirting - because i went with them, and she is going to town with him tomorrow as well. i wont to meet my friend which is a girl, with her friends. And my girlfriend isn't letting me go, or go out with any girls as mates. While she is going out with my friend who she met on facebook without me, what shal i do? x
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reader, Abella  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 correction : she is flirting with another GUY not another girl (fingers slip on keyboard sometimes!
Thx Abella
Ps. M at end means zilch, was reminder to mention Mall.
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female
reader, Abella +, writes (3 January 2011):
there is more than one way to meet friends. Facebook is so artificial and potentionally so false. If your friend will be so disloyal as to flirt with her/and if she can be disloyal and controlling as to tell you what you can and cannot do then stand up to it.
She does not have any right to do what she is doing (telling you what you can or cannot do about going to the Mall
She has a right to fall out with you.
And it appears she is now flirting with another girl.
If she is so capricious in her affections then it is good you have discovered this. You are still in your teen years. There will be many more girls before you are readu to settle down.
Get out and sample the sweetness of life. Go see things worth seeing. Don't confine your search to FB. Don't narrow your choices to just school and the Mall.
Remember you are still a teen. There is so much to see and do. This teen girl is not your wife. You are of an age where it is normal to see and talk to lot and lots of girls. At your age life seek out life and enjoy it, unemcumbered by a pushy, controlling GF.
M
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reader, GodJudgesAll +, writes (3 January 2011):
I go through some similar issues with my wife whom I recently married. However the issue becomes different since I'm married. Every time she tries to do something like go out with a male friend I tell her she can't because it isn't right for a married girl to be doing that. Whenever I try to do the same though she get's mad and says no and gives me the same thing. This is only your gf though, and I believe still that she shouldn't do that. the risk here is that since she's your gf she could feel like you're enclosing her and could possibly feel like breaking up. you should talk to her, communication is always key. Don't let her break the boundaries unless she's going to allow the same for you, but be careful with cheating, you don't want to give her too much freedom.
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