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writes:I started to date my best friend more than a year ago. Everything has been great except that right before our vacations get gets a sharp pain on his back, and it ended up being his kidney being almost useless and dead so they ended up removing it. Being a good GF and being insanely in love with him I nurse him back to health, he is now back at work/school. Tonight he came to pick me up for a date, while I finished getting ready he checked his mail and logged on his MSN,we left and forgot about it. He is back at his house and Im on mine and I see that his msn is on and this girl he had a crush on and had hooked up with a few years ago had IMed him. No problem there until I see her MSN status set as: "I'm going to miss your kidney!!!Stay on your feet don't get tired!!" His status is set to "A kidney to a kidney!" and yes of course she is talking about HIS kidney. Then on Facebook she made a picture in paint on how he was separated from his kidney and had some sad faces and a broken heart on it and it is supposed to be a joke. After that on his wall I see a post of this same girl saying that she wishes him a nice Xmas and stuff..and that "soon we will go by and visit you again!" I did not know she visited,and according to him no one visited him during his recovery except his family and he stated that none of his friends went to visit.I'm usually not a psycho girlfriend, or the jealous type. I'm uncomfortable asking for explanations and I respect his life so I dont butt in. But the fact that she uses him in her MSN status, is something that makes me uncomfortable. I've met her and she is very ..er.."loose" which is the reason he stopped seeing her, but she is part of the group of friends he always hangs around with.It really makes me uncomfortable, tho I'm not jealous of her but I dislike her actions and I really dont think he is cheating but there is something I dont like. What can I do without looking like a jealous psycho? Should I confront my BF? How should I delicately ask him?... What would you do?Thanks in advance. 3
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (2 January 2011):
 I would just tell him that he left his MSN thing open on your computer and you saw that she said she had visited him at the hospital so youd like to know who is lying (him). That seems like the biggest problem cause there is no reason for him to lie about that unless something is going on.
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