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writes: My friend, who is a girl, and I are best friends. We are really close and I trust her with almost everything. We have sleepovers a lot and always sleep in same bed and cuddle. Is that wrong? sometimes we stay up all night just hugging or rubbing each others arms. sometimes i get on top her (just like laying down hug..) and just hug her... or sometimes she rubs my back or stomach but like under my shirt..on my skin and i love being close by her. But we never kiss or anything else! thats gross and would neverrrr do that! we just are really close and i never really had physical affection from my family like they wouldn't give me many hugs or kisses.. and kind of hurts me. but when im with my best friend and she hugs me i feel loved and protected.but we are both NOT lesbians or bi or anything.. but is that wrong for best friends to be that close?? :/
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reader, Frankiej  +, writes (4 February 2013):
There's nothing wrong with doing that, its good to have a best friend there for you.
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reader, Fionnlagh  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 I think this is intimate and very caring. How can it be a bad thing if it makes you both happy :D nothing wrong here to worry about. Be happy and enjoy what you two have.
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reader, MissMaus  +, writes (3 January 2011):
Aww honey, please don't worry - whatever you do with your friend is okay...... even if there IS more to it, it's still not "wrong". There is nothing wrong if a girl DOES have "those kinds of feelings" for another girl (and yes, it very often starts out as feeling like you just want to "cuddle" like this at your age - I am assuming you are in your early teens......)
You're not hurting anybody - it's all okay......
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reader, Eva9  +, writes (2 January 2011):
I think that phsysical affection is absolutely necessary in any relTionship wether it be sexual or not. I'm gay and I do that with my Bff and they know I'm joking but I really love it and they don't know. But what I would mak sure is that she is not gay before she really mOves in on you and get freaked out and it ruins ur friendship. Good luck
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reader, partyprincess2011 +, writes (2 January 2011):
 it isnt wrong to be close to your best friend as long as it doesnt go further, trying to make a friendship into a relationship just wrecks what you had.
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reader, cupid_1234 +, writes (2 January 2011):
 Ah, its perfectly normal and in fact its so good you 2 have such a lovely friendship. Its the intention which matters more. Keep hugging and loving... huggies from me as well to you both ;-)
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