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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is she avoiding sex and won't discuss it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

30 June 2016 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend around about 18 months now. At the start of the relationship we had sex often, however around the 6 month mark that slowed down and would only do it once a month and then at the nine month mark it stopped completely, ...

We broke up 2 weeks ago and I've heard nothing from him! Did he ever care? I'm confused and hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Trying to get over the guy I was with dumping me out of the blue after 6 years, it has been 2 weeks and everytime I hear nothing from him I am slowly giving up and hardening my heart to any reconciliation or speaking to him ever again. I feel li...

Can't help feel offended by boyfriends comment. Advice please !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - Well my boyfriend was showing me this video the other day , the music video from fifth harmony called work. He said I look a bit like Camila cebelo , and I said thanks (she's really pretty if you guys have seen her!) anywaysyyyy he said to me that ...

He's giving me the silent treatment right now, Will he return to me? I know he's abusive but I want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I recently learned that the guy im dating is a narcissist. We've been through at least 3 cycles of devalue/discard and a recent cycle of re-idealization. He's giving me the silent treatment right now, will he ever return my calls or come ar...

Is it normal to be feeling as I do? And despite years together, I am always anxious around my husband

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I am in my 40s and am married to a very good man. Kids are grown and out of the house. My husband was away for a month, as his parents recently passed away within 3 months of each other, and he closed business for a month to spend time with his sist...

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

We both feel uncomfortable around the other's family. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I am confused with my relationship. Long story short. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years but we are still trying to be comfortable with each others' families. Although when he talks with his family, I feel left out and he feels ...

If he hates other men looking at me why does he find it ok for him to go and look at other women.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - Firstly I want to start by saying that I am not a prude at all, I have no problem with pornography and stuff like that, I'm very open when it comes to things like that. I've even taken my boyfriend to a strip club before. But I've been with m...

My boyfriend of 4 years has been speaking to his ex, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - Hi Guys, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years with a brief break in the middle. I have just discovered that he has been texting/sexting his ex from around 5-6 years ago, possibly his first official relationship. From the beginning, we have b...

How can I address this? I have trouble trusting women and I'm feeling resentful that my dating experiences haven't been good.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - I have a lot of trouble trusting women. I have female friends that I can trust to a degree. But when it comes to dating I can't really trust women because of my past with them. I'm 23 years old. I never had a good dating life and am resentful abo...

Why can't I let go? Breaking up has left me feeling so low.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of six months broke up with me over text a month ago- I get it the relationship wasn't exactly a two way street. We did everythingn in his time and I put up with a lot more than I should have- like him bringing his friends over on date ...

I feel that no one will give me a break. How can I gain more acceptance in a work situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I feel like I'm being discriminated against at work but it's the restaurant owner! I messed up in the past and felt VERY lucky to have gotten the job I did. Right after my arrest, I applied for every job I could and landed a job as a barrista...

Would you go to a reunion with a brother who blames you for Dad's alcoholism?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - Hello, I am the youngest of four. I have two older sisters and a brother. My dad passed away in 2008 and my mom in 2013. When my dad passed away my brother called me two days later blaming me for his death. He died of a bad liver due to drinking. My ...

Is it too late to reach out? Do his actions speak for themselves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone for three months. The first two months were amazing. We saw one another 1-2 times a week and spoke daily. Our connection was wonderful. But during the last month communication on his side dropped immensely. He basically ...

Breaking up was the right decision so why do I feel bad now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - I was okay for two weeks when busy traveling for work, but home now and thinking about this man I was seeing for the past four years. It was a difficult relationship and never really knew where I stood with him. If I was being real, I would al...

I feel like "Mr No Spine"

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - His ladies and gents, long time no post here. The past 4 years have been great, I have met a great woman, and 1 year ago, we got married. We are living with her parents, it can get a little claustrophobic at times. Just for a small amount o...

He just wants to argue and never says sorry.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - So I've been dating my guy for 8months now, but we've known each other for years as good friends. im 26 and hes 30. We both work. Lately he has been talking about taking me to see his family and talking rings and marriage and I love him but ...

Why do men always lose interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do men always lose interest in me after two months? I dated three men for two months each and suddenly, at the two month point they cool way off. Communication drops, they stop making plans, and we just stop talking. I do my part. I don't over ...

It feels like he has checked out of the relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is taking me for granted. We are both 30. We've been together for half a year. The first four months were amazing. We always had a lot to talk about, he was very outgoing and chatty, and affectionate, and we did many things ...

I felt we were connection but she has gone quiet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

25 June 2016 (M) - Hey guys! I've been dating a girl for 2 weeks or so now and been on about 6 dates with her, we are meant to be going out tomorrow. She's gone abit quiet- less messages/ calls, I really do like her and feel like we are already connecting. I'm ...

Do I end the 25 year friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I dont understand why my friend is trying to make me feel guilty. Sorry but this is a long story , I have a friend who lives in a different town to me its only a 10 minute bus ride ill call her A i also have a friend who lives in the same town as ...

Why do some young women go out to night clubs dressed they way they do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do the women at the night clubs dress like s^^ts?? So I'm talking here about women who wear clothes with plunging cleavages, booster bras, short skirts and the like. We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. ...

How do I tell my parents? What should I say to my Auntie? Is the age gap too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months is 14 years older than me (me, 19 years of age) we are happy together and take our relationship seriously. My parents are still not aware of this relationship as I am worried to tell them just because of his age. However ...

Is it Okay to ghost in this situation? I feel that he's lost interest in me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone for three months now. The first two months were great, he was very affectionate and planned thoughtful dates (as did I). He reached out daily and I reciprocated. We met twice a week. However this month he's been busy w...

Is there such a thing as relationship anxiety? How do I manage this anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've had horrible experiences with exes. My first love cheated on me twice and both times he choose the other girl over me. That in a sense kind of left me emotionally scarred and since then I haven't had a relationship last more than a couple o...

Before I met her she had sex with my cousin. How do I get over this fact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I met this girl months ago and we've been dating since them, i'm really trying to forget and avoid jealousy but it's not easy! The fact the i have sex with the same girl my cousin had bothers me too much! I think about breaking up but i love her...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

I probably shouldn't take him back. Is what I did to him worse than what he did to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I was involved with my ex-boyfriend for many years we are friends first so I've known him a really long time. We know each other very very well. He had some substance abuse issues and during that time cheated on me multiple occasions. When I fi...

Is rejection good or bad? How does one accept and deal with rejection?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I asked a female who is beautiful from work on social media if she fancied meeting me for a coffee to get to know me better. This was today, we are good friends on social media, and I decided the time was right to ask her and to seize the day. And...

How can I fit in with new work colleagues? Some are not very nice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Some of our departments have merged at work, whats a good way to get along with new colleagues? Edit None of us new to the workplace but 1/3 of us ( maybe 13 of us) have moved to new much bigger a...

What would you do if faced with these situations from his family and the friends from his country.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Hello I am middle aged and have been married for over 12 years. Both my husband and I are from diff countries and our cultures are different. I moved to Canada and married him, im from UK and hes from another country There have been times whe...

He's accusing me of not locking the door. Why would he become be so accusatory towards me??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - I just moved into an apartment with a room-mate. And there's been a situation that I would like your opinion on: My room-mate came home after being gone for a week, and discovers some boxes for him on his bed, that he ordered. So he asks me if I ...

Beginning to hate this marriage. Is he just trying to control me via money I earn? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Really could do with some help. I've just passed a course so I can teach English to foreign students. My husband is from Poland and wants me to go and live there with him. Five years ago I gave him a few thousand pounds which I never saw again and ...

All I think of when his name is mentioned is anger and hate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - I had a bad breakup with my ex boyfriend in 2014 December before new year's eve. We dated for four months before the break up. I was not happy with him because he wanted to take my virginity even when i told him many times politely that i was not ...

I am low on his list of priorities!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend does not have time for me anymore an am not sure of what to do! Basically there is a culture clash and his parents want him to have an arranged marriages which he has refused to do as he is with me But I feel like everyt...

I feel I'm missing out on a experience that I desperately want to feel.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

22 June 2016 (M) - I'm a man and I'm confused about my sexuality with no idea how to confront it. For as long as I've had an identity I've never labelled my sexuality as what's between the ears has always been more superior to me opposed to how someone identifies. ...

I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues. I am not the kind of woman that turns down sex from my man but yet I feel like ever since we married my husband puts in no effort causing me to think he will be tempted to ...

What if he doesn't know to communicate? How can I bring back our sex life in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Married my LDR husband after 9mths and a baby 5mths later. I will have to say things happened so fast that I failed to realize we will have to put in work to spice up our sex life. Our current situation is not allowing us to step it up. He just mov...

Being bullied by boss at work, female I talk to now and then and issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

22 June 2016 (M) - I have a job and love it and i've made a few friends which has been good for me in terms of confidence as it's helped. I say hi now and then to a female I'm friends with, we don't speak much as time is very limited with her job and mine. Asked if ...

Is he serious about our future?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Hi all, I am in a long-distance relationship. I am from Italy, my partner is Spanish and has been living in Germany for over 15 years now. He was unemployed for ages but now has a good job, it is on a contract basis but they love him and have sai...

I'm shocked my boyfriend broke up with me because I wanted to communicate! Your thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - We have been going out 6 years on and off. We are students (23) He started working a few weeks ago. He didn't reply to my msg for 3 days, I heard from him the 4th day saying how much he loves me etc...he sent me a msg saying he will take me out...

I have lost a lot of friends due to jealousy. Why are girls so jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I have lost a lot of friends due to jealousy. Why are girls so jealous? I use to have a lot of girlfriends but they all seem to disappear as my life gets better. Im a very sweet girl. I'm always there for my friends when they need me. I work rea...

If this relationship is dead how do I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I am struggling with my relationship of four years. I feel like I don't love my boyfriend anymore. He is 23 amd I am 20. The first two years I was im love with him and he was with me. But as I get older, I realize that I probably won't have a ...

Is my boyfriend saying I'm not that attractive to be hit on?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I would say I'm okay looking, when I'm done up I think I can look quite hot. Anyways I get hit on by guys on the way to work quite often, yesterday I had two guys actually approach me. One was when I was sitting on the bench and the guy said, can I ...

I fell in love with my much older professor. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - Okay I just graduated from a medical school. So I should feel blessed as being able to become a doctor after 5 years of hardships. But it do not turn that way, as I could not forget one of my professor at all. Well he is too old, now he is 70+ . and ...

Why does he give gifts to ex's kids but plays the "gift game" with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - Hello my bf and I have been together for two years. He's had a close relationship with his ex during this time. Texting, emailing, calling, and seeing her. He's also very close to her daughters. He attends their games, buys them gifts and keeps ...

Can you please advise what to do? My lesbian partner has been exchanging explicit messages on line with a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - I found explicit emails between my lesbian partner and a man on craigslist. I found some printed copies of her replies to a mans advert on craigslist. The man wanted to meet her for fun in exchange for money. My partner always brags about being ...

Am I being a pushover? I'm trying to overlook that he saved nude of a coworker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. We were able to make a long distance relationship work for about a year and then 9 months ago he changed jobs so that he could move in with me. Our relationship has always been pretty strong ho...

Why did she contact her ex? I sent him a "no contact" email from her account 2 years ago!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

20 June 2016 (M) - Hi, I have been living with my girlfriend for 2 years now. I'm English living in Costa Rica and she's Costa Rican. When we first met I found her text an American man she used to work with. I found out they were having sex,skyping and sending rude ...

My boyfriend wants to quit his job after only 1 week. I told him I'd break up with him if he does so!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I would like your advice on whether I am being too harsh on my boyfriend. My boyfriend was without a job for quite some months and recently landed a customer service job. He has experience working in a call center environment before so hi...