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writes:Hey guys! I've been dating a girl for 2 weeks or so now and been on about 6 dates with her, we are meant to be going out tomorrow. She's gone abit quiet- less messages/ calls, I really do like her and feel like we are already connecting. I'm the kind of guy that likes to know where things are at/ where I stand. I don't want to come across as heavy but want to ask how she feels it's going, can anyone suggest a cool/ subtle way of asking if she's happy with how she feels it's going? I kind of want to just put my mind at ease a little really.. Thanks in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 June 2016):
 Relax ! Are you always so anxious ?
It's 7 dates in 15 days. That tells you were you are at, and tells you that she is happy enough with how things are going to be wanting to see you , basically, every other day. That would be , for most people having work/study/family/social committments.... as much as humanly possible :).
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reader, devont +, writes (26 June 2016):
 You already know where you stand, she likes you enough to have seen you six times in 14 days and has answered all your texts and calls.
If you don't want to come across as heavy, don't ask her. If she's happy with how its going she will continue to see you, its a simple as that.
Relax, have fun.
All the best.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 June 2016):
 2 weeks? CHILL!!
Go with the flow don't PUSH for things to move faster. It's been 2 weeks!
Go out on more dates, HAVE fun, don't RELY on texting as a way to get to know her.
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