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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What am I doing wrong in our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We used to have a lot of fun together , hanging with friends, drinking, going out etc... I got pregnant right away. After being together for 4 months I got pregnant with our son. The whole ...

I want my stepdad to walk me down the aisle!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles I am getting married next year and I should be getting excited but instead I'm feeling anxious about it all, the bottom line is who should walk me down the aisle My folks split when I was 2 my father was violent to my...

Can I call the police because my boyfriend is posting horrible things about me on social media?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend is posting horrible things about me on facebook, can I call the police? I'm not sure if it's harassment or not because he has posted it on his timeline, not in a private message to me. Everyone on his friends list can...

I would like to reconnect with my ex. Is it significan that he never changed his passwords when we brokeup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - hi...i wanna know about my ex...we had broken about 2years but i still love my ex and i wanna get him back... i don't know his mind but he never changed all of the pass the accounts password even when we were apart...he blocked my acc but he never...

My partner is acting like a single man..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I am just trying to come to terms with my partner of 10 years affair and although he said he loves me and he just did it for some excitement I am finding it difficult to get close to him again And although I thought I would try not to spy on him ...

How can this guy just hang out with me and not feel what we have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I'm a goner. Someone please help! I started seeing Mr X in June. We met online thru mutual friends (not dating site) at first he was very flirtatious and we talked a lot. It was a good flow. We went out and had a great time. No more then kissin...

Will this man leave me alone now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My brother in law recently tried match making me with a single friend of his! This guy started messaging me and things began to flow. He started off pleasant enough but the messages soon started to turn very flirtatious! He kn...

Did I overreact to my boyfriend and his question?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Did I over react? My boyfriend asked a girl to show him a slut drop (this is a dance move according to wikipedia) , which she did in front of me. I think this was inappropriate of him to ask he said he didn't think anymore of it other than he was ...

Is my husband of 20 years getting ready to have another affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - my husband has contacted an old flame on facebook said he has been very happy with me, but after 20 years things are not what they used to be. He told this person he has been searching for her for 20 years and has never been so happy to see anyo...

My Bf of 3 years still sees the friends he mixed with back when he did take illicit drugs. Is it wrong to expect him to cut ties with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Here's the situation: I'm very anti-drug and when I met my bf of 3 years, he told me that he was a recovering addict, clean for the last 7 years and that he was over it. So I was fine with it. The problem is that he still hangs out with frien...

Do you think this man will bother me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3711 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My brother in law recently tried match making me with a single friend of his! This guy started messaging me and things began to flow. He started off pleasant enough but the messages soon started to turn very flirtatious! He knew of me ...

Feeling resentment because of sex in otherwise great relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half, and since we go to the same university, we spend most of our time together and are very close (she was my best friend before we went out). However, when it comes to sex, I am starti...

Can this be fixed? Broke up. Reconnected for 1 night. But says we're done as he can't trust me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - I need advice. I split with my boyfriend of a year a couple of months ago and flitted between getting back together and then not doing so. (I was going through a big depressive episode a and he was finding me difficult.) I also kissed someone whil...

Has my GF moved on, or can I restart and save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - Hey friends..my gf has been annoying me for the last few weeks. she has also been spending time with a new male friend, because i refused to have sex with her last time as i was not feeling well. Is she teasing me or something else?please do sugge...

3 wishes: want him to treat me better, be more passionate, and erase his tattoo. Too much to ask for??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He's wonderful man. We are both 25 and he's going to proposed me and give me that hint ( asking me about the engage ring that I like and accidentally told me that he's going to marry me next year). ...

Should I reconsider? And try to work things out with him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3712 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hey all so my boyfriend and I have been off and on for almost 2 years. Here recently we broke up and he moved on. He took his new gf around his friends like 2 or 3 times. Well he broke up with her 2 weeks ago and decided he wants us to work thi...

I don't know how to get past this, and I'm not willing to stay in this relationship if he wants to keep her in his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - My fiance and I are together since our late teens, and before I met him a girl he wasn't even dating gave him oral sex. She is certainly not a pretty sight and I don't mean to be bitchy. He said he never felt anything for her, he just agreed to let ...

Boyfriend doesn't want to have sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been officially BF/GF for 4 months but have been dating for 6 months. He is 28 and I am 23. My boyfriend says he isn't like every other guy. He respects the idea of making love and prefers to have sex spontaneously. H...

I used to travel every year til I met him but he won't even get a passport

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - I am engaged and been with my fiance now for almost 3 years. We have not left the UK once because he does not have a passport. I ask him to get one all the time because I want to go on holiday with him. The only time we go Awa is to a festival...

My older boyfriend said horrible things so I would call him! Do I end the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is lovely sometimes. He is so loving, caring and has a good sense of humour, but he says horrible things sometimes and takes things too far. He really took it too far over the last couple of days. He was angry with me because I haven'...

I'm afraid or ever get in a relationship with a woman again? I suck and don't deserve one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - I'm a shitty person and an asshole. I can't treat a girl right and even though I would want a good, committed relationship, I would just fail and hurt her. When I was 17 and a senior in high school, I met a just newly turned 15 year old sophomo...

Why does she keep sending mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - I have fallen in love with a women 6 hours from me. She has told me how much she loves me and when I asked her to move here with me in my home, she said she cannot due to her girls. She said she cannot have what she wants right now. Then she goes...

My boyfriend thinks I'm bad at handling money! How can I change his opinion of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend thinks I'm bad at handling money and I don't know how to change how to change his mind. He is 22 and I'm 21. I think I'm ok at handling money. Not great but ok. I constantly have not much money because I'm living on a student loan but I ...

My LDR has admitted to ongoing cheating. Do I fight for us or sit back while he leaves me for the other girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years just told me he cheated on me...by text message. He met this girl, got her number, has been hanging out with her, going out in groups, hanging at her house, and having sex with her. He told me and seemed to think that since ...

I have a feeling he's being unfaithful -- what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - Okay. So I've been in a relationship for a little over two years. Right at the start of our relationship I had a gut feeling he was lying to me and seeing someone else. I was right. But I will never feel like I really know the true story because he ...

Please help me! Is my fiancé abusing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - So my fiancé thinks that its okay to look at girls who are way skinnier than me and then gets mad when a guy looks at me in a good way. He consistantly will do this right in front of me then tells me that im an attention whore and wants me to wear...

Recently saw my Mum, when she was younger, in a commercial film, where she was topless. It has grossed me out. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

27 September 2014 (M) - I'm grossed out after knowing my Mum did a cameo topless scene in a film? Recently, I saw my Mum topless in an old movie. It was a cameo appearance but it shocked the hell out of me and disgusted me. I don't know how to deal to with it. ...

Old flame returns! What to say or do? He wants to be friends but he doesn't want his wife to get hurt??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - I was contacted by my first love on facebook. He said he was happily married on facebook as am I; Our relationship was 33 years ago. We dated as teens and were in love till he went away to school he said we should date others and didn't want t...

Is he making enough effort in this LDR? He is reluctant to visit me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - I go to the school about an hour and half from where my boyfriend (of two years) goes to school. Recently I've been getting more and more frustrated with the amount of traveling I have to do to see him. I've traveled to see him 4 times now and he ...

Why are people trying to match make? I enjoy flirting and dating but no exclusively. But don't want to be available for sex. Is that so difficult?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Please help me! I am so sick of people trying to play match maker but every group of friends I've had and even random co workers and relatives and people I go to church with are always trying HARD to set me up with someone. I have had a lot ...

I lied with a fake ID and fake photo. Now he knows the truth he's blocked me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - I love a guy bt I sent him fake photos and used to speak to him using a fake id. we are in a long distance relationshp for 6 months. He is the son of my friend and her neighbour.. He knows my sister because my sister lives same place as my friend...

How to I talk to my parents and explain that their comments are hurtful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. My issue I'm having is with my elderly parents. They are amazing people, I would say the kindest people I've ever met. They would give you every last penny they had if they thought it would make you happy. They are fantastic parent...

Am I obligated to spell out that it's over? We haven't spoken in a month

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

26 September 2014 (?) - We just stopped talking to each other after an almost five year relationship. Literally. I suspected him of cheating after I found out he was going on a trip with a female co-worker and even if it was purely innocent, he never told me and this was a ...

Why was my sister friend so rude to me and why are women so mean to each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - A few months ago my younger sister ( who lives in another state) got married, smallish amount of people around 60, at the end of the night there were buses that took us from the venue to the car park in the town where we all had parked car...

I don't want him to be friends with women he used to sleep with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Question I'm in love with my boyfriend (of a year and a half)and we have have a great relationship besides the fact that he is really close to some female friends of his and one he is really close with that he use to date(sleep with)! He has a lot ...

My fiance has lied to me and I've lost trust in her. Can this be fixed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

25 September 2014 (M) - My Fiancée and I have been together for over a decade and have had two kids together. Like most relationships, we've had our ups and downs. A lot brought on by me working away from home and perhaps not doing as much around the house when I get ...

I feel like I can't compete with my boyfriend's threesome! Should I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I have gotten myself into a really, really stupid situation here. My boyfriend and I have been in a very passionate and loving relationship for about two months and I'll just skip the part where I tell you all how perfect everythi...

Do u think he's blowing me off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - Hi there I would like some advice relating to this guy that I like. We have known each other a few months, through a mutual friend. We met up on 2 occasions at the club and he was complimenting all night and we ended up kissing which was really...

He says we aren't in a relationship so am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - I have been seeing a man, exclusively, for over 2 months. He lives in a town about 20kms away. I spend 3 or 4 nights a week at his place. We share his bed, kiss and cuddle, but have discussed the fact that we would wait before we have sex. We are ...

He hasn't taken responsibility for his actions but did stop talking to her. And what do I do about my so-called friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm a female seeking advise on whether it's ok my husband and my best friend have been texting anywhere from 5 to 30x a day while I only get 3 texts a day from both of them over the past couple months.during which time I found out my ...

Ever since boyfriend showed me naked photos of him and his ex girlfriends things have changed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and things started out beautiful but that something beautiful is dying now. We met through an social network dating site and when we first decided to meet up, I was reluctant and scared, but I went ...

Ex boyfriend's pervy behavior makes me question a reconciliation

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together for many years. We've been broken up for quite awhile due to various reasons and I've been moving on fairly alright. We're no longer friends on facebook but can see certain recent activity, if we check, and we both do as ...

I'm a crossdresser with a girlfriend relationship problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - So I am a crossdresser and I really love doing it. I have a nice collection of clothes and shoes, etc. Mostly I have done it at home when nobody is around. My girlfriend whom I live with knows about it, and is very supportive of this whih makes my ...

Fifth Date and then He Disappeared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month. We have a bunch of mutual friends and he knows my sister. We don't text often, mostly just to make plans and then he calls me the day before or day of to finalize. Majority of the time he would text me ...

I'm scared to commit to my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - I love my boyfriend, dearly. I pounce on the phone whenever he texts or calls me (we do not live together and live in different cities) and could talk to him all day if I could. I'm alway eager to text him, my parents know about him, etc etc. We've ...

My boyfriend doesn't like me having a sex toy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - Hi, so I recently brought some sex toys for myself because my boyfriend and I were too busy to have sex. It was one of the artificial butt toys and I like it a lot. I made the mistake of telling him and now he's very upset about. There are some thi...

She spends a lot of time with her ex boyfriend but tells me I'm still her 'one and only'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I've been dating this girl for 6 months now. It all started when I needed help with getting the size for my suit from the girl I like, because I was ordering for Valentine's Day because I promised my friend, Adele, (who is straight but I w...

He doesn't seem interested in me or our new baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - I would like to hear some of your perspectives on what I'm going through: I used to live in a foreign country (as an expat) and I met another guy (also an expat from a different country). We started seeing each other and in a short time I got...

My boyfriend prefers time spent with friends over time spent with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3718 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Ok so me and my bf have been dating for almost 3 years and we are both the same age, 23. Lately I have been stressing to him the importance of him establishing a "career" because he is about to turn 24 in a couple of months and I do want better for ...

I was going to break up with him but then I fell for him again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I have an on and off relationship with my bf for past 4 years. He always verbally abuses me, belittles me, ignores me for long period of time, make sure my esteem always stays all time low.... Coming to the current happenings, he wa...