A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi there I would like some advice relating to this guy that I like.We have known each other a few months, through a mutual friend. We met up on 2 occasions at the club and he was complimenting all night and we ended up kissing which was really good :) the following week we met again he came over and spent the night nothing happened we just kissed and hugged but you could tell we wanted more, so next night I ask him out to the club and he says yeah but didn't show.I've not heard from him in a while so decided to drop him a message to see how he was doing and I he replied saying that hearing from me had put a smile on his face as he wasn't feeling very well and that he hoped to catch up soon.I don't know if he's just being polite or not I really like this guy my friend is pretty close to him and if my name is mentioned he usually goes quiet or doesn't reply.I would just like to figure it out and if he's not interested that's okay. I wont pursue him.
View related questions:
kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (25 September 2014):
 I'd forget the bum.
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 September 2014):
 Don't pursue him. if he's interested it's because you would make it easy for him...
if he wants to be with you he will come after you.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2014): He may only be sexually-interested. It's a good thing you didn't offer sex straightaway. You extended an invitation for a date, and he flat-out stood you up. Then comes this crap about not feeling good and how you "put a smile on his face."
Seriously?!! More like a tent in his trousers!
Just blow-off all that he says. Don't take him seriously. Frost any future cuddle-sessions at your place. Let him invite you out on a proper date, if his head is on the same page as yours. I wouldn't be too optimistic. I think he's in it for the sex, and he's playing off the fact that you like him.
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 September 2014):
 I say don't pursue. If he got SO "happy" about you contacting him, then the ball is in HIS court now. HIS move.
And I would suggest if you meet him at the club again there will be no snogging.
If he is interested he will want to get to know you not just kiss and cuddle. And not just while he is drunk, but sober in a date-like situation. Otherwise You are going to end up as a ONS. Or treated as a F-buddy.
...............................
A
male
reader, olderthandirt +, writes (25 September 2014):
He is probably just playing you to see if you'll call again.Good Luck, be careful,sounds like he's done this routine before.
...............................
|
