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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is lovely sometimes. He is so loving, caring and has a good sense of humour, but he says horrible things sometimes and takes things too far. He really took it too far over the last couple of days. He was angry with me because I haven't seen him (I have been ill with a cough and cold). He said he had met someone who lived in an area close to where he lives, and he said she was younger than me and she drives a car. Then, later on , he said he was going to go and have sex with a neighbour who was 20 years old. I am 30 years old, and my boyfriend is 51. I know , he is so immature!. He told me that he made it all up to wind me up and to get me to call him. Would you end a relationship with someone like that?.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 September 2014):
 I'd end it. he's insecure, immature and childish...
you do not need that.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (29 September 2014):
 Yes, I would drop him faster than he could say "I slept with Pippa Middleton"!
Ugh. The guy is a dried-up loser.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (29 September 2014):
 You are dealing with a diva. D(demanding) i(insensitive) V(very) A(Annoying) man. Basically he's old enough to be your father but is acting like a child. UGH...
A nice man would have called you and said "how are you doing honey? Can I get you anything?? Maybe brought over some soup (who cares if its in a can?) some flowers to cheer you up..and asked if you'd like a back rub.
NOT told you he was going to go have sex with someone else.
You deserve someone who is lovely to you ALL THE TIME sweetie..not just once in awhile. He's not a keeper..throw him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2014): Don't waste any more time on a man who thinks he can get attention by being so childishly vile!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 September 2014):
 If you were my sister, I'd tell you that dumping him would be the best decision you could make, under the circumstances....
Good luck...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 September 2014):
 Why are you wasting your time on this old geezer who act like he is 12? Seriously?
Now he thinks that is fun, but do you? Have you told him that you find his attempt of humor falls flat and it's a turn OFF for you.
Personally, though... I'd find a guy who isn't such a drama queen.
I mean telling you he is sleeping with the neighbor, playing on some age-insecurity you have (because let's face it if you weren't a little insecure you would roll your eyes and tell him have fun!) - that is being a drama queen. Why couldn't he JUST call you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2014): Get rid of him, he's a horrible person and if he can't accept that you're unwell then he's not worth your time and energy.
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