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female
age
41-50,
*hanib
writes:Dear CupidMy brother in law recently tried match making me with a single friend of his! This guy started messaging me and things began to flow.He started off pleasant enough but the messages soon started to turn very flirtatious! He knew of me as I'd dated a friend of his about 12 yrs ago.So he knew where I was living etcHe started messaging me one night and knew I had a a few wines.The next thing I know he has turned up near my home wanting to see me! I have a grown up son and younger ones tucked up in bed so I was anxious about this guy turning up!At the time I didn't know if to be flattered or insulted! We had a snog but it was clear he wanted things to go further! I wasn't prepared to do this as it's not my style and eventually he left! I asked him if he wanted to meet at the weekend instead and he said yes!Since then I've had no contact from him at all!Obviously I'm not chasing this guy and feel disappointed he thought id be so easy! So I'm guessing he was chancing his luck and didn't get any!Is it likely he will not bother now! I'm just surprised a guy of 45 would behave this way! I don't understand men at all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2014): His unannounced visit was nothing more than a booty-call. His only intention is to have sex. You haven't heard from him since? Good!!! Now you know what he's all about.
Will he turn-up again? Possibly. I don't think he's interested in dating; and just showing up was presumptuous on his part. Disrespectful to say the least. Let him know the next time he calls, if ever. Feel free to call him and just tell him that you're not that kind of lady, and you don't think you're his type. You don't think you should see each other again. If that is the case.
Why would you be surprised? You can't be naive about things these days. Don't invite him in if he makes another unauthorized appearance, let him know you don't appreciate that. I think you should take a pass on this guy.
You're a formerly married-woman (I assume divorced or widowed) with children, and in your 30's. You should know something about men by now. That's one man, and he doesn't represent all of us. He has no manners. Red-flag!!!
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