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writes:I have been dating this guy for about a month. We have a bunch of mutual friends and he knows my sister. We don't text often, mostly just to make plans and then he calls me the day before or day of to finalize. Majority of the time he would text me the day or 2 after our date to see when we could do something again. We had our fifth date on Saturday and everything seemed normal . We went for dinner and then he came over and we fooled around for the second time. When he left we kissed but didn't say see you soon or anything. The week before he was at a wedding and he made a joke saying his parents think he may meet his future bride there... i said maybe you will! He messaged me from the wedding saying " i looked here nothing is as good as you, with that being said are you free wed?" I had a wedding this sunday night and sent him a cute pic saying " better hope I don't meet my husband" which was cute and totally a joke. he never wrote back and today I texted him and asked how he was. and still nothing.Why is he being like this? If he's not into me tell me don't be an asshole.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 September 2014):
 What you think is "cute" probably wasn't taken by him as cute. Sounds like he's just not into you. forget it happened and move on.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (24 September 2014):
 Hmm, to me it sounds like he got offended over a joke HE started. Apparently it was OK for him to be at a wedding and "maybe" met his future wife, but you can't joke about the same? Seems off. THOUGH he DID text you fro mthe wedding to let you know he WASN'T looking for a wife there......
But I'd call him and sort it out. JUST tell him...
"If he's not into me tell me don't be an asshole."
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 September 2014):
 Have you tried calling him? Texts can be misunderstood as offensive or dismissive or in some cases, not even sent. I found I had some weird data thing that kept some key texts from being sent until 3 weeks after I hit 'send'.
Call the man. Ask him what's going on.
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reader, SeaGreen +, writes (24 September 2014):
 Perhaps he took offense to your comment; "better hope I don't meet my husband".
I would sent him a text apologizing and tell him you only meant it as a playful joke.
If he responds let him know that his sudden lack of contact upset you and that you want him to let you know in the future if he became upset over something.
If he doesn't respond then don't worry about it and let it go. While it probably really hurts he wasn't worth your time anyway.
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