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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My friend stuck her used vibrator in my boyfriend's face

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - So recently ive found myself in a strange situation and its one i never thought i would expect to deal with in a relationship and i truly hope no woman ever has to deal with this. I know your all thinking you boyfriend cheated on you. Wrong. So it ...

My girlfriend's past threesome never bothered me before but now it does

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about a year now. She told me about 6 months ago that she had been involved in a threesome. It'd happened about 15 years ago. It honestly didn't really bother me at all. I know girls experiment and everything and it ...

My mother's boyfriend treats my brother very badly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I've spent a lot of time at my mum and her boyfriend's house this week and I've heard him call my brother a little scrote, douchebag, idiot, prick, pillock. He also threated to smash his wii and cut his signed football in half. He has also banned h...

I don't think my wife loves me anymore, but another woman has taken an interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Me and my wife have been together for 5 yrs and married for four. we have a child together, she is 2. I have two teenagers that live with us. she does the world for them and me even when I wasn't working, but even when I was working she has been...

About to get married, but am I am settling? We're more best friends and I love him but not "in love".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I have been in a relationship for the last 12 years. My fiancé and I have one child together. My fiancé has recently asked me to marry him and I said yes because I feel like that we should be married and thats what the next step is. For a long tim...

Had an amazing date with my friend but now haven't heard from him for a week. Was he making excuses when he cancelled another date? We are both in relationships with other people.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - Hi I have this friend L, we to talk to each other/hang out with friends etc. Nothing ever happened as he has a gf and I have a bf and he was moving to another country. However, we were both unhappy with our relationships and we do talk to each oth...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

BF loves to cuddle and I can't sleep! Is it because I'm too warm, or because he's in my space too much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - Hi there... basically I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now really very happy together got a real good honest relationship. I have an issue he is really cuddly, I on the other hand am not so much. I do enjoy a hug now and again bu...

Why can't my ex accept that we're not going to be together anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - This guy that I have been knowing for many many many years, we use to see each other. He was a great person when I first met him then when we started going out he took me on ride that I wished I had never got on. This beast was nothing but a woman ...

My boyfriend never wants to socialise with my friends. Is he being selfish and want can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - Ok my boyfriend of 3 years never wants to do anything with my group of friends, it always has to be his. For example tonight, we were invited to a NYE party with my friends weeks ago but he has been hesitating about going to it. I have asked hi...

What's wrong with my relationship with my Gf? She seems to find fault with me all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for a while now and have been enjoying every moment we are together. Ever since we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend, she has been shooting me down. For instance, I asked her if she wanted to hang out...

Is this a one sided relationship where I initiate all the actions to support the relationship and her? Yet her efforts to support the relationship are scant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both in our 40's and have been together for 8 months. We love each other very much but it seems like I'm the one always doing the "little things": helping with her kids, shuttling them from place to place, writing her lett...

Is she too proud to admit she made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - 3 months ago I heard my ex flirting on the phone with a man, which really hurt me and made me write a touching goodbye message to her. She told me she loves me and didn't want me to leave her. I ignored her for two weeks to hurt her back but she was ...

How am I going to talk to her about what happened? And what do I say when I see this guy (who has a crush on me) next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4335 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - When my best friend's boyfriend found out I was bi, he started hanging out with me more and told me he was questioning his sexuality. That was three months ago. Last week he told me he didn't just like me, he loves me and that he was going to bre...

How can I win my son's love again? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - After my divorce, my son changed totally with me, he was so close to me but now he changed and he told his dad that he saw me with another man and this was 5 years back. I thought he forget about it but he didn't .I was not happy with my husband at ...

I want my BF to grow up and save $ - Am I controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He doesn't have a car or a license. So I drive him to and from work and everywhere else every day except on his days off. He pays for gas, most of it, and buys a few groceries since I stay with him at h...

Eight months pregnant by him and now he's broken up with me on Christmas Eve. What can I do? LDR and he's in the military. He says I've not given him enough space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I met this guy almost 12 mths ago, we were in love an every was great. Now I'm currently 8 months pregnant an recently he started talking a lot less, saying he needs space and that i message him too much. Then he then dumped me on Christmas Eve an ...

What do I do now? How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - So around January, I met this girl. I started talking to her and found out. she had a boyfriend. I backed off and texted her on her birthday, which I remembered was April 20th (420). I found out she was single so I started hanging out with her. I ...

Been so difficult since we broke up. Should I just cut him off and move on? Or hope we can get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a 1 1/2 months ago. Word got around around about two weeks ago that he liked another girl but also said he didnt want to date anyone for a while. Around a couple nights ago he had contacted me saying how he had been thin...

My boyfriend is acting almost paranoid about me leaving him and its really starting to get to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I've been seeing my bf now for 4 and a half months, it started really well ( the honeymoon period) but now he's started to over react to situations, and I would almost go as far as calling it paranoid about me leaving him. I no he's had bad past ...

My boyfriend suffers from OCD and is too set in his ways. How can I get him to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is too stuck in his ways.. He suffers with anxiety and ocd, its really quite bad but I knew this before I stated going out with him, I just feel its getting to much for me even though I love him. He won't get on buses to go places w...

Did I ruin our LDR because I asked her not to be online with others while talking to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - hey frnds my gf and i we live about 4 hrs of drive away from each other and meet around like 2 times a month and our dates are usually enjoyable.. shes 23 and am 22.. she used to work before but not at the moment i.e. stays home all the time and am ...

I am having real issues with my boyfriend smoking weed and I don't know if I am overreacting or not.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, and in the last six months he has started smoking weed regularly. I have never liked weed for no other reason that it smells bad and is a waste of time and money in my opinion, but I have ...

How do we deal with our communication differences when it comes to expressing love for each other, be it physical or emotional/verbally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - I am a 22 year old male, and I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we never had any big issued or disputes till yesterday. She invited me over to her place after going to the mall and threw me out, hurting my feelings, simply because ...

Why can't my family and friends mind their own business about my dating life? How should I respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, it's has been nine years since I have been in a relationship and now people who I know want me to return to the relationship scene . I feel like I am not ready yet I want to do me right now I feel if I go back to being with somebody...

He's been a friend for a long time but his new Gf is now his sole focus. Do these "obessive" type of relationships tend to last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Most people say relationships calm down after a few months, people stop being clingy, they calm down and care about other things in life other than their girlfriends and boyfriends. Is this true? I suppose I have a different opinon to lots o...

She's making catty remarks about me. Do I ignore her? Or involve the guy we both may have a crush on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - this girl might like this guy I might have a crush on. I know he used to like me but I think he likes her now though I don't know for sure. He may even like Both of us. Anyways this girl is rude to me making catty/smart comments most of the time...

I think my boyfriend only wants material things from me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - I've been w my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I made the mistake in spoiling him and now I feel like the only thing he wants from me is material things. We haven't been intimate in over a year and I'm lucky enough to see him once a month. I love ...

A wife, another woman who I love, and kids with both. Tell me how I can fix this situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - hi there I am 33 years old man and I have been married for 4 years now but been together for 10 years and we also do not have sex my wife treats this like a job. half a year into being married I started having an affair with a woman but only for fun ...

I think I still love him. But it's not mutual. What can I do? Seeing as my partner thinks I'm silly, and wants to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - I dont think my husband loves me because I just cant feel that! I think this question will be a long question. We did love each other a lot, he left his hometown and move to my city, in the frount of all the pressure just came to us, all the bill...

Was I justified to walk away from a man who would not commit? I'm finding it hard to move on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Hi all. Just two weeks ago I ended a relationship with a man I had deep feelings for. He was not willing to commit to me. He and I were seeing each other for a year but he broke it off and started seeing someone else. All the while, he contin...

Is it ok to purposely mislead or lie about your past to get someone to commit to you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - Ok I want to ask this and give my opinions on this subject. First let's use some scenarios. #1guy has a past of hitting women, or criminal past, but has not been in trouble for years he's "changed" as some would say. #2 women has a past of chea...

Am I really just stubbornly holding onto a fantasy that is never going to come true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - A little over a year ago, I met a man who I thought was different. He treated me in a way I had never been before and accepted and loved my young son from a previous relationship in a way I could only dream of. However, here were a few issues with ...

Why does this guy block me after he acts like he likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Why does this guy keep blocking me even after we made up? He is a guy I am very interested in and wanted to befriend with. Last year, he invited me to be his friend on facebook, which I immediately accepted. After a few months, we tried to flirt ...

Break-up. Another girl a day later? Should I even consider giving him a new chance to get back together as a couple, in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of one year broke up the day after Christmas. Prior to Christmas we went on a cruise celebrating our one year anniversary. Throughout our relationship I know we have had our ups and downs. When times are good they are really good ...

Is he just playing games with me? He denies, to others, that he still likes me. He claims to think of me sexually, still.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told...

We had a super-connection. What can I do to rebuild the trust and reunite with my now ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4334 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - Dearcupid, My (now ex) girlfriend (26 and i'm almost 25)broke up with me over 2 months ago. Circumstances have changed since - i've moved forward with my career and am closer than ever to where I want to be. This was an issue with us as I was del...

He won't talk to me and now I can't eat or sleep and all I do is cry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I need help.. i feel like im losing my mind. I cant eat, sleep, or go ten minutes without balling... about 8 months ago i met a guy. And we dated and just a few days later he left. He said it was because he was insuccure... but this...

I walked up behind her and surprised her. Did she think I was creepy and it turned her off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (?) - I met these 2 girls at a pub last Saturday night. And I was about to leave and they ask me to come join them. Both girls ended up loving me!! Both really really cute too. The one, I was thinking wanted to be exclusive. She even gave me her phon...

Why does my friend not seem to understand that I don't want to be exposed to his friend that I used to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4337 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Should I confront my 'best friend' about this? Me and my best friend used to speak every night on the phone and have been drifting apart a little. He got in some trouble and went to jail for a year and is quite restricted as to what he can do to en...

Is my female boss taking advantage? She wants me to provide her with sex. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - it is with big pain and confusion I write this. I have never told this to any one. I have been away for a month for work and my boss (female, may be around 38-40) was also there. Though she was my boss, we were in good friendship. As the bed was...

Even after 3 years together it would be my first choice to go home to my own bed without my B/f. Does this mean things are not right with us and deep down I know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been having problems because I never want to stay at his house, but I don't know why I don't... I love him a lot, although we have had lots of problems along the way mainly because I feel like I'm last on his priority list a ...

95 % of the time she's great but its that other 5% that has me worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about 4 months now. We both go to the same university. 95% of the time she's great and we have a lot of fun together and we've both said we're falling for each other. We split paying for dates and everything. But every ...

He did the chasing, I was confident he liked me but he seems to be acting like a sociopath? Was it all a game to him? Help me understand his actions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I met a charismatic quite popular guy on a night out when I was a bit drunk I'm 23 and hes 27. I’m always louder and more confident when I’ve been drinking and we hit it off. He asked me to meet up again and we got on really well, although he ...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

Holiday blues. Why do I feel more alone than ever, and without a partner, especially during the holiday times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Why is it that I feel more alone over the holidays? I have family and friends, yet I long for the warmth of a man. I feel like I will never find a man and have that marriage I so long for. I'm 43 and never married. Something BTW, I always wanted....

Can I trust men after this? And why do I fall for men too fast? I want to stop doing that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi I am not sure why i fall for men so fast. I was just in a two year relation ship and he cheated on me so bad. I finally got sick of it and after two years i dumped his ass. Well I got involved with a nice guy I thought hit was nice. ' He opened ...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Should I start looking for someone else? I don't think my current GF is going to be the one, long term

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I am 47 and was married happily for 16 years, and not-so-happily for the last 2 as I found myself dragged down a path of divorce I didn’t want to be on. My wife instigated the proceedings; the reasons no longer matter - suffice to say I had neve...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...