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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He did the chasing, I was confident he liked me but he seems to be acting like a sociopath? Was it all a game to him? Help me understand his actions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I met a charismatic quite popular guy on a night out when I was a bit drunk I'm 23 and hes 27. I’m always louder and more confident when I’ve been drinking and we hit it off. He asked me to meet up again and we got on really well, although he ...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

Holiday blues. Why do I feel more alone than ever, and without a partner, especially during the holiday times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Why is it that I feel more alone over the holidays? I have family and friends, yet I long for the warmth of a man. I feel like I will never find a man and have that marriage I so long for. I'm 43 and never married. Something BTW, I always wanted....

Can I trust men after this? And why do I fall for men too fast? I want to stop doing that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi I am not sure why i fall for men so fast. I was just in a two year relation ship and he cheated on me so bad. I finally got sick of it and after two years i dumped his ass. Well I got involved with a nice guy I thought hit was nice. ' He opened ...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Should I start looking for someone else? I don't think my current GF is going to be the one, long term

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I am 47 and was married happily for 16 years, and not-so-happily for the last 2 as I found myself dragged down a path of divorce I didn’t want to be on. My wife instigated the proceedings; the reasons no longer matter - suffice to say I had neve...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...

We've endured a rough time together. I still love her. Yes cheating occurred. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So, my story starts a year ago when i first met my ex with whom i just brokeup, i immediately fell in love and told her so on the next day, she also really liked me. everything was perfect and fun, and we really rushed sexually ( which was foolish....

Since my miscarriage and his uncaring attitude I don't think I can love him any more. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have really been feeling like I've grown to hate my boyfriend at times. There are times when I think what would I do without him? I feel I don't want to leave him because all my friends either live on the other side of the country or I've ...

Fake FB account and now I'm stuck. What do I do?? I never meant to hurt anyone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - i know.i messed up. i know i hurt people. i just want advice though. okay sorry if this is long.i fell fast and hard for a male friend. well i wanted to find out if he was insterested in anyone without him knowing i liked him. so i made a fa...

Is there absolutely anyway I'll be able to get over my ex and move past what she did to me? What am I supposed to do with my life now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So I dated a girl for 3 years, invested everything I had into the relationship: my time, my money (albeit we started dating when I was only 15 years of age) and she absolutely drove me into the ground. I found out halfway through the relation...

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

She's gorgeous. My envy and jealousy towards her is out of control. What can I do? I'll lose her if I keep being like this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I need help bad! Please help! Im in love with a woman but Im jealous of her. Shes gorgeous. Shes everything I want to be and pretend to be but aint. She's smart, funny, kind, thoughtful, classy, generous, shapely, blue eyes, professionally esta...

LDR help needed please? How do I break up with my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Our relationship became a LDR since 4 months... Growing apart from my bf of 2 years: we are at a point where we barely talk now and my feelings for him are not the same anymore. In the beginning I was writing to him every day and we would sky...

Despicable actions by him in the past. So do I try to forget that? And see him again? Or say NO to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - My ex constantly said he slept with my sister whenever we would argue. He would do this because he knew that would destroy me and knew that my sister and I were very close. I confronted my sister she denied it and no longer speaks to me. As...

How do I get my friend back? At least to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I'm scared, lost and feel really down. This is basically one of those "how do I get my friend back" questions, however this is a little more complicated. My friend (male) wont speak to me. He cut me out his life with no explanation. We ...

Is this just a lover's tiff? What caused this? And how can I make things get back to normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for around three months and up until now everything has been perfect. We fell in love pretty much at first sight and it's been so intense. But something happened at the beach which might not sound that bad but made me ...

Slept with him, but he became a jerk. Broke up. Later slept with his brother. If they know will they both hate me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I know I will be judged for this but I really need help please? I slept with a guy a year ago. After I slept with him, he was a jerk to me and left my life, until recently. However, I recently slept with his brother. Now my ex has just started tal...