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writes:Dearcupid,My (now ex) girlfriend (26 and i'm almost 25)broke up with me over 2 months ago.Circumstances have changed since - i've moved forward with my career and am closer than ever to where I want to be. This was an issue with us as I was delayed at university this year due to a lot of family issues and health issues, along side her moving out with a girl I never got a long with who caused issues for us on purpose.At first I tried to get her back a lot as I felt the breakup was due to unfortunate circumstances and that we did have a very special connection. She didn't take me back obviously. I then went away for two weeks working, in which I didn't speak to her. My mother bumped into her at the local supermarket and they had a chat for ten minutes apparently. She then sent me a text message on Christmas day wishing me and my family a happy Christmas.I rang her two days ago, and we talked for thirty minutes comfortably. I did bring up if she wanted to go on a date and she said no - "not at the moment". She said we had a very special connection and she isn't ruling out the possibility of reconciling in the future but that at the moment she wants to be single. She said she wasn't sure if it was we had a super special connection or if she can find it with someone else as well ( I don't think so I think it was really special personally ) We dated for two and a half years, and she is the only girl i've slept with, and both of ours first true relationship)She asked me if I had been talking to girls, if I kissed another girl etc all of this kind of stuff. She said she isn't sleeping around either but that she is just being a flirt and that I know that. Please help, I really do miss her immensely! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2012): Maybe YOU need a break. I understand that you love her and its hurting not to be with her, but look at it as a way for you to spend time doing what you have to. Tx her and tell her that you agree you both need time and take it from there (Baby Steps) see if you guys still have the fight to retry. And please dont let anyone or anything come in between that.
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