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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told me that he never really talks to her, he thinks shes nice and stuff, but he dosnt like her enough to date her, and how he always though I was hot and really pertty. He isnt interested in the general idea of dating right now. I asked him if he would chose X if he was intrested in dating anyone.(X is the girl word got around he allegedly likes. Plus my friends told me he was going around denying he had any lasting feelings for me.He replied with "yeah i guess, but I still have thoughts of you too." I'm mostly healed....but i still have some feelings for him...what is going through his head...is he just playing a game with me? or deep down might he actually have some feelings for me too?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 December 2012):
 NO FWB! No no no no NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You will get hurt.
You are 16/17 and way too young for sexual games...
he is toying with you trying to get laid.
listen to me: he will use you, and HURT YOU.... I have BTDT
DO NOT delude yourself into thinking he cares about you.
all he cares about is his dick honey.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 December 2012):
 No. You say you still have feelings for him, while he has only sexual feelings for you. It's a heck of a big difference, and you would not be playing on a level field.
You are considering to get along with what is convenient for HIM, because 1) you hope that if you manage to make him stick around through sex, he'll start to care again or 2 ) you'd do anything and accept any compromise as long as he gives you some crumbs of attention.
No. 1 is an illusion, it just does not work like that. No. 2 sounds quite desperate for a young, pretty girl like yourself. You really have nothing to be desperate about !
Plus, have you thought how would you feel if ( or when ) he decides that he is ready for dating.. and starts dating the "nice and stuff " girl" ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really need help on this. Iv had thoughts about him sexual too......should we be FWB?
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