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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:this girl might like this guy I might have a crush on. I know he used to like me but I think he likes her now though I don't know for sure. He may even like Both of us. Anyways this girl is rude to me making catty/smart comments most of the time when she's around me. Then she says she is an ****** but is sorry, so why would she act like that esp if she knows that's what she's doing.I usually ignore and try to avoid her. I was thinking about talking to him about her behaviour and if they like each other. Is this a good idea?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 December 2012):
 Telling your crush about this girl's rude behavior, won't make you look anymore appealing to him. It actually makes you look bad.
This rivalry, jealousy is between you and her only. Just avoid her, you don't have to talk to her, or listen to what she says.
Your crush likes who he likes, and he may not like any of you. He might have his eye on another girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2012): A simple solution - just go and ask him out, if he likes you he'll say yes, if he doesn't he'll say no. Forget what she does and thinks, she's just an in-between-er. She may only act the way she does because she thinks exactly the same about you and him, as you do about her and him, but don't lower yourself to her level, just get straight to the point. If he gets with you then she will have no choice but to back off, if he gets with her then you back off and leave them to it, end of this situation, move on.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (30 December 2012):
Nobody likes a "tattle tale." One thing you'll learn as you get older is that people like her have issues and you can't spend time worrying about them or how they act.
Just ignore her and get the guy, that will shut her up.
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