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I am trying to move on but I keep imagining him with someone else

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Question - (15 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2010)
A female Puerto Rico age 41-50, *oviesBrknHeart writes:

is it normal to want to live without someone because its over and u have to ... but cnstantly think about how devastating it would be to learn they are with somone else and be consumed with sadness even tho your trying hard to move on?

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A female reader, LoviesBrknHeart Puerto Rico +, writes (15 January 2010):

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God hope you guys r right... My heart hasn't hurt this much since My 1st relationship..somehow this feels worse because its like all the tools I used from that expierience weren't the right ones for this one.. Thanks for the advice.. Im open to more suggestions on what I can do to fill this void...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2010):

Yes, it's normal. When I lost my first girlfriend to her ex, I was very hurt and spend most of my time thinking about what they were up to. It took me about 6 months to get over her. My friend took a year to get over his ex, and so on. But you'll get there. When I went through my break up I decided to be a bit selfish and focus on myself for a while. That's what you should do. Go out, have fun with friends, meet new people and such. I don't know when you'll get over him, but you will. And when you do, you'll meet a better guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010):

Perfectly normal.

alot of women many ages go through this, indeed it may be part of getting over that person in a break up process. No woman likes to see someone who was once special to them with another person.

Fortunately, from personal experiance i can promise you that you will find someone better, who you will love more and cherish more than this other person your thinking of.

all the best,

Angel x

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