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writes:I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i love her but she dated my friend a little before me and her but that's ok I know about that all along that's not a big deal. What I just found out is that thay started dating the last week of march then the first week of April she took a trip california for about two weeks and then he ended it about two weeks later / end of April so thay dated 4 weeks total but she was gone for two of them. The problom is that thay didn't hook up before the trip at all but after she got back thay started to. She told me that thay didn't have sex but she gave him head. And she told me that she did that for him like six times over two week/ mid April to end of April. Is that how all girls are ? I feel like that's alot in that time frame and for only dating a little while and. I feel like she was his play toy . It makes me feel like she is easy. And she told me she know it was never going to work out Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): this is only a problem if she's not giving you head.
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reader, Flyguymyeye  +, writes (16 January 2010):
I think niave is perhaps a more accurate description. Many women put out as a way of trying to establish a relationship. It's not ideal, but if you want to be with her you have to accept it.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 well, for me your question raises other questions, and I find there are too many grey areas to be able to say she is or isnt a slut or a decent girl.
Why was this girl telling you what she did with an ex boyfriend, did you ask her about her previous sexual experience, did you lead her on for the details or did she just kinda come out with it while you were having a nice piece a pizza or something.
Are you sure you didnt ask for information that was none of your business anyway?
And what about the other boy's part in this, maybe he coerced her someway, maybe she didnt want to give him oral, how does the anonymous aunt know that it was normal for her, you dont say in your question that she was or wasnt ashamed.
Maybe she was his play toy, maybe she didnt know how to say no.Maybe he told her that if she loved him she would, we werent there, you werent there, the other aunts weren't there. We dont know. Maybe she thought that was what was expected when you are in a relationship. Maybe she is a decent girl who got it wrong. Maybe she thought doing this would "make it work".
You are young yet, probably too immature (not in a bad way) to be able to handle her previous behaviour, but please dont paint her as an easy girl without all the facts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): No!!! Decent girls are not like that.. Sluts are! She easy,and definetly not the type of girl you want to date! You should cut her off and cut her off fast! She's going to get wort over time! It seems like she doesn;t care about her reputation or her body! This girl is what you call easy pu&^y! Dump her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): As I women Im going to give you my opinion, you say you are in love with her but from my point of view she is a easy girl for her to give him oral that many times in two weeks has easy written all over it And not only that for her to admit it just like that to your face says she is use to doing this like that is normal for her and she is not ashamed of it My advice to you is to think things over Do you really want to give her a chance? Is this the type of women you want to be with?
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