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writes:This question about my wifewe got married 16 years, we are from Inda. we both are educated engineers.from the right beginning onwards my wife do not have sexual initiative..always if I need intercourse I have to take initiative. she is healty and have good orgasam..but no initiative for sex at all..we have two kids and her periods are irregular always, I am 46 and wife is 39 yrs old .kindly advice what to do
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 January 2010):
Have you talked to her about it?
She may have been told it is the man's job to initiate things.
Tell her you would find it really really great if she were to come to you. And when she does make sure you give her an extra good time.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Wives always complain that husbands never initiate any leisure activities.. that they have to suggest going out.
When you do start, if she responds then why do you have a problem? As long as she looks like she is having fun let it be...
Maybe she feels that if she initiates and you turn her down, she won't be able to handle it... It could be that your sex life pattern is such that she knows when to expect it from you... and is happy with that much.
Do you discuss sexual lives at all.. what turns you on, what turns her on. Masturbation, fantasies? If you do then mention it to her then. Lead her into initiating it otherwise...
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