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writes:Well I need help with a situation that me and my girlfriend is having. We been dating not too long ago, I am 15 and she is 17, but she is worry about the age and she said it bothers her alot, I've try many ways to convince her that age doesn't matter but nothing seem to help I'm running out of idea's can you guys help me. I really love my girlfriend and I don't want to lose her at all. We're gonna break up soon, due to age difference what can I do to convince her that it doesn't matter? please help me. please... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): 2 years? She's worried about 2 years?
That doesn't even count as a gap.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 January 2010):
I'm going out with a woman quite a few years older than me, and she did find the age gap a bit difficult at first. Now she does't notice it, the reason being I've always treated her very well, and she decided she'd accept me as I am, rather than just woprry about age. If your girlfriend can't accept you for who you are, then she's not the one for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Age is just a number, it doesn't matter. A relationship is about how much both people care and love eachother and how much they wanna be together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Well, you need to ask her, If it were the other way around and she was 15 and you were 17, would it matter as much? Age doesn't matter and 2 years makes no difference. I'm 13, and my boyfriend is 15, and we both have absolutly NO problem with that. That's why I'm saying, just ask her, if she was younger than you, would it bother her as much?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Hi, :-) I started dating my boyfriend 3 years back. When we started dating he was 15, and I was 16. At first, to be very honest, the age difference did bother me mostly because my friends gave me a hard time about it, and it made me feel as though I was doing something wrong. We really did care about each other from the start, and we've managed to stay together til today and we make each other very happy.
Overtime, I grew more mature and realized it would of been silly to break things off over something so tiny, as I would of missed out on the best experiences of my life. :-) Hope this helped you somehow. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): well age is nothing but a number and 2 yeras is realy nothing i'm 5 years older then my husband first it botherd me no i'm ok as long he loves me that ist kep tell her u love her an that ist good luck
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reader, mason361  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 I think it could be her friends doing, if her friends are giving her a hard time over this, I'd understand. She does look like a cougar, and that isnt ever good. but if she loves you, then its fine
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): 2 years isnt a difference, I once dated a girl 4 years older. I think its because girls are suppose to date older guys in thier minds cause its "hotter". But when us guys date older girls we are called cougar bait. She needs to love you for who you are, not for how old you are.
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