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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey :)for the past few days my boyfriend has been acting strangely. We go to different schools in the same town so we only get to see each other a few times a week, but when we do he's always happy and funny like usual. He is also happy and funny when we speak online. If I ask him how he is he'd usually reply with "i'm good thanks :) you?" but for the past couple of days it's been "alright. you?" and yesterday when he had to go he simply put "i'm gunna get an early night. goodnight x x x" and he usually says he loves me. I admit I was upset when he didn't say it and it is silly to get upset about but he then texted me saying goodnight and that he loves me. During this conversation I asked him if he was sure that he was okay as he was being rather distant, he replied with "fine." Today when we were speaking online he said he couldn't be bothered to talk online anymore and that he'd text me if i wanted to do anything at the weekend. I don't know what's up with him as he's usually extremely chirpy and stuff, it's like I'm speaking to a different person. I would ask him if he's okay again but I don't want to annoy him and I want to give him space but I'm worried. What should I do?Thanks in advance :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): If you're really worried, you should meet with him in person, not online, not through texting. Get together with him and talk to him about it. Tell him that you feel like something's wrong and it's really bothering you and you would like to know so you could help him. He should be able to talk to you, but don't jump to any conclusions, it might just be family problems, you never know. Just try to talk to him in person about it, he might open up more.
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