A
female
age
30-35,
*icoletta
writes:This is th first time I have devoted my energy to write a letter open for everyone to see about my love. This love has provided me with happiness, strength and smile for almost a year now.I write now because I have discovered that I have become tired of being strong and happy for the same cause - a dream. What is my point?... Here is my love story.I met him in january through a friend. We clicked during the dinner and he drove me home. We didn't exchange any numbers... we just knew each others names and very soon I found him on facebook. He never replied my friend request so after two weeks I took it away. After another 4 weeks I got a friend request from him, it had turned out that he was in Brazil for 5 weeks vacation. And after that it just took off. We had several dates and one night when he was going to drop me off we kissed and he was immediately attracted to me the way he kissed and held me. We took a day at a time because our life style are so different. I was just finishing high school while he already had a job. But we met and our dates were lovely! And he was never to disappoint me. The more intense we got in our relationship I noticed that his life somewhere had strange motives of why he couldn't see me... so he started to give me his key to his apartment where he just had moved in yo wait for him. After 4 months we said that we love each other and became boyfriend and girlfriend... but unofficially. Because our age difference made it all more sensitive, he was 30 and I was 18. After 6 months I got to know that he stills lives with his ex because of their common son. What a chock! I felt like he had fooled me because now I was too much in love and engaged in this relationship to just stop breathing it and leave! So I gave it a chance and he showed me that it was really me he wanted to be with. He has know rent out his apartment for 6 months to continue stay at their house because she got very sick that made her quit her job.But I can't wait anymore, I had the strength for as long as he and I had a healthy and happy relationship. For 3 months he had been having a lot, taking care of their son because she is sick while working 9-5 and have quality time with his son and with me. Therefore, I got around 6 hours per week to see him for 3 months. I haven't even had the chance to be new-love with him because by the time we got a couple the issue with his ex happened! He is going to move away to his own apartment in january cause that is when the contract for the renting is over, and she is now fine again. But 6 hours! I feel so unloved. He asks me to wait to january to have time for us, and he really don't want to end this as he says that I am his everything. But I feel like I am everything BUT everything. What should I do? I am 18 and childless so I have more time on my hands, and I need more quality time with him! About the dream in the beginning is because it feels like I am dreaming more about him then spending time with him.... Help please. I need it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): You are not his "everything".
Simply put, you are infatuated with an older man, who likes the reaffirmation of his masculinity that occurs when a younger woman becomes infatuated with him.
You are being used.
Get a life with someone your own age.
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female
reader, Tbosse  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 If you realy love him surely you'll wait. You have already been able to cope for the past 3moths, its just 3weeks to be January.hang on there and see what 'next year' will be.goodluck
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